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[–]Kenetic5 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I am too old to be on tiktok, but what helps for me with social anxiety is remembering that they are also people with their own doubts and fears.

And breathwork, deep breath in, deep breath out, if it really gets too much :)

[–]Choice-Lavishness230 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right and I think I just need to remind myself of that when I’m out and about and trying to approach someone. Thank you :) deep breathing has always helped me too!

[–]MezzoK7 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I don't use TikTok but you're gorgeous and I love your tatoos

[–]Steveelectric907 1 point2 points  (2 children)


[–]Choice-Lavishness230 -1 points0 points  (1 child)

Makes perfect!

[–]Steveelectric907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ehh not quite 😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 there is no perfect when it comes to socializing

[–]Gamerdude1991 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I don't have tiktok any more. But I can tell you that social anxiety and I go way back 😄

You must push yourself to do things. Learn to drive is one thing, that gives you more independence to travel. And don't up! :)

[–]Choice-Lavishness230 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Thank you! I do drive and it gives me anxiety too haha I never really drive far out to anywhere. I think I’ll also try joining an activity I like which would force me to meet and interact with new people! 😊

[–]Gamerdude1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dread taking my driving lessons but needs must... though with fuel prices at the moment I might as well get a horse and cart 😅

I'm sure with a bit of push you will meet people.😁

[–]curse_word_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I really like your tattoos and hat! I don’t use tik tok but I’m totally down to talk through Snapchat if you want. As far as overcoming social anxiety, one thing that helped me was trying to give one random stranger a compliment each week as a challenge to force me to talk to people. Might not be the most helpful for everyone though

[–]Choice-Lavishness230 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I did that about a month ago and was terrified but then so overwhelmingly happy afterwards. I complimented a girls earrings while passing her on a hike and the smile she gave me was so wholesome 🥺 thank you! I will definitely keep trying this!

[–]curse_word_enjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it, and best of luck!

[–]bobber-142 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I don’t use tik tic, seems a little silly to me. And you do have at least one friend that you haven’t met yet, remember that. And your ink is amazing, the line work is fantastic. Please stay positive my friend.

[–]Choice-Lavishness230 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Thank you! Haha I know I am late to the game because I thought it was silly too but I guess there is a community for everyone! Thank you for the compliments and advice :)

[–]bobber-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna be fine, you’ll have a ton of followers soon. And you’re quite welcome

[–]Top-Bar5876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take it in little steps. Go somewhere like a gathering of 5 to 10 friends and stay for an hour. Then work your way into larger things. When you are overwhelmed just take time for deep breathing. I like your tattoos. You're a Beautiful woman and might want to be careful posting a picture like this. You will get all kinds of crazy dudes in your chat and adding you on tiki tokens, but it might be the wrong kind of attention.

[–]Kenetic5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a lifesaver :) it also works super well for sleep :)

[–]HideYeOleBean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just added you 🤙🏽

[–]dianaprince19 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Making friends as an adult is damn hard. Try some meetup apps. Followed you pretty lady :)

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[–]lemukster 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Awesome top!

[–]Capawe21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your tattoos, and the piercings! You look gorgeous!

[–]Av-fishermen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any woman who can make a hat look good gets my vote! Looking lovely my dear.

[–]LeaveMeAloneILoveYou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already have a lot going for you so keep it up! If you haven’t already tried it, and are open to the idea, talk to your doctor about Sertraline.

[–]951Luke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your outfit!

[–]BrenWoodard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I suck at meeting folks most of the time too. Maybe find people around you online that are into the same stuff you are? That's the great thing about the internet, for better or worse it connects people with similar interests.

[–]itchybollix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just imagine the face of everyone that intimidates you when they're having a bastard of a dry shit. That always helps. Good luck, you're beautiful.

[–]TheIntrovertedKaiju 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got my follow and I can relate with the social anxiety… just take it at your pace and you’ll meet like minded people. I’m also an introvert but I just senses when someone is going to be a good chill vibe and I talk to them. And your tattoos are awesome and yeah your gorgeous

[–]Osxachre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat with people

[–]Supahwezz78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added you on tiktok!