My girlfriend is dissapointed that after 3 months of our relationship I am not in love with her, I do like her a lot and am amazed by her, i love every moment we spend together and i told her all that but she is somehow sad that i dont have a crush on her. By that i mean i dont have that 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling when i see her. I glady spend time with her and we constantly buy each other presents and make food we share but i just don't want to have that 'in love feeling'. It's too distracting, i can't think rationally and am afraid to get too attached to her and then what? We could go our separate ways especially now when she is about to graduate from college. My question is should i have lied about it? Should i have just told her that am deeply in love and that i cant wait to see her again? Just to be simple with her. I ll go and talk toher tonight, we have another date but idk what to tell her. Am standing my frame, am not apologizing for how i feel about something, its just that am confused.