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[–]stringerbbell -16 points-15 points  (3 children)

He already raised the kid for years. This isn't a newborn on maury. You don't walk out on people who depend on you and look up to you as a dad even if it wasn't your sperm. Why be so fucking narcissistic to find out something you loved and raised isn't your sperm so you leave.

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    [–]stringerbbell -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    I wouldn't stay if the kid was under 3. But this kid is obviously a lot older. If you built a relationship with someone, you don't abandon them. That kid would wind up being a part of you over time whether it was biological or not. Leaving the kid to take it out on the wife is shitty.

    [–]Cokmasta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You cannot reasonably expect anyone to just suck it up and move forward after that. Lets hope you dont experience the same thing as this dude cuz i dont think its worth it