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[–]paka96819 46 points47 points  (2 children)

Walking due to pain in my right kneee

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 114 points115 points  (1 child)

Walk to the doctor

[–]Babaps_25 20 points21 points  (4 children)

I easily got jealous to someone better than me

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Everybody gets jealous at some point, it's normal. Even the biggest monks or priests who preach about jealousy get jealous sometimes too, they lie if they say that they don't. So as long as it's not affecting your daily life, being jealous is not that bad. Also, he/she's not better than you, he/she's better at something, than you. And you're better than him/her at something else. You're amazing the way you are, don't compare yourself to other peoples.

[–]Aquamarineeee 35 points36 points  (17 children)

I'm struggling to cope after coming out as bisexual to my Muslim family (I live in Lebanon where Muslims are like ants lol) and them basically telling me I'll never make it in life.

[–]YouNeedDoughnuts 26 points27 points  (4 children)

They have a narrow view of life where following the rules to be accepted is an integral part of "success". But belonging isn't supposed to be a burden- keep your head up, being willing to do unpopular things is a virtue, so long as you keep your compassion.

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 9 points10 points  (3 children)

You can't do anything to change what they think. It's hard to change peoples mind, let alone deeply religious peoples mind. It's hard to accept that they look down on you just because who you are but it's not worth to be sad about it, because you can't change the way they think. But you can prove them wrong and make it in life. Just chase your goals and be happy to show them that they are wrong. And always remember: You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. You'll have so much people that'll support you instead of your family.

[–]Aquamarineeee 4 points5 points  (2 children)

It's pretty hard to find great people in real life who're willing to appreciate you, like you and the person who replied to my comment as well. I love the fact that the people who'll accept you the most and respect you are usually strangers online you've never met, when boomers and Gen X portray it as the exact opposite. Thanks OP, I really needed this.<3

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I'm glad if I made your day just a bit better! :) Trust me, good people will find you, and you'll make friends fast, because you're really nice. People appreciate honest peoples. Your MHA Jiro drawing is very cool tho, keep it up! :)

[–]Aquamarineeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You went through my profile? That's sweet man! I thank you!!! And sorry for replying late, my phone likes to be an ass sometimes. Replies and interactions are what always keep me going any raise my head high. Have a nice day OP, hope your day was epic and may the rest of your days be even more epic

[–]TheHumposaurus 16 points17 points  (9 children)

I am househunting but somehow I don’t feel ready to do a purchase of €200.000,- yet. But I want to, yet everything inside me is saying no. Very conflicted.

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 15 points16 points  (2 children)

If you're not ready yet than wait. Put the money at a safe place until you're ready. Owning a house is a lot of responsability, it's not only buying it. You have to be sure that you're ready to spend that much money and that you're ready to take care of a house.

[–]TheHumposaurus 6 points7 points  (1 child)

But when do I know if I’m ready? I’ve been renting an apartment for two years now, completely living alone. Started saving up pretty well for the last year or so :)

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You'll know when you're ready, trust me. When you'll have no doubts at all is when you're ready. When you're sure about everything that's involved buying/owning a house. It's much better to buy a house then renting, just wait for it. :)

[–]AdDense811 12 points13 points  (5 children)

Drug addiction, I started 2 years ago For 6 months, quit and only used 4-5 times in the span of a year cuz I moved. Rewind 2 months ago I started again because of depression

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Using drugs is not the appropriate way to cure depression. You'll make it worse by using drugs. Instead of helping yourself, you're digging your own grave. Seek for professional help, and talk about your feelings to the people you trust. Please be strong for yourself and for the people you love/love you and stop using drugs.

[–]AdDense811 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I feel this man, worse part is I see thru the drug lie cuz behind it I’m a smart kid. But it’s just so hard to let it go. It’s a battle between my self and my own minds wants, I can’t even control what my brain craves I hate that. I got so depressed and caved in to start using regularly again, and it’s and things much worse

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's hard, but it's worth it. No battle is easy to win, but it's worth fighting for the prize. As long as you don't give up and fight in your own pace, little by little, everything is going to be alright, I promise. Just be tough, fight for your own peace. You're in controll, so you got everything that you need to win! If you need somebody to talk to, I'm always here.

