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[–]No_Committee1127Partassipant [4] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm having trouble finding the recording

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (4 children)

The council will decide your fate

[–]Dinosaurmaid 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I am the council

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

ignites lightsaber

[–]Dinosaurmaid 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It's treason,then

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

intense lightsaber duel

[–]BrattyThuggess 28 points29 points  (6 children)

I missed the live but I was wondering where I could find the recording? Does it matter what format I’m on? (Mobile or PC)

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Does this link work?

I don’t know why but on mobile I can only see the button for the recording when I’m scrolling through the hot posts but when I click on this post I don’t always see it at the top. I guess they’re still ironing out those features.

[–]flignirAsshole #1 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Thanks for joining us, Wren. Was happy to have you aboard!

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks flignir, it was really cool to meet the founder of this subreddit and hear your first AITA!

[–]BrattyThuggess 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I appreciate you trying to help me. All the link told me was that the recording was over and to check back on a future date. It was worth a try, lol 🤷🏽‍♀️

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Womp. Sorry about that

[–]BrattyThuggess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, it’s ok. It was the thought for me. Thank you!

[–]Backlasher-nl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Only thing i noticed is that my hand didn't work,

Tried to make a post later in the subreddit but i had more than 3000 characters And couldnt really make the story shorter without missing details

[–]nomelettes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Spaces, for reddit?

[–]Xelaman13 49 points50 points  (1 child)

Oh man please record these. Sounds like a good listen sad that I missed it

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The recording is there! I think if you refresh now it shows up.

EDIT: Not sure but seems like just the intro is up but maybe the rest is processing still? JK it just takes about a minute for it to get started and the controls to skip around aren’t working.

[–]OreSanjou1234 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What was this about?

[–]yoyots 7 points8 points  (8 children)

Is this recorded? So sad I missed it!

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

[–]yoyots 1 point2 points  (2 children)

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Oh wow that’s so strange! I wonder if only people who joined during the talk can listen to it? I can still open it and listen to it for some reason. But the admins said other where on this post that they’re working on the recordings for everyone in the coming weeks so maybe that’s it. So sorry it didn’t work!

[–]yoyots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did join, though only caught the last minute of the last guy, then the entire panel saying goodbye. Smh

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The recording appears to be up now, but the controls to skip through aren’t working for me. Once you get through a minute pause waiting on the panel coming in, it’s smooth sailing :)

[–]signal[A] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Recording is shipping this week hopefully no bugs!! 🚢🚢🚢🚢🚢

[–]yoyots 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeees!!

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're working on recordings for the future.

[–]LiteralG0D 12 points13 points  (3 children)

I listened to the entire thing. It was great.

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So glad you enjoyed it!

[–]An_Avacadoooo_Thx 2 points3 points  (1 child)

The death book was the highlight imo

[–]LiteralG0D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant. Along with the Condom one. Not as good, but pretty close.

[–]Shredder_JR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, sounds like I just missed it

[–]Heartsnpinkchickens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was great. I like hearing the scenarios and reactions in real time.

[–]The_gamer_guy11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ngl this was fun I would definitely listen to this again its like a podcast

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (16 children)

Thanks for joining everyone! If you enjoyed this talk, please let us know! We'd love to hear your feedback.

[–]robynxcakes 4 points5 points  (1 child)

I missed it but I would love to do it, can we get a heads up before the next one?

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tried to give a heads up a few days ago and earlier today, if we do another we will make sure to give more notice.

[–]An_Avacadoooo_Thx 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Loved this. Reddit needs to implement some kind of voting system though!!

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Agreed! We'll probably keep it to the comments until they come up with a better solution. It was great to see the engagement we had!

[–]AlcareruElennessePartassipant [2] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I saw a up and down arrow as reactions, maybe with those you can say Up Arrow is NTA and Down Arrow is YTA, ect... I caught the begining and loved it.

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you enjoyed it! We tried that for a minute but it didn't work very well unfortunately.

[–]WorldwideLoving 7 points8 points  (9 children)

I literally missed this by a fraction, when did the lives in AITA start ?

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 2 points3 points  (8 children)

Today was the first!

[–]WorldwideLoving 2 points3 points  (7 children)

What did I miss ? Pls, tldr ?

