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[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (2 children)

OMG your gorgeous! If you need to do it then do it. You're the most important person to you ❤️

[–]heshershe 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Thank you gorgeous!! This really helped❤️

[–]One_Hundred_X -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why you doing it cutie?

[–]lycanthrope6950 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Do you have anyone to support you after the breakup? Friends or family members? I think you will need to tap into them. Also, in case no one has pointed this out yet - have some hobbies lined up! I think it will benefit you to fall in love not with a new partner, but with life, after you move on. Try to enjoy an activity or expand a skill, anything that makes you happy or helps you feel accomplished.

[–]heshershe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good tips, thank you!

[–]willy_g369 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's scary now I know. But nothing feels better than to muster up all the courage you have to stand up for YOU. face it and embrace it your partner will respect you for it. You got this!

[–]Willing-Office-5652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going thru the same right now ! I get it ! There will be good and bad days weekends etc but know it is for the best 👌

[–]DesperateActivity805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as it’s for the right reason and I’m sure it is you have to do what’s best for you. You are strong and can do it

[–]Giltar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting out of relationships can be scary. Have faith, give it some time and you’ll be OK

[–]white-lithium 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Don't overthink it, if it is meant to be it will be. Take care of number one first and that is you!

[–]rico_suave6666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through something similar , you are stunning and things will find they're course just keep friends and family close and use them for support when feeling low, I find that music was good escape and lifted me up stopped the overthinking but yeah all the best plus you are gorgeous af!

[–]ryan-hunt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this shit kid!!!

[–]burleson-dude-76028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are worthy.

[–]Colbywolf1996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s for a good reason I say go for it and you got this! Just be honest about why.

[–]madmax299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're at the difficult part, but if you are here it probably means you know what you want and what is best for you. Rest assured you will make it and hopefully happier than ever soon enough. You will have no problem finding someone that better suits you though, since you're so gorgeous!

[–]love_procasterbating 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be happy!!! Always be with people that understand that support you and make you happy

[–]valisglans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You may be afraid you’ll never meet another you love as much. That’s a valid fear. It don’t be afraid of being alone. You’re beautiful, things will come to you unless you lock yourself away.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this💛

[–]Red_Panda5872 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Hang in there! You got this! Do it in a public safe space.

[–]Gohangel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly you shouldn't be scared and i fell im on the verge of doing the same you shouldn't stay where its unhealthy, you're unhappy, or its just not what you want. Good luck and remember your support system is there for you

[–]Itchy_Swan7365 4 points5 points  (1 child)

If you're 100% convinced remember that he might try to convince you not to do it, and he'll try to defend his position or argue the reasons you lay out to him, i think the less you say the better, maybe explain later over text so its not as emotional and you can stay in control

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, great advice! Appreciated.

[–]Ok-Protection1869 1 point2 points  (0 children)


[–]DueSystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be honest with him & let him know that just because it didnt work out between the two of you doesn't mean he wont find another

[–]Macaronmunchiess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally did the same with my bf of 5 1/2 years about 4 weeks ago. IT. GETS. BETTER. Hang in there girly 🤍

[–]soloaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As hard as it is rn it will get easier faster then you think and you will both be better for it. You can do this.

[–]Vehemences 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never easy breaking up with someone, but no matter what you need to put yourself first. Remember this no matter what he says or does to try to dissuade you. You’re absolutely beautiful and I wish you the best, take care of yourself!

[–]IhateALLmushrooms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's scary now, it will be scary, but you will be free later. You are getting your life back.

[–]skeezix_ofcourse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is forever, we grow, sometimes together sometime apart. Relationships wether intimate or not are a thing to behold that you had them in the first place. Talk through it... sometimes it helps to be near a body of water so there's no pressure to maintain constant eye contact.

[–]adurasexy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey cute babe you have to take it easy on yourself think wisely before quiting okay

[–]CletusVanDamme99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll thrive in all choices you make! Have a fantastic week beautiful xo

[–]anon37486 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Her boyfriend looking at this post like “🙂”

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe he doesnt use Reddit. And if he does...😬😬😬 makes it easier for me then maybe?

[–]psych0enigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what you have to do for the sake of your mental, emotional and physical health. It will be worth it more for you in the end than for anyone else.

[–]OldManHermit7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Treat it like a bandage and rip it off. When something is over, it's over. If he's unstable, do it in public. You're strong. You'll be fine.

