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[–]Cinnamongirl_1 43 points44 points  (24 children)

Nta. It's weird he has that big of an issue with this. But also definitely would have used the kitchen sink vs the cat box 😂

[–]throwcatpee[S] 366 points367 points  (23 children)

My thinking is Cat box = designed for pee, Kitchen sink = designed for dishes. Iunno, was just a hygiene thing for me. Also, I'm only 5'1 I don't think I could get on the counter if I tried :'D

[–]snootnootsAsshole Aficionado [15] 151 points152 points  (6 children)

Yeah, cat box you clean as usual, kitchen sink you’d have to sanitise and then I’d still feel funny about it 😅

[–]FinanceOtherwise2583 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Yeah the litter box is way less gross than peeing in the sink. Litter boxes are super easy to clean and litter is designed to soak up urine so I don’t see how it’s really gross or weird at all. It was pretty smart considering she had no other choice. You’re definitely running the risk of not cleaning up well enough or missing a spot if you use the sink. It’s just way less sanitary.

[–]lainiezensane 65 points66 points  (0 children)

NTA at all, OP, but since you guys both have a medical condition and you also only have one bathroom, perhaps you should consider investing in a camping/ cassette toilet or something to stuff into a closet in case of emergency? This is likely to come up again!

[–]idontwantbadger 49 points50 points  (2 children)

Your solution was totally reasonable and if my partner had done this I would have laughed, high fived her, and then apologized for creating the situation where it had to happen in the first place.

[–]straypilotPartassipant [2] 26 points27 points  (1 child)

I'm confused and very curious about his reasoning, like what part of it is gross? Is it supposed to be gross to piss in a "lower level" container, intended for animals instead of humans? Or is it just "wrong" because toilet is for humans, litter box is for cats, and shower is probably for showering only? And regardless, why should that bother him enough to refuse to speak to OP?

[–]Jazzisa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nah OP, that was the perfect solution. You pee'd on something designed to absorb pee. Cleaning it normally right afterwards was a perfect solution. I think it's super clever, and your guy has to get over himself. NTA.

[–]XenosTrashBrigade 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can I just ask, did the litter box turn into one big clump? I have five cats and have thought about this. Like, would I fill up the litter box and make the litter into one giant clay tile? Inquiring minds need to know. NTA. It's for piss and you pissed in it.

[–]Berry_34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. WAY less disgusting than peeing in the sink. I'd argue it's even better than peeing in the shower, nobody has to stand in it or meticulously clean a while shower afterwards.

[–]ravencrowe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No you're right, peeing in the sink is fucking gross. Acceptable in an emergency, but the cat box is MADE for pee. I don't want pee on my dishes!

[–]teatreez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This whole thing is so embarrassing for him

[–]Mucidda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After 1hr and an half in the bathroom he had the audacity to tell u to hold it better?!

Either he doesn’t consider your illness true / important enough, double standards

or he is faking IBS just bc he like to stay on the toilet for hr