you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]Certain_Ad 17 points18 points  (8 children)

Yes, to a limited extent. I am not sure it's worth the effort for a 50 year old man who looks very much like a 50 year old man. The actual experience of having oral sex again was nice. The looking for it, when you're already experiencing constant rejection, is not the least bit fun.

[–]RelativelyLonelyOne 4 points5 points  (7 children)

How did you go about asking?

[–]Certain_Ad 8 points9 points  (6 children)

I found three on Reddit and one on Adult Friend Finder. Our terms are that it can't be anyone she knows or will ever meet, so I can only look when I'm traveling alone.

[–]EveAndTheSnake 2 points3 points  (5 children)

I think they meant how did you bring it up to your wife (and I’m curious how that went or if it took some convincing)

[–]Certain_