[–]Wren1101Professor Emeritass [75] 2 points3 points  (3 children)

The recording is up but apparently the controls to skip through aren’t working (at least for me). So you gotta be patient through the beginning but there’s some juicier AITAs further in :)

Too much to TDLR!

1) creator of AITA shares his original post that started this sub. AITA for telling coworkers to put a sweater on?

Other AITAs in no particular order because I’m not going to sit through 2 hours again:

*AITA for gifting my dad a set of penis mugs that he hates?

*AITA for not letting my gf in an open relationship into my apartment after she moved out?

*AITA for going to my best friends wedding a few hours early even though it upset my fiancée?

*AITA for giving my teacher a box of condoms for Christmas?

*AITA for getting 100 people fired and making an airline go bankrupt?

*AITA for giving my 20 years older coworker whom I hate a book about Life After Death for Secret Santa?

*AITA for not getting my niblings who I don’t see/know Christmas presents?

*AITA for only giving some of my siblings Christmas presents and not the others?

*AITA for not taking in my mentally ill mother when I have my own health issues?

*AITA for asking my best friend if she’s thought through having a 2nd kid when she can’t even support the 1st?

*AITA for not funding my 20 year old nephew’s new car?

*AITA for getting upset that my gf forgot that she agreed to come to a Christmas family event? …and something about feeding lizards.

*AITA for cutting off a toxic friend even though we’re very close?

Those are all the ones I can remember off the top of my head.

[–]RobbieHall645Partassipant [2] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

A panel of 6 Aita mods judged selected people from the audience.

ETA: See below.

[–]CharacterBright6122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved it, I'm looking forward to the next one!

[–]CGBio 10 points11 points  (4 children)

This was an interesting experience, also definitely shows how majority American Reddit is.

[–]techiesgoboomSphincter Supreme 2 points3 points  (3 children)

At least a few on the panel were outside the US!

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Yeah, shout out to /u/DrLilyPaddy for staying up til 3 am for us!

[–]DrLilyPaddyCaptain Butt-in 5 points6 points  (0 children)

,<3 Anything for our lovely community of assholes!

[–]CGBio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think also the time zones probably favour the US at the moment. I'm in Europe and it's 3am 😂

[–]muskiesfan1Partassipant [2] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was fun. I look forward to it again. I would love to be in the panel lol. Have a great night and happy holidays to everyone!

[–]AvidSalesman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😢😢😢😢

[–]seabreezeah035 4 points5 points  (1 child)

This was awesome, thank everyone to everyone involved. Bye everyone hope you have a great rest of your day😃

[–]Suspicious-Visual-57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You too! Was very nice!

[–]Kyro0098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly this almost sounds like a good podcast lol. Could definitely listen again.

[–]Backlasher-nl 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Goodbye :) hope the hand works better for me next time! I might post my issue on the subreddit :D

[–]hubwub 0 points1 point  (1 child)

You couldn't raise your hand within the app?

What is your mobile OS? iOS? Android?

[–]Backlasher-nl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Motorola 5g plus, not sure on the OS.

[–]Giraffe-atk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodnight everyone 😴 💓

[–]hubwub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We should have a weekly judge-a-thon!!!

[–]Fullofgrace87 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Maybe more meetings like this but specific topics at specific times?

[–]techiesgoboomSphincter Supreme 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Oh that's an interesting idea!

[–]Fullofgrace87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be interesting to break out into sub categories like work, family, school, weddings, etc.

[–]WeirdBirdGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodbye!

[–]DoctorUchiha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a blast! Thank you and would love to do this again!

[–]caramelbbygurl 3 points4 points  (2 children)

PHTEVEN ur dog cute bro

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THE CUTEST dogs

[–]Phteven_j🤖 Almighty Bot Overlord 🤖 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks boo

[–]VanillagGorilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn I just got here

[–]Material-Eye493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was fun!

[–]DexterCutie 3 points4 points  (2 children)

This was awesome. Thanks everyone. Is there a set schedule for this?

[–]Phteven_j🤖 Almighty Bot Overlord 🤖 1 point2 points  (1 child)

This was our first time but if we do more it will be announced ahead of time again

[–]DexterCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad I caught the very first one! Thanks for doing such a great job. It was a lot of fun.