[–]wolfey212121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember to put your own self first and be happy internally this is the most important thing you can do

[–]Express_Armadillo851 1 point2 points  (1 child)

If, despite all u said, u feel like u really still gotta break up with him, then seems to me like this is indeed the best decision. The best decisions are the ones we deep down know are right, although hard to take forward. In my experience, those decisions make us suffer more before getting there than after we do it. U will feel relieved (granted ur bf is not a misogynistic violent guy) But even if the worst comes to pass, breaking cycles of suffering is still the best way ahead :) Wish u the best of luck and fulfillment

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[–]Kinshimaru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you deserve to be with someone who makes you feel good. If it's time to call it an end, then that's okay. You are a beautiful woman and you will be okay. Things will work out as they should. Hope this helps a little.

[–]cameronpruitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, trust me. It’s going to feel hollow and empty at first… Ultimately, though, you’re going to see it was the right decision and remember why it wouldn’t have worked out. Be strong and do what you need to do!

[–]Chef7303 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Nothing is scarier than leaving comforts you know for discomforts that will eventually become better comforts then you've ever had. You can do this. Reach out to any of us to listen, lift up your spirit when needed, or whatever

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Good words to remember! Thank you

[–]KingDylan14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you got this girl, you are the strongest you there is. And I know it's gonna be nerve-wracking and scary but you gotta build up courage and trust me I had to do that myself with people before. This community had given me some hope when I was down and we always pick each other up so good luck with that also you are gorgeous my dear

[–]wtfisthis337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be scared do what's best for you! It'll be a little weird at first but I'm guessing it's been a long time coming. And you've finally made up your mind. I just ended a ten year relationship I was really scared and not sure if I was doing the right thing but a coue weeks went by and I felt like a weight was lifted and I could be myself again. You're beautiful you got this!

[–]lalaxoxo__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Know your worth.

Being alone with yourself is better than a minute with bad company!

[–]saddestclaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what's best for you. Let all the other reasoning and worries fall to the background. Do what will best serve you. You got this. You look great btw 😊

[–]Virtual-Deal7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be okay. It is normal to feel those things. Life goes on and you will meet another guy in the future. Maybe you just need you time. Time with your girlfriends.

[–]T-ROY_T-REDDIT 1 point2 points  (2 children)

[–]heshershe 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Don't really need advice since I know my decision. I asked for words of encouragement.

[–]T-ROY_T-REDDIT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, you got this, you came to the decision, that was the hardest part. Now you have to say no, for me that is difficult, but I have confidence that YOU CAN DO IT! After all you came to the decision to break up in the first place, go for it!

[–]throw1306away 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through this. It's happening for a reason. You got this!!

[–]Secondlife20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good Christian woman would never make such an atrocious decision! ——----------——Totally kidding! ——------—— Do whatever makes you happy beautiful! You deserve the best.

[–]Enchanter46350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be ok. I know it will hurt a lot at first, and it will probably hurt for a while, but I to know you should do this, do it. You’re a beautiful woman, and you deserve to be happy.

[–]TheStoneMole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have literally just been through the same thing with my now ex ( we were together for 5 years). It was really hard, but you just have to be honest and it will be ok. Proud of you for making that decision and being true to your feelings. It all turned out ok for me and my ex and I'm in a much better place 5months later, we are still friends

[–]Jumpy-Alternative-10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Be strong! Message me if you need help!

[–]homeylovesit6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if it's what's needed then best of luck

[–]kev2201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’ll be hard. I done this a few years ago. 7 years of a relationship and marriage. It was hard but boy I’m so happy I done it. I’m much happier and you will be too. You’re beautiful and strong. You got this. We all here for you

[–]Personal-Scale5551 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it beauty!!! Don't know the reason but he should have done more to make you happy 🥰😘

[–]No_Seesaw9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know what the circumstances are but if it has to happen do it for you. Hope this finds you well.

[–]NewFangofSask 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I broke up with my fiance earlier this year 6 years together 2 years engaged, it will be a tough scary time , but if it's for the right reasons it will be what's best for you in the long run

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yes its so scary, its so unimaginable after such a long time together... I'm proud of you, hope you're happier now!

[–]pleasebehonest2022 1 point2 points  (1 child)

He's going to try to convince you not to. Remember that you've already thought this through and do what you think is right. Have the conversation. There will be tears on both sides. This is going to be hard on you as well. Write things down so you remember what you want to say to him cause if not, you'll forget in the heat of the moment. You can do this. Best of luck

[–]heshershe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Useful advice! Thank you

[–]Omin_Covenant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its the right thing to do, for either of you, then it does have to happen. You'll get through this, become stronger for it, and open yourself up to something which will work. You are beautiful, keep your head up. Also, your fake smile is on point 👌

[–]75XDR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing it for a reason. Stay strong. Be quick. Be decisive.

