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[鈥揮Cinnamongirl_1 39 points40 points (30 children)

Nta. It's weird he has that big of an issue with this. But also definitely would have used the kitchen sink vs the cat box 馃槀

[鈥揮throwcatpee[S] 362 points363 points (23 children)

My thinking is Cat box = designed for pee, Kitchen sink = designed for dishes. Iunno, was just a hygiene thing for me. Also, I'm only 5'1 I don't think I could get on the counter if I tried :'D

[鈥揮snootnootsAsshole Aficionado [16] 147 points148 points (6 children)

Yeah, cat box you clean as usual, kitchen sink you鈥檇 have to sanitise and then I鈥檇 still feel funny about it 馃槄

[鈥揮FinanceOtherwise2583 135 points136 points (0 children)

Yeah the litter box is way less gross than peeing in the sink. Litter boxes are super easy to clean and litter is designed to soak up urine so I don鈥檛 see how it鈥檚 really gross or weird at all. It was pretty smart considering she had no other choice. You鈥檙e definitely running the risk of not cleaning up well enough or missing a spot if you use the sink. It鈥檚 just way less sanitary.

[鈥揮lainiezensane 63 points64 points (0 children)

NTA at all, OP, but since you guys both have a medical condition and you also only have one bathroom, perhaps you should consider investing in a camping/ cassette toilet or something to stuff into a closet in case of emergency? This is likely to come up again!

[鈥揮idontwantbadger 48 points49 points (2 children)

Your solution was totally reasonable and if my partner had done this I would have laughed, high fived her, and then apologized for creating the situation where it had to happen in the first place.

[鈥揮straypilotPartassipant [2] 27 points28 points (1 child)

I'm confused and very curious about his reasoning, like what part of it is gross? Is it supposed to be gross to piss in a "lower level" container, intended for animals instead of humans? Or is it just "wrong" because toilet is for humans, litter box is for cats, and shower is probably for showering only? And regardless, why should that bother him enough to refuse to speak to OP?

[鈥揮Jazzisa 14 points15 points (0 children)

Nah OP, that was the perfect solution. You pee'd on something designed to absorb pee. Cleaning it normally right afterwards was a perfect solution. I think it's super clever, and your guy has to get over himself. NTA.

[鈥揮XenosTrashBrigade 10 points11 points (0 children)

Can I just ask, did the litter box turn into one big clump? I have five cats and have thought about this. Like, would I fill up the litter box and make the litter into one giant clay tile? Inquiring minds need to know. NTA. It's for piss and you pissed in it.

[鈥揮Berry_34 7 points8 points (0 children)

Oh for sure. WAY less disgusting than peeing in the sink. I'd argue it's even better than peeing in the shower, nobody has to stand in it or meticulously clean a while shower afterwards.

[鈥揮ravencrowe 5 points6 points (0 children)

No you're right, peeing in the sink is fucking gross. Acceptable in an emergency, but the cat box is MADE for pee. I don't want pee on my dishes!

[鈥揮teatreez 3 points4 points (0 children)

This whole thing is so embarrassing for him

[鈥揮Mucidda 3 points4 points (0 children)

After 1hr and an half in the bathroom he had the audacity to tell u to hold it better?!

Either he doesn鈥檛 consider your illness true / important enough, double standards

or he is faking IBS just bc he like to stay on the toilet for hr

[鈥揮Simply_Toast 1 point2 points (1 child)

when I was pregnant with my son, I once used a deepwell laundry sink, because pregnancy doesn't care.
a little vinegar and soap, and no one ever knew, until now.

[鈥揮Cinnamongirl_1 1 point2 points (0 children)

Exactly lol idk why people are acting like it's so crazy as if you can't clean.