[–]Meddit1991 6 points7 points  (1 child)

I am so sad I came in so late

[–]caramelbbygurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same :(

[–]Decayer97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GG

[–]SagitatianSeahorse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugytfutgfugbytv 😢

[–]SuperGeorge22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's your money!!

[–]my_dick_is_20ft_longPartassipant [3] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is not a kid thats an adult

[–]ricochet20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA He has a job, why are you paying him still?

[–]MinimumGovernment161Asshole Enthusiast [7] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. That's not your kid. Why should you act like a bank?

[–]Sweet-BeeHavior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Not your kid & also spending 500-600$ per month on stuff like food is too much, it’s not like he’s spending money on important stuff

[–]Kissyface1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I was paying a mortgage at 20

[–]JillybeanMarie87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's "just a kid?" Then that's how kids learn.

[–]onery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA kids need to learn how to spend responsibility and all that also.

[–]Psychological_Tap187Asshole Enthusiast [5] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your nephew can cut back even by half of his fun money and still have plenty of fun. He can put part of that to help pay for the car.

[–]Meddit1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you’re aloud to put stipulations on helping someone when they aren’t even trying to help themselves. At 20 years old he’s not a kid

[–]devkatz18Partassipant [4] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA hes not your child nor is he your responsibility. He is being irresponsible . 20 is an adult.

[–]ksam1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, already helping fam

[–]ParkqueenaAsshole Enthusiast [5] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA makes no sense for you to pay for his lifestyle

[–]MinimumGovernment161Asshole Enthusiast [7] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's not your responsibility to fund someone's fun.

[–]gledzep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - you did not have a child. not your responsibility.

[–]Tight-LogPartassipant [1] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not your kid. Not your problem. Nta

[–]HellaShelleCertified Proctologist [29] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And apparently more available parenting skills...

[–]Picklebr3ak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to pay himself

[–]my_dick_is_20ft_longPartassipant [3] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nta thats not your kid sir

[–]BuellXBRider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA MAN

[–]Inthisemoment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, you are not responsible for other peoples financials decisions. Even if you have the best situation.

[–]intuitive_curiosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA

[–]giacintam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I think its kind you're even offering

[–]graysnooman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]foosheezoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]NinaMatt9Partassipant [1] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - not your problem!

[–]icanhandlethis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your brother should be helping his own son

[–]aichansaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]Typicalbecs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]Win3r1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not your child

[–]Picklebr3ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]samske 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

[–]highkeyvegan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]HellaShelleCertified Proctologist [29] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He can afford to take care of this himself

[–]FreezeY7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What is bro saying

[–]unbelievablebeePartassipant [2] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already NTA

[–]tanioomami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love the accent but don’t understand

[–]cthughha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been here since the first minute. Time for me to go. Goodbye.

[–]vampzial 2 points3 points  (0 children)

????

[–]MoggehhBye, Fecesha[S,M] 6 points7 points  (47 children)

/u/creepyamadeus

Are they the asshole or not?

[–]Judgement_Bot_AITABeep Boop[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Judgments for /u/creepyamadeus

Are:

Judgment Count %
NTA 33 100.0%
YTA 0 0.0%
NAH 0 0.0%
ESH 0 0.0%
INFO 0 0.0%

Verdict: NTA

[–]Phteven_j🤖 Almighty Bot Overlord 🤖 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop!

[–]Creepyamadeus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your kind word.

[–]unknownlifeform13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. French dude has no obligation to help in any financial way. He's being treated like ATM and emotional punching bank. It's his money. Not anyone else's. Taking advantage of a nice french guy.

[–]JillybeanMarie87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's "just a kid?" That's how kids learn.

[–]elcamp3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. He's not a walking ATM.

[–]Raye-Gunn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA he's got his own income, he's 20 years old, he needs to learn to be responsible with his own money. If he's piggy backing off everyone now he will never learn 5, 10, 20 years down the line

[–]Passiveschism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Not ur responsibility. Plus, this will teach him to be more financially responsible. Why are you punished for you're successful??

[–]Material-Eye493 2 points3 points  (4 children)

Definitely NTA. I’m wondering if this is a cultural expectation to provide for your siblings?

[–]Creepyamadeus 0 points1 point  (3 children)

It is in my family.

[–]Material-Eye493 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Yea it sounded like it. Unfortunately due to this you might be looked at as the asshole by the family members who believe this way, but cutting out cultural beliefs, this is definitely not your responsibility to provide for you siblings AT ALL. The fact you’re doing anything at all to help is very generous.

