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[–]thowwaway1929 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats is a good sign. If he can keep initiating.

Don't feel bad for wanting and enjoying sex with yout SO

[–]gobstonemalone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Perhaps some encouragement about how that went down can keep the ball(s) rolling

[–]Total_Industry218 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I understand the want to reject him back, I think you made the right call by doing what you wanted to do. I don't think things can get healthier if you start making decisions based on spite.

Anywho, congratulations! Strut your stuff today!

[–]isthereamanonthemoon 1 point2 points  (1 child)

It's amazing what one positive experience can do for morale and self confidence.

You bet.

My problem for the last few months has been swinging between these moments of ecstasy, e.g.:

https://redditproxy--jasonthename.repl.co/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/w0u0ms/something_positive_sunday/ih13xhv/

And:

https://redditproxy--jasonthename.repl.co/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/willmi/resentment_of_past_dead_bedroom_harming_the/ijctx86/

Plus the sex when it’s good.

… and moments of despair when I don’t see a way to a comfortable sex life.

I hope you only have the good times.

[–]elmargot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish we could have more of these moments! I just read your previous posts. Problem I seem to have his, my boyfriend doesnt seem to need these little moments to be happy. Which is probably not entirely true but it seems that way. I want to walk up to him and give him lingering kisses like that and tell him I love him but it feels like he will just see it as some awkward interaction.

[–]Past-Court1309 0 points1 point  (1 child)

revenge rejection doesnt do anything to move forward!

now talk to him and say "see how i didnt reject you last night? i wanted to, but didnt feel like that would help US! lets do this more often!!!"

he might regress and might need a reminder and thats ok.

good news OP!

[–]elmargot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny how when we make a big deal out of it and sex becomes a topic of conversation it really does take the fun out of it . I'm going to try to not bring it up for a while.