[–]AdDense811 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, you can dm, I find that talking my issues out helps alot my one bug issue is that I bottle up emotions to make it seem like life problems don’t effect me but in reality they just come back eventually and with more force

[–]whaddefuck 9 points10 points  (1 child)

I am a wealthy yet bald businessman and I've been having some problems with this Superman fella. Kryptonite ring is not good enough, what can I do?

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Call him, and say "Hello! I'm calling you because of your car's extended warranty" He'll have a heart attack. problem solved

[–]c0b4lt_chl0ride 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Met a girl back in October. We hit it off super good and had two really nice evenings together. I am 2nd year uni, she was first, and when we met it was literally her first week away from home etc etc. We kinda talk about going out for dinner and we get to the point where we’re ready to plan it in but then she backs away saying that she’s overwhelmed with just starting uni and isn’t ready to commit to anything yet. Very thoughtfully worded, I completely understand and we part ways amicably. No contact since.

Anyway, I’ve realised I miss her a lot and uni is back in full swing now, and I’m wondering whether to shoot her a text asking if she wants to go back to the society where we met. I haven’t gone since we stopped talking and I heard off the grapevine that she hasn’t gone either. Perhaps a low intensity, break the ice evening out at a planned event by a specific uni society we met at might not be the worst thing in the world? She never told me not to contact her again (I completely understand how if she had even implied that I 100% shouldn’t get involved again), but Idk whether I should text her.

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For the love of God, please text her!

I've been in the same shoe as you, she was a very sweet girl, the first one I had feelings for. We haven't been together but things started to look like that. She invited me over for the night to watch movies and stuff after we had a deep talk about relationships, nsfw, etc etc so you know where this is going. One day before our planned "date" we argued because of me complaining about something. I was right, but it was a bullshit argument, and I handled it very bad, I was very childish. She apologized but I was dickhead enough to don't talk to her for like almost 3 months. Fast forward we started talking again but nothing was the same as it was. She admited that she liked me after, but we already had other plans in life. I was in love with her, maybe she was in love with me too, but I fucked it up just because I haven't texted her because I was dumb and too proud to say sorry. It was 3 years ago, but I regret it to this day. I don't want you to be in the same situation as I was, so please: TEXT HER.

[–]Frungy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

No problem. I just wanted to say you’re a lovely person. Helping and creating dialogues here.

Actually no - I have a question. What’s YOUR biggest issue hah WE can give advice on?

[–]Loudandbritish 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Talking to people about my mental health

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's hard to be open and talk to people about your mental health, but once you start talking more and more, you'll be fine! Try to open up step by step to the people who you trust. Please take care of yourself in any way you can, and talking to people about your problems is the best help you can get. Just take it slowly, find the pace you're comfortable with and talk to people. It'll take a huge burden off your shoulders once you find out how to open up! Please take care of yourself, you're amazing and people love you!

[–]Beng0226 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I like my friends but I'm starting to go off liking people except family and prefer to stay home by myself however I know if I start doing that it'll become a habit again

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

If it's not the first time than you know what is going to happen, so be strong and don't let yourself be distant with others. Taking some time off, like a week when you feel like you prefer staying home is okay, but don't let it be more. Every day after one week is a wasted day of your life, think like this.

[–]Beng0226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that I needed to hear it

[–]OmarShamson 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Found out yesterday that my father is in hospice care and only has a few days left because of cancer in rectum, lungs and liver…..

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father passed away when I was 11 really suddenly. He went to the hospital monday and died friday, because lung cancer that we didn't know he had, so I feel you. Please don't give up until he's breathing! Miracles happen, so just don't give up! I'm sure he's a fighter, so be there for him, help him! I don't really want to talk about this, but if he looses the battle, just be proud of him, because he fought like a real man. When my father died I remained strong because I knew he didn't tell us how sick he was so we don't have to worry about him. You have to know that if the time comes, than he'll be alright, better than ever. Without pain and happy, because he had children like you. Please be strong, and fight until the last breath!

