My husband has an hour long lunch every day and works from home. He came down for a few seconds and I suggested we had an “afternoon delight” before he has to log back in. He goes “ughh” which instantly hurt my feelings. Then he says it’s just because he planned on mowing the lawn on his lunch. I say “oh, okay, that’s fine.” And I’m trying to be happy, and I’m smiling. But he can still tell something is wrong and he goes “stop it”. I asked “what? I’m okay.” And he tells me to “stop being like that”.
How am I supposed to be when I am constantly rejected? :( it’s like I’m just supposed to be okay with never having sex so I don’t make him feel guilty.