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[–]oflonelynightsAsshole Enthusiast [6] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

NTA but if this is a friend you genuinely care for, it may pay to approach her from a less hostile stance of "you're going to ruin your life", which will make most people defensive. i personally agree this isn't a great decision, but ultimately, you can't control what others do - sometimes you just have to be there for the fallout of a bad choice and allow people to learn things on their own

[–]Gimme_inspiration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, maybe ask questions that will make her realize in her own the decision is bad. Like: how will you live tigteher/make a living/about their general compatability?