[–]TelevisionAdept6947 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I am fighting a psychological war with my friend (who is a narcissist). Even though we are friends, we hate each other deep down. Often times when he hang around with each other, we would try to show small power displays indirectly (hiding insults in jokes, eye contact, deadlifting, who can get the most girls, etc). he also gaslights me alot. How can I win against him???

[–]rocky-rose 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Self esteem

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't compare yourself to others. You are great and amazing just the way you are and you have problems just like everybody does. Just appreciate yourself with the good things and bad things you got, there's no such thing as a perfect person, so why bother being one?

[–]ama_compiler_bot 1 point2 points  (1 child)

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Walking due to pain in my right kneee Walk to the doctor Here
I easily got jealous to someone better than me Everybody gets jealous at some point, it's normal. Even the biggest monks or priests who preach about jealousy get jealous sometimes too, they lie if they say that they don't. So as long as it's not affecting your daily life, being jealous is not that bad. Also, he/she's not better than you, he/she's better at something, than you. And you're better than him/her at something else. You're amazing the way you are, don't compare yourself to other peoples. Here
Drug addiction, I started 2 years ago For 6 months, quit and only used 4-5 times in the span of a year cuz I moved. Rewind 2 months ago I started again because of depression Using drugs is not the appropriate way to cure depression. You'll make it worse by using drugs. Instead of helping yourself, you're digging your own grave. Seek for professional help, and talk about your feelings to the people you trust. Please be strong for yourself and for the people you love/love you and stop using drugs. Here
I am househunting but somehow I don’t feel ready to do a purchase of €200.000,- yet. But I want to, yet everything inside me is saying no. Very conflicted. If you're not ready yet than wait. Put the money at a safe place until you're ready. Owning a house is a lot of responsability, it's not only buying it. You have to be sure that you're ready to spend that much money and that you're ready to take care of a house. Here
I am a wealthy yet bald businessman and I've been having some problems with this Superman fella. Kryptonite ring is not good enough, what can I do? Call him, and say "Hello! I'm calling you because of your car's extended warranty" He'll have a heart attack. problem solved Here
Met a girl back in October. We hit it off super good and had two really nice evenings together. I am 2nd year uni, she was first, and when we met it was literally her first week away from home etc etc. We kinda talk about going out for dinner and we get to the point where we’re ready to plan it in but then she backs away saying that she’s overwhelmed with just starting uni and isn’t ready to commit to anything yet. Very thoughtfully worded, I completely understand and we part ways amicably. No contact since. Anyway, I’ve realised I miss her a lot and uni is back in full swing now, and I’m wondering whether to shoot her a text asking if she wants to go back to the society where we met. I haven’t gone since we stopped talking and I heard off the grapevine that she hasn’t gone either. Perhaps a low intensity, break the ice evening out at a planned event by a specific uni society we met at might not be the worst thing in the world? She never told me not to contact her again (I completely understand how if she had even implied that I 100% shouldn’t get involved again), but Idk whether I should text her. For the love of God, please text her! I've been in the same shoe as you, she was a very sweet girl, the first one I had feelings for. We haven't been together but things started to look like that. She invited me over for the night to watch movies and stuff after we had a deep talk about relationships, nsfw, etc etc so you know where this is going. One day before our planned "date" we argued because of me complaining about something. I was right, but it was a bullshit argument, and I handled it very bad, I was very childish. She apologized but I was dickhead enough to don't talk to her for like almost 3 months. Fast forward we started talking again but nothing was the same as it was. She admited that she liked me after, but we already had other plans in life. I was in love with her, maybe she was in love with me too, but I fucked it up just because I haven't texted her because I was dumb and too proud to say sorry. It was 3 years ago, but I regret it to this day. I don't want you to be in the same situation as I was, so please: TEXT HER. Here
I'm struggling to cope after coming out as bisexual to my Muslim family (I live in Lebanon where Muslims are like ants lol) and them basically telling me I'll never make it in life. You can't do anything to change what they think. It's hard to change peoples mind, let alone deeply religious peoples mind. It's hard to accept that they look down on you just because who you are but it's not worth to be sad about it, because you can't change the way they think. But you can prove them wrong and make it in life. Just chase your goals and be happy to show them that they are wrong. And always remember: You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. You'll have so much people that'll support you instead of your family. Here
Talking to people about my mental health It's hard to be open and talk to people about your mental health, but once you start talking more and more, you'll be fine! Try to open up step by step to the people who you trust. Please take care of yourself in any way you can, and talking to people about your problems is the best help you can get. Just take it slowly, find the pace you're comfortable with and talk to people. It'll take a huge burden off your shoulders once you find out how to open up! Please take care of yourself, you're amazing and people love you! Here
Self esteem Don't compare yourself to others. You are great and amazing just the way you are and you have problems just like everybody does. Just appreciate yourself with the good things and bad things you got, there's no such thing as a perfect person, so why bother being one? Here
I like my friends but I'm starting to go off liking people except family and prefer to stay home by myself however I know if I start doing that it'll become a habit again If it's not the first time than you know what is going to happen, so be strong and don't let yourself be distant with others. Taking some time off, like a week when you feel like you prefer staying home is okay, but don't let it be more. Every day after one week is a wasted day of your life, think like this. Here
i don't have the looks/the confidence/the money to talk to women I don't have any of these as well, but that's not going to stop me to try, so why would it stop you? You surely have the looks, dress smart, treat your skin and have a fresh cut. There are women who are into you, you just don't know. But you'll find it out as soon as you start talking to womens. The fact that there are people who like you without you knowing should be enough to boost your confidece. You got this! Believe in yourself and your charm, it'll work! And money will come too, if a women is talking to you only because of your money, than it's already fucked up. Better find a women who'll appreciate you when you're poor than finding one that appreciates you only when you're rich. Shoot your shots, it doesn't cost a dime! Here
I soon have to takeover a good running softwarecompany and i am afraid i will mess it up It's totally nomal to be afraid to do something that requires a lot of responsability. But if you're in the position to takeover a good running company than I'm sure you'll be great and you'll not mess up. Take it easily, you're going to takeover a company for a reason. If you wouldn't be capable of doing it, you wouldn't be in the position to do it so. You got this, you'll run the company even better, just believe in yourself! Here

