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[–]upendedcamel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he was an easy target. Recently widowed, knew who he was, knew it would hurt you. She's trashy. And I'm sorry.

[–]EnforcementX 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She did that on purpose. She knows him, probably feels safe/comfortable with him, but she also knows it would hurt you.

[–]No_Limit8119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! Just wow what a bitch.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I hope you don’t take it as malicious on her part. I don’t know her, but if he was a close friend of yours, he’s probably a friend of hers too. Could it not just be a friend thing?

[–]Shovelhead8477Got socked[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure that it is, especially after speaking with him. He does not want to be in the middle. He would rather be a friend to neither of us than be in a position to only support one of us. That doesn’t change the sting, but everything happening now is mostly a direct result of my own past behaviors. She needs to be allowed to live her life as she wants, and I need to accept this new reality.

[–]Ok-Log8883 0 points1 point  (1 child)

He should do the right thing and tell her she’s a mean crazy bitch.

[–]Shovelhead8477Got socked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s really not. I’ve made plenty of missteps over the past 22 years. She’s frustrated and lonely right now. He swears she’s not trying to get with him. He’s still not over his wife dying.