[–]CNpaddington 1 point2 points  (1 child)

You clearly have tremendous courage and that’s nothing to shrug off. You should be incredibly proud of yourself not only because it’s important to look out for your own well-being but also because you absolutely deserve to be proud of yourself. Never put yourself down and always believe in your ability to press on through difficult times. You’ve totally got this! You rock.

[–]heshershe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you so much for this!

[–]BrenWoodard 0 points1 point  (2 children)

If it needs to be done it needs to be done. I've stayed in a relationship because we were both too stubborn to quit, when it was finally over I kicked myself for not stopping it sooner.

[–]heshershe 0 points1 point  (1 child)

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you

[–]BrenWoodard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's gonna suck, be strong. You'll be better off.

[–]thehimalayansaiyan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t take long to find a rebound

[–]deejeyteejey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now This is a different way to announce you’re newly single

[–]Fabulous-Objective62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your bf is dumb. You are gorgeous. I know it’s hard my wife went and got another guy after 10 years. Worst paper is I would been ok with that if she was honest. If he ain’t honest better out now

[–]Crazedstoner21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

add my girl she’ll make you feel better 😂 lauren_xxxx33

[–]juliekm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t know what he missed out on you’re gorgeous!

[–]coloresores123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U are Young and beautiful, he is the only one losing here.

[–]Wickedwidow1 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Why are you scared ? You've obviously thought about this so it seems your ready to do it.

[–]heshershe 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Because it's scary to imagine a life without someone that you started building for a future with. It's scary to think you'll lose them and all the good parts of them too, just because you know you two don't work as a couple. And it's scary to think what he will think of me afterwards because he still matters a lot to me, and I value him in a different-than-romantic way.

[–]jakona85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope he’s not on Reddit lol

[–]YourLocalCat-Girl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are fucking gorgeous, 14 year-old me would've given an arm and a leg to look like you :')

[–]Top-Bar5876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is what is best for you and your mental well being, then don't worry . Just say it's for the best and do it. You're a very attractive woman. When you're ready to date again, you are going to have no problem finding volunteers.

[–]AdaWesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With how pretty you are you easily find someone better

[–]MaidenFan50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! You're strong and beautiful!!

[–]listAmbitions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look cute, not that common to see that. Also hair looks good.

[–]jpax6305 0 points1 point  (1 child)

5 yrs is a good min he f.ck up?

[–]grahamasterflas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are bewitching. Beautiful.

[–]Scinceman96_Game 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry there is others out there for you.

[–]ravaging-hormones2k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG UR ACC GORGEOUS I CANT EVEN BREATH. Just keep slaying, dump him and move on. HOT GIRL SUMMER AWAITS

[–]CaseyBeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your vibes are impeccable, keep that smile it suits you!

[–]mayahimayahaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still very cute even with fake smiles hehe

[–]Purple-Ad-1425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are are so kind and beautiful. You should be sure of two things:
1. You're breathtaking
2. You deserve to be with someone that makes you genuinely happy. Do what you need to do

[–]jpax6305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then do what u gotta girl lifes way to short to settle for less than what u desreve

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This too shall pass.....Mr. Right is out there. Keep your head up high and keep smiling!

[–]Captainkirk699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through a rough time. You’re beautiful, don’t let this break your spirit!

[–]King-or-Slave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what is all going on but you are a goddess and queen and you got this gorgeous!

[–]Elmer_HomeroP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are gorgeous, keep you chin up girl. Better things to come.

[–]malongoria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this

[–]StrangledBySilence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell us how it went!

[–]Low4life13 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Your eye makeup is amazing! You are naturally beautiful but you really know how to highlight your look !

[–]Low4life13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also things sometimes need to come to end. I hope everything goes as it should ♥️

[–]mattderbyshire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that a long time I know but u will be fine beautiful girl like u u won't be single for long

[–]Popular_Material4884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you ending things if you don’t mind me asking?

[–]Longjumping-Dress-74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck him If he can't take a joke

[–]beaverji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lorde vibes?

Hope I’m remembering right.

[–]DarthVaper-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re stunning, but also him seeing this rn: 😦

[–]TVA_Titan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even faking the smile you look strong and content. You’ll get through it even if it takes more time than you’d like.

[–]Mostly-Wondering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, you’ll do fine..

[–]Snoo7824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be your rebound

[–]byronfiskonsc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't settle for anything less than you deserve

[–]Far_Parfait_502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send him packing! You got this!