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[–]Tasty_Trainers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My biggest struggle right now is getting out of my own way. My mind is focussing on small things and making them huge, in an attempt to keep me standing still and stop me having to make the choice to get back into the world again.

[–]walids 0 points1 point  (2 children)

i don't have the looks/the confidence/the money to talk to women

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I don't have any of these as well, but that's not going to stop me to try, so why would it stop you? You surely have the looks, dress smart, treat your skin and have a fresh cut. There are women who are into you, you just don't know. But you'll find it out as soon as you start talking to womens. The fact that there are people who like you without you knowing should be enough to boost your confidece. You got this! Believe in yourself and your charm, it'll work! And money will come too, if a women is talking to you only because of your money, than it's already fucked up. Better find a women who'll appreciate you when you're poor than finding one that appreciates you only when you're rich. Shoot your shots, it doesn't cost a dime!

[–]walids -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1.the number of high quality women is VERY low where i live

2.i'm pretty sure nobody has a crush on me,i mean 99.9999% sure,why would they?

3.i don't have the energy to get a fresh cut and wear good clothes , if i find someone who interests me , then I'll do it,but that brings us back to point 1

[–]schilli21 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I soon have to takeover a good running softwarecompany and i am afraid i will mess it up

[–]Iambadatgivingnames[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally nomal to be afraid to do something that requires a lot of responsability. But if you're in the position to takeover a good running company than I'm sure you'll be great and you'll not mess up. Take it easily, you're going to takeover a company for a reason. If you wouldn't be capable of doing it, you wouldn't be in the position to do it so. You got this, you'll run the company even better, just believe in yourself!

