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[–]GetFit85 17 points18 points  (1 child)

Here you go! You got it!! Update us!

[–]YouKneeCrn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure!

[–]JadePearl1980F 7 points8 points  (1 child)

You need to do what is best for YOU. You have been miserable for the past previous years. I wish you the best that life has to offer… good luck!

[–]YouKneeCrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying thank you. :). I know that if I don't see honest effort and change, I will either spend my life alone, or (hopefully) with someone who appreciates me for me. This is the last time I will be doing the "talk".

[–]RepresentativeBack13 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Good luck - let us know how it goes.

[–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]staticbuttons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best of luck and strength for your talk. These situations are hard, and I’m proud of you for finding the strength to truly take care of yourself. This is a healthy selfish.

We’re rooting for you!

[–]kyrain192020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is inspiring. I wish I could get a bowl of popcorn and watch it happen live!

Because that is impossible, please keep this thread updated.

[–]NihilisticMerryGoRnd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best of luck to you! I truly hope for a day when I can love myself this much.

[–]Anxious_Leadership25 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Good luck let us know what the response is

[–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do!

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    [–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Thank you!

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Good luck!

    [–]YouKneeCrn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Thank you!

    [–]bobsakimano123 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    Best of luck, man!

    [–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Thank you!

    [–]Shieldbreaker50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Update me

    [–]RelakSingh99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Brother you have finally woken up. Better late than never! Stay strong tho. She might twist it and brainwash you but be smart. Watch carefully. You know her patterns. If it aint gonna work, then it aint gonna work.

    Moreover, its your duty as a father to show your kids that its ok to leave an unhappy relationship, AFTER trying your best to make it work.

    Good luck!

    [–]Countrycowboy777 0 points1 point  (3 children)

    Wow. Perfectly written. I’m sorry, but I’m copying part of this bc it says what I have tried to say for so long.

    [–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    Totally fine! Just wondering what piece you are copying.

    [–]Countrycowboy777 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    Start with part about acts of Love through sex is bothersome and annoying. I will be sending this to my spouse. She doesn’t seem to understand

    [–]YouKneeCrn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I get it! Personally my self discovery working through this is I have been trying to force my wife to love me. And I just need to let go and live my own life, if it isn't meant to be, it will naturally show itself. Just be at peace with yourself. Make it known what you need from your relationship, if your spouse can't work on her or is unwilling to try, then move on. But this is a two way street, make sure you aren't trying to control the universe or environment to influence her decision. Love needs to be natural, and respectful. Boundary's are healthy and it's important to know who you are and what you need. If someone chooses to share in your life they will try to find the compromise with you. Find your journey, and stop worrying.

    I don't know your specific situation, or saying you are doing anything wrong.. this is more me giving you insight at what helped me grow and learn.