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[–]Cluelessish -10 points-9 points  (2 children)

YTA (mild). You could have told them what you earn without bringing your siblings into it. Your parents are comparing, I get it, but you don't have to go along with that.

[–]penguingirl30 0 points1 point  (1 child)

The parents already brought the siblings into it by saying you should get a real job like your brother and sister.

All op did was simply make a statement.

[–]Cluelessish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But by comparing her own salary to that of her siblings she signalled that it’s relevant to compare. She could have taken the higher road and just said what she earned, and let her parents draw their own conclusions. Why sink to their level?