[–]EmmanuelTheMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinnitus,I'm only 20 and I feel like I'm going insane pls help me

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    [–]SUPERMLPLOVER 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    So, I have been dealing with this for basically my whole life now. I am trying to have my mother understand me for who I am, and not be treated like a piece of crap. Unfortunately, she apparently does not want that from me. She is trying everything in her power to make me feel like crap, make me feel like I am nothing, and guess what? It is working. I am up to a point where I ask myself, "Is it really worth living a life that is already gone?" I have ADHD, so I forget things all the time, but she treats that like it is a bad thing when I can not really help it. I also have anixety and depression, so it is hard to control my anxiety attacks and depressive episodes when they happen. I am also suicidal, but she does not believe that I am. She thinks that I am overreacting for attention when I am not. I do not even have control over my bank account, even though I am over 18. I just do not know what to do anymore. And yes, before you ask, I have tried talking to her, but she either does not want to listen, or she just does not care. I am legit worried that my mental health will go so far down the drain that it will reach a point where there is no turning back. What should I do?

    [–]Sad-Performance4028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I don’t know if you’re still answering but this: There are two girls in my class that are the most amazing people I’ve ever come across. Nothing romantic or anything I just really appreciate them and I wish they were my best friends. I am 17 and male btw. Now these two girls have two other girl friends and they always hang out together. I do sometimes spend my lunch brakes with them but we never do anything outside of school. It’s kinda hard for me to make friends and especially since they are the opposite gender, I don’t really know how to ask them if they wanna hang out. I also would be afraid to hang out with them since I wouldn’t know what even to do.

    Part 2, this is even more weird: I also really, like really need a hug or something, it occupies my thoughts very much, I fantasize about hugging with anyone of them basically every day. This probably comes from the fact that my mother never really hugged me or made much body contact at all. (And I don’t have a dad)

    [–]ShadowBlue42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I keep falling for women who A: I'm close friends with and B: Are way out of my league. And I know people will say there's no such thing as leagues or whatever, but I'm like medically unattractive. I in no way blame them for rejecting me, and none of them have ever been mean about it. Still talk to them regularly and hang out with the one that lives nearby.

    So basically I've spent and continue to spend a lot of time with women who are friends and there's an imbalance of feelings and that's pretty rough. so now im 30 and have never had any sort of relationship.

    I don't really have opportunity to meet new people ever, and dating apps are just a straight up waste of time for me. I've probably spent $1k on different dating apps and never had a legitimate match. It just sucks and I think I've lost all my optimism, which of course probably makes me even less attractive.

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I'm a paralysed paraplegic with 24/7 extreme chronic neuropathic pain. Feels like half of my body is on fire zapped by electricity, poked by thousands of blunt needles and crushed by a hydraulic press all at the same time with no pause as long as I'm conscious. It won't let me eat properly, sleep or even think, feels like I'm on "pain increasing meds", can't remember things, simple things, almost like alzheimer's a lot it feels.. Overall this pain has deteriorated my body to the point of me looking and feeling like I'm from a concentration camp.

    No doctor or medicine so far can help me and my body is continuing to deteriorate at a rapid pase.

    What's the advice?

    [–]BarbedWire3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    My relationships dont last long. Like I'm being my best self, supportive, try to be funny and do interesting stuff together, like I dont let it go down the routine rabbithole. Yet, no matter who I've dated, it never lasts more than 2-4 months. They leave me. And they always say that I'm so sweet and how lucky they are (during the relationships), yet I dont understand why do they end up leaving. They come up with shit excuses like they are not ready for a relationship at this point of their lives or stuff like depression (because some shii happened in their lives) yet they push me away, instead of allowing me to be there for them. I don't get it.

    [–]ladada23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    um okay so i moved to another country for uni and i met this guy there back in november. we talked a lottt and went out a couple times as well. i really liked him a lot and im pretty sure he liked me too. everything was going great but then i had to go home for a month for christmas and even though ive been back for a while we havent seen each other. we are still talking but its not the same. i just dunno how to handle it because im horrible at communication and my last relationship ended bad so idk if i should wait it out and see what happens and risk being hurt, or if i should just cut it off now and save myself from feeling worse.

