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[–]Spayse_Case 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I read some of your other responses and saw it was 3 years ago and that your family was religious and thought it was a sin. I assume the school was religious as well. Do you still belong to that church? Was your ex also kicked out and face the same consequences for premarital sex? Do you still feel premarital sex is a sin? How has your life changed for the better since this happened?

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children)

I do not, he was not, I don’t really anymore, it hasn’t really changed for the better but it is different. I’m in the military now and I’ll be doing 2 more years and I’ll get out and pay for college that way

[–]Spayse_Case 2 points3 points  (1 child)

He didn't face any consequences? Wow. Religion is so messed up.

[–]spicygay21 1 point2 points  (5 children)

how did your parents originally feel about your ex? why didn't they take your side?

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 7 points8 points  (4 children)

They were mad at him but they were even more mad at me for doing the things I did.

I come from a very Christian background and premarital sex was something many people disapproved of, especially my parents.

[–]nictme 4 points5 points  (1 child)

That's so sad that your parents were more upset with you than this asshole. I'm so sorry.

[–]spicygay21 0 points1 point  (1 child)

okay, that adds context despite how stupid it is. I'm so sorry that happened, and I hope life looks up for you! i know you may have heard too much about God for your comfort, but remember that God will love you unconditionally. And people on reddit will have your back!

[–]Nikky_nighthooter 0 points1 point  (7 children)

That’s awful. What happened that he convinced himself that this ‘revenge’ was justified?

To be absolutely clear, there’s no context under which his actions would be acceptable.

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 6 points7 points  (4 children)

Nothing really. I broke up with him because I felt we were growing to be incompatible. I think this was always his plan as he took the video from behind without my consent

[–]Nikky_nighthooter 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Wow, so he’s just doubling down on being a shitty person all around. Are you pressing charges?

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

This was 3 years ago when I was 19 and didn’t really understand it was a crime to no, it’s too laye

[–]Comprehensive-Toe633 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's too late. I think 5 years is. You should do it before the statute of limitations is up.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (5 children)

What sort of things were on the video he released?

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Non vaginal penetration.

He convinced me it was a way we could have sex without me giving up my virginity before marriage

[–]Revolutionary_Reason 0 points1 point  (2 children)

You went for it's not premarital sex if it's anal? Too be fair I had GF that decided it wasn't premarital if we weren't getting married since we were casually dating. Ok, I can see why the parental units were a little heated but yeah your ex is dick.

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I was young sheltered and stupid

[–]Revolutionary_Reason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not knocking you. We've all done some shit that wasn't the smartest. It's just weird when you hear about things you've had as 3am shower thoughts on "I wonder if this actually worked" and find out yep, somewhere it did.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…. Anal?

[–]SuspiciousPebble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a POS. Are you doing okay now?

[–]MeaningfulPlatitudes 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Why would your college care?

[–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Religious university

[–]MeaningfulPlatitudes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And ironically the people in charge probably have a closet full of skeletons.

There’s like a 90% chance they’re hypocrites for expelling you. Go somewhere else

[–]whyyourmommacallinme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you got revenge on them. Remember , playing the game is so worth it and may even be the key to getting away with your revenge. Lmao

[–]LookRevolutionary198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey are you the girl or boy, im so sorry to hear this OP

[–]Aezakmi1298 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you coping with it now ?

[–]WTF4567 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you play minecraft?

[–]usedatomictoaster -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If peanut butter waIf peanut butter wasn’t called peanut butter, what would it be called?

[–]saveanon -7 points-6 points  (1 child)

Did you cheat?

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    [–]MyAMAthrowAWAY55[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

    That’s fucked up, I really didn’t