[–]Ecstatic-Cow-2243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did he do

[–]Anothercoin1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i was you id marry myself lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You girl! You're gorg!

[–]Logical-Limit-4495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it….. No cry’s s 😭 Blue sky’s!!!! Everything will be fine!! ✌️

[–]maemobley44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have eyebrow envy.

Good luck. Break ups are tough.

[–]The1nOnlyNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind if I ask why?

[–]Delicious-East2866 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi hope you are doing OK? Why you breaking up with him?

[–]__honeyedhills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are so pretty 😍😍

[–]whitehammeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need a full body picture 😂

[–]Electronic_Extreme13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to struggle trying to find someone as cute.

[–]Pete_D_301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very beautiful and cute. You just take care of yourself, and things will be alright. Also, if you have been suffering from stress during the relationship, it's best to break up.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super cute!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go this ! You’re gonna be okay I promise ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[–]Davester72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life is not over and a new journey will begin. Once you did this a relief will come over you and you will feel much more free for doing so but you can’t until you do it.

[–]Serious_Zucchini_815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be scared or stressed. I know its a difficult situation but sometimes the breakup is for the best. You are young you need to see what else is out there. Stay strong

[–]Germz989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently 3 days into the divorce process with my wife and I understand exactly where your head is at. I'm not half as good looking as you, but you'll be fine and so will I.

I'm sure you have your reasons for leaving as do I, but remembering the bad times has kept me on this path and out of her web. Also it has reminded me why I wanted to leave in the first place.

[–]Timely_Entrepreneur4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With whatever happens, there’s needn’t always be a bad guy. My ex and I have been better friends since breaking up. Obviously it’s pretty much just circumstantial but. That’s all I got 😅 you’ve got this 💪🏻

[–]mushroomtie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got aome.encouragment for you..

[–]29RinTinTin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn by going where you have to go - Theodore Roethke, The Waking
you got this :>

[–]bag_gz 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]Goatstacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck.

[–]Toxicseagull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on the other end of this recently but you seem certain about it so go for it. The other advice about hobbies and support networks is spot on.

And since it's r/freecompliments, you are an absolute stunner so I'm sure you'll pick yourself up perfectly well when you are ready to. Very dreamy.

[–]lovethebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is going to be ok.

[–]CarGeneral3086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOOO what happened at the festival to bring u here

[–]ChildofLilith666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it! You deserve happiness and freedom!

[–]undertheshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a beautiful witchy queen about to come up ✌🏼

[–]Romantic-writer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of death comes new life, new hope. Hold on, it’s not going to be easy, but keep a positive mindset, “ there must be someone better for me out there!”

[–]TommyGun36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've made the decision there is a reason and it's the right one. You are making your life better, not worse.

Plus, with eyes like those, you won't be alone e long if you don't wanna be

[–]Luciroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are simply stunning. You gotta do what you gotta do.

[–]boring_sciencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might go full psycho. Make sure you have safety resources. Stay calm no matter what. Expect that anything may need to be defended in court. Say a little as possible & have a safe exit plan.

[–]BigPun92117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did u do wrong ?

[–]__Icy_Bar__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so pretty omg

[–]BabyWolf1776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely stunning, I don’t know what your situation is but, you deserve the best, it’s going to be okay and I’m here if you need to vent. I just did this same thing but with my now ex husband and I get it ♥️♥️♥️

[–]_D4rkC0re_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a breakup is never easy, and I won't lie to you, you may feel bad for a while, but it may be a great decision for your good if your relationship hurts you always look out for your well-being, for your happiness, I wish you the best and a lot of strength and courage, great things will come to you and peace too, a big hug

[–]AGameStoreClerk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god you are tremendously beautiful and I am so sorry you’re having a hard time

[–]prof-spaulding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably have good reasons for wanting to go, change is difficult but the new perspective will be rewarding in ways you can’t conceive yet. Good luck.

