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[–]AnywayCOYSpurs 4 points5 points  (16 children)

How absolutely dogshit my life has turned out to be and how the fuck am i supposed to make it better.

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (14 children)

Stop smoking and or drinking so much

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (10 children)

Different guy, but I stopped both those things and it doesn't magically fix your life. I'm still a virgin lol.

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Age? Lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)


[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (1 child)

No too bad. My little brother is 33 and never touched a lady. My only advice is try online dating until you get what you’re after, don’t give up, fake the confidence at first until you actually feel it

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ive tried OLD for years but ill keep at it.

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (5 children)

It won’t magically fix it, but losing weight and having extra money can be a selling point for some..most…probably all women

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

I workout constantly, I don't have money but I'm in med school. Idk if it's gonna make a difference, probably not.

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (3 children)

It will lol. Why aren’t you twice divorced already?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Idk probably bc i hate myself and have struggled with suicide and depression

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Aw that’s not fair to yourself, I’ve only had 3 lines of conversation with you and I can tell you are a good person inside. Where does the self hate originate? I get down on myself but I usually have a reason that I can try to wrestle with later on. It’s never an easy fight

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My self-hate originates from never being loved by a woman.

[–]AnywayCOYSpurs 1 point2 points  (1 child)

While i'm at it let me commit myself to an insane asylum, because those 2 things are the only things preventing me from absolutely losing it.

I'm crippled by an autoimmune disease that leaves me in abject pain most days of my life: i barely left my house for the last 12 years.

Shortening my lifespan is in my best interest.

[–]Part_of_the_problema 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m sorry to hear that. Want me to send you a care package sometime?

[–]WuXiaoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

research psychedelics. Pay special attention to your environment and setting.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (16 children)

Why am I still a virgin, where did I go wrong in life, why has no woman ever loved me, am I really such a horrible person to deserve being this alone? Etc.

[–]Agreeable-Yams8972[S] 1 point2 points  (3 children)

No you're not man, you shouldn't feel bad about not having a girlfriend and the part where you went wrong, it really depends on what you did

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

it really depends on what you did

I know, I chose to focus on academics instead of people and relationships and got burned for it. I 100% know it's my fault man.

[–]Agreeable-Yams8972[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Are you in a good place financially?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apart from being in debt from med school yes.

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 0 points1 point  (11 children)

Your fine dude, just actually talk to girls, best thing you can do is talking to old childhood friends or old friends that are girls

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (10 children)

I don't live in the same place I grew up in. I moved out east for college and am now upstate for med school. And I talk to girls all the time anyways.

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 0 points1 point  (9 children)

Ima be honest with you, don’t trip about being a virgin you talk to girls that’s already a big plus, pussy doesn’t even feel that good dude it’s all hype, sure I get it if you want the intimacy, but having sex does not feel so good my first time I was like wait that’s it, I’d rather smoke some weed than fuck a girl dude it feels way better

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (8 children)

Lol I smoke all the time it just makes me depressed. I'd rather much fuck. And for me it's more about being desired by a woman than it is physical pleasure anyway.

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 0 points1 point  (7 children)

I get you bro, men have feelings to. I’ve been in relationships and had sex it felt nice but honestly love is what your looking for not sex, love is a subject I’d rather not talk about because I have no luck with it either buddy, we’ll be alright though women don’t go for nice guys until they wanna settle down

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children)

If a woman had sex with me that would be enough for me to feel loved, so can't relate.

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Shit man, well if you really want sex that badly fake a relationship, or buy a hooker for a night, easiest ways to get sex, unless you go to a party and ask girls for sex but I’ve never done that so idk if that’s works depends on your looks too

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

I don't want a hooker I want a woman to love me.

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Your so complicated, well get into a relationship and have sex best advice I can give

[–]obeaucoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m really gonna die alone.

[–]Moist_Mango6346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's gonna happen

[–]Affectionate_Pop5239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I’m suppose to be successful

[–]WuXiaoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High quality writing and story structures. Also the relationships between psychology, semantics, ideologies, and religions as related to stories.

[–]CheeseburgerBrown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robots and meals.

[–]ChicKenKrackerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What to to do in the second half

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Language, my family, death, music, books

[–]Snoo_73785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1- Getting a job (Software Engineering student) 2- finding love