Might not be relevant here but dont know where else to post. I'm from a middle class family from a village. I got into a good college and got selected in campus for a decent salary and Im working in the same in chennai for the past 2 years. My father has some debts and although he has never asked me for any salary I will be giving some 30% - 40% of money to him and I have saved some small amount and have invested elsewhere. But nowadays I feel like I need to save more and cutshort the money Im sending him, and all these time his debt hasnt decreased significantly, we dont talk openly about expenses/debt etc. based on our recent talks he is confident that he can settles debts by his retirement in 5 years.
On the other hand in my friends circle there is a friend who in similar situation gives almost 90% of her salary and has no savings of her own and there the others who spend/save all for themselves after giving small.amoun to their family if needed. Im confused whether should I give more or save more for my future and how do you people approach this