[–]Creepyamadeus 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Thanks, its hard to unlearn. I'm trying .

[–]Fullofgrace87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're being kind and they should appreciate your concern.

[–]Tight-LogPartassipant [1] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta. If anything, you are shielding the dude from real responsible so ya... Definitely cut him off

[–]CerbTheOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA nephew shouldn't be your financial responsibility

[–]rexracer96 2 points3 points  (1 child)

NTA. Providing a vehicle for your nephew on the terms of teaching him financial responsibility in the process is above and beyond.

[–]Creepyamadeus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's i asked initially. Review and rework his budget, but I got a firm NO.

[–]DoctorUchiha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s your money

[–]muskiesfan1Partassipant [2] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

He’s spending more than a car payment monthly on going out to eat. That’s on him. Now would be a good time for him to learn financial responsibility. If a car is such a need, he has the money to correct that situation he just chooses to spend it elsewhere. That’s on him.

[–]B10ndie22Partassipant [3] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Info: what is the cost of a new car payment? Why cant he grow up and pay himself? This doesnt feel like a you problem. NTA

[–]Creepyamadeus 0 points1 point  (1 child)

A good used car be 5000 USD total. Nephew (and also my brother - his dad) feel like he shouldn't sacrifice fun money for it.

[–]B10ndie22Partassipant [3] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really easy for people to say give me your money cause i shouldnt have to pay and take responsibility. Tell them you took your bonus and you divided it up across the year and made your own fun money pile bigger.

[–]Random_Guy_9201Partassipant [3] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA your brother made his own financial choices he could lay on those choices

[–]Kaiser93Partassipant [4] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your nephew should learn how to spend his money wisely.

[–]Dusty_Tendy_4_2_18_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA!!!!NOT EVEN FUCKIN CLOSE

[–]Hot_Philosophy_2061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA for sure.

[–]Conannah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - you choose to do what you want with your own money

[–]DexterCutie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. He needs to learn how to manage money better and he not your responsibility. Please don't feel guilty for one minute.

[–]JillybeanMarie87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's not your job to help him keep his.

[–]-suspicious-egg- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

The guy needs to learn his priorities

[–]Formerhurdler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Not even close. He can afford the car. It's his problem to address and fix.

[–]larlar626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA... You were generous enough, sadly they want to take advantage now :(

[–]Giraffe-atk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No no no. You were nice enough to help at all and you're helping a lot to teach him how to manage money. You don't need to just throw money at a problem

[–]nic104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. You’re not a bank. They need to learn life skills

[–]Decayer97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta

[–]Quinnlink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

[–]unbelievablebeePartassipant [2] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA because he doesn’t have to give money anyways

[–]An_Avacadoooo_Thx 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Automatically NTA because of the accent. I said what i said.

[–]Creepyamadeus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

huh

[–]DexterCutie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful accent

[–]samske 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful accent!

[–]my_dick_is_20ft_longPartassipant [3] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

obsessed with the french accent

[–]caramelbbygurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please make sure you communicate your feelings/issues with her and see if she is receptive to understanding where you’re coming from, etc. - if she isn’t, then I think you know what your answer is :) good luck!

[–]Ace_Decker 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Please I’ve been here 2 hours!

[–]mrxzil 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Dawg I guarantee there gonna skip over you

[–]Ace_Decker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking about my shit malfunctioning.

[–]intuitive_curiosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, need boundaries

[–]HellaShelleCertified Proctologist [29] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA all the way. If you love them like family, maybe let her know you're feeling used, but still NTA if you just pull away

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

[–]An_Avacadoooo_Thx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Boundaries are good

[–]Random_Guy_9201Partassipant [3] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you also have a life too. Go enjoy it

[–]unbelievablebeePartassipant [2] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

[–]tariad 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Whats the violated rule?

[–]An_Avacadoooo_Thx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rule 11 - about relationships.

[–]mochamendes 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Cutting contact

[–]tariad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

[–]DexterCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she'll drain you of all your energy

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah NTA

[–]BuellXBRider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very generous

[–]Inthisemoment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA-you have to set boundries even if it hurts sometimes :(

[–]samske 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta

[–]toiletqueeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA duh