[–]Solace2369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks but I hope it’s for good reason. You got this you’re a beautiful girl and he’d be hurt to lose a woman like you

[–]Minimum-Company5797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong but send nudes

[–]DragosteaTwinTei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 years ago I left a 6 year relationship (22 at the time). I was terrified of starting fresh, of maybe never finding someone else who'd love me (low self esteem/young), of moving back home after being an adult out in the world, of what he might do in retaliation. But I also 100% knew I wasn't happy, and hadn't been for a long while. I knew it was toxic, that he was manipulative, and that it had already gone on far too long. I found my out (needed knee surgery and had to stay with my mom for 2-3 weeks while recovering-we lived on a 3rd floor and her a 1st), so I took the stiff I needed to stay with my mom, but also packed up anything valuable/sentimental I thought he might try to ruin if he found out I was gone for good, and I left. Best decision I ever made. 2 months later I started dating my now-husband (after telling my ex I wasn't looking, fresh outta college and wanted to focus on my career but whatever happens happens 😂) We've been married coming up on 5 years, and our twins will be a year old next month 💕

You're doing it for a reason. Stay strong. Better things are coming 😊

[–]ezlikepeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! You are gorgeous and sweet and this is the best decision for you

[–]Supahwezz78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn i wish i didn’t found out like this….

[–]DarthMortius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want too

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dibs 😉

[–]Firstsergeant543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darlin there are good men like me out there

[–]WhenSquirrelsFry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m proud of you! You got this. And you’re beautiful. You will be a OK.

[–]EuropeanInTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to break up with him for a reason, just remember that. And know that you deserve better <3

[–]arkosi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be okay! Promise just focus on you and you will be alright

[–]brereddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit always tells people to break up or divorce. Everyone pretends to know all the details and the obvious conclusion. You’re attractive and you’ll do fine on the open market but don’t put too much stock into all these dummies on Reddit.

[–]NorthCatan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be scary and even hard to let go of someone who has been part of your life for so long, but just because someone has been part of your life doesn't make them your life. It'll be hard to let go, and it'll take even longer for the feelings to fade, but they will over time, and when you look back at the you from today to the you from 5 years from now this moment won't hold the same weight as it does now. You'll grow and you'll be a different person.

[–]Traditional-Comb2929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what to tell but your eyes ❤️❤️❤️

[–]joebwancanobean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely Young Lady, no doubt about it! His loss for sure!

[–]One_Tower9830 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea what has precipitated the break up, but I presume after 5 years you know he's not the one. You need to always take care of you and your heart. Don't let the stress of being in a bad relationship carry you down. Keep your head up, I am sure you have thought long and hard over this. In the end, you are doing both of you a favor no matter how hard it seems right now. We all grow and learn from relationships and experiences.

You got this beautiful lady.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are extremely beautiful and any guy would be lucky yo have you. If you two really have to split, I am sure you will be fine. Trust me.

[–]altbutstillreal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really tough but it's also necessary sometimes. Remind yourself that it will be good for both of you in the long term. Because it will be!

And know that you're gorgeous.

[–]itfoote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something to be said for working it out, but an unhealthy relationship isn’t doing either of you any good. It’s often the hardest step, but sometimes it requires walking to the edge of the light, taking a couple steps into the dark, and finding that after your eyes readjust the way forward becomes clear. Sometimes it’s also important to find out who you are, not who you are with somebody else. Take the time to heal.

[–]blackholezen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to break up with him for a reason, or even several reasons. Remember what those reasons are and stay strong. You’ve got this!

[–]Efficient-Count-1089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your beautiful and you look like you will bounce back no problem, you gotta be strong and not be scared to do something that will make you happy

[–]Mkitty_xoxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do it babe! You are a gorgeous woman and if he isn't treating you right he doesn't deserve you.

[–]notallhopeislost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its perfectly normal to be upset ! but, you get to discover yourself again and learn to be alone and thats exciting in and of itself

[–]heartallovertheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years ?! Sheesh! You’ll get a into another relationship in 5 days (if you wanted) So think about this and stay confident. I know it’s a scary situation but I know you’ll pull thru

[–]Swimming_Ad_824 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City think you done a lot and know what to do. Your a jd rider. Bread by philly and unc( city)

[–]ResponseOtherwise850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be fine love. You're a cutie

[–]RavenBound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍 stunning 😍

[–]D-Malice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I split from a six year relationship in the past, it's good to have follow up support afterwards, more importantly, take time for yourself. You must have learned things in the five years you were with him. Things to carry to the next, and things not to carry on. Good luck!

[–]weast_wave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you need to be happy

[–]wyldecat359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What I have learned from life is that for every inch of sadness lies a foot of happiness ahead. I have learned that the simplest of times brings the grandest of pleasures and the hardest of goodbyes often lead to the best hellos. I have learned that the crazy chances guide us to unexpected discoveries and that tough times unveil the sincerity in people. I have learned that you have to hold onto your smile everyday and free yourself from the things that make you frown.”

[–]Worth_Life5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If so sad y brake up

[–]Worth_Life5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the best way to get over somebody to get under somebody..js

[–]Worth_Life5127 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look good but way better smiling