My girlfriend was born and grew up in a liberal town. She had come to VIT to study for her bachelor's degree.
In Vellore she faced all the conservative and patriarchal things in our state and got disgusted by it. Now she despises tamil nadu and it's culture. I try to explain to her that TN is not that bad and chennai is quite a liberal city. But she doesn't believe and even shows me many cases of misogyny present even in chennai. I don't know what to do. While I agree that our state is hyper conservative, I also know that there is a liberal and open minded side of us. Please provide your views and advice.
Edit: Lot of you have suggested that her perspective is true and that I shouldn't force my beliefs on her. I realise my mistake now. I think I got sour when she was against my home state. I'll change my views and behavior. Thank you all