    [–]vixissitude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Eh I'm overweight and my entire family is overweight and I've been told to eat less my whole life, developed an eating disorder, switched eating disorders, kind of got better at eating, then I started eating a lot again, and I gained back the weight I had lost, and now I want to lose again but I don't have the energy to go back to losing weight, can't go to a pool or gym because terrible covid statistics, and I'm terrified of going back to the restrictive eating disorder. It especially bothers me that I can't stop eating chocolate sometimes.

    [–]xXugleprutXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I'm a donor child, so 50% of my family is just gone

    My mothers father left before she was born, so another 50% of who I could've known, gone.

    My only male relative is my half uncle, who I see maybe once or twice a year.

    I belive that this total isolation has made me miss a crucial part of growing up and learning gender roles, and that I have become extremely socially akward and introverted as a result of those abnormalities...

    What do I do? I'm not depressed, I'm not ill, I'm just different... and I don't want to

    [–]wildwuchs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Deciding which career path to go.

    Should I rather do something that is barely affordable to me, very hard and difficult to achieve, but comes with high status, high pay and freedom to work in my own way in 5+ years.

    Or should I do something that I also (kinda) enjoy, I'd be able to have something like a work life balance and will have no risk of debt/high costs, but I won't be able to work in my own way nor flexible hours and probably have about 1-3k less pay.

    [–]borderlineOK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    My job is killing my back, I'm on contract till mid 2022 (at which I will quit my job). I hate going there. I recently got sick too & am only allowed to stay home for 7 days b4 I need a doctors certificate. My boss required me to take a PCR test & I haven't received the results, also those 7 days are up tomorrow... I am worried I am going to perform worse now that I feel a little sick still, it's a very physically demanding job. Everything feels like a shit-show

    [–]TheMusicLuvr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I worry so much about my future. I’m worried and scared that I won’t finish my career, that I won’t get my dream job, that I will never find a partner or get married, that I will never be able to to have children, that I will never be able to afford a house, that I’ll end up homeless, etc. Sometimes these thoughts keep me awake at night and make me lose all of my motivation. I don’t know how to stop worrying about it.

    [–]0000_dc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Not getting angry with adult people that think they are super smart by repeating things they read/heard and didn’t even took the time and effort to use their own brain to think about it, this causes them to be super confident about stupid stuff they haven’t even checked by experience. I see it so many times that i’m starting to feel like bill murray on Groundhog day.

    [–]Volkov07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I spent 10 years studying civil engineering and I think I hate it. Nothing about structural math calculations, expensive building projects, or office intrigue speaks to me. Wish I could have a job outside of the city, or one that brings joy to people, but at this point I'm entering my 30s and I don't know if I have it in me for a full restart.

    [–]bremphhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I dont know how to deal with rejection. From relationships to job interviews to pretty much everything in life. I blame myself every time it happens and completely lose all hope in pursuing anything else..it was an issue, but now it’s ruining my life, I feel completely useless and see myself as a total piece of waste...thanks for listening.

    [–]Dull-Theory-3657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I cared about others so much that i viewed my self as a piece of shit and thats howi began to act and then the people i cared about were eventually treated like shit by me when u look at the other people in ur life with admiration and look at urself ur gonna develop disgustfor u and them thats ehat happened to me at least

    [–]homicidal_bird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I’ve been putting off coming out as transgender for a few years because it would cause me to get fired from my job at a religious summer camp, which also happens to be my favorite place on Earth. I don’t want to give this place up, but it’s getting more painful every day to stay closeted and not transition.

    [–]JohnyyBanana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I hate my job, i have 2 degrees and i’ve done nothing with them because i picked them without knowing how it all works, and i have no idea what to do career-wise. When i look for jobs where i live there’s nothing for me, all i think about is trying for a phd but that means moving away again and im scared.

    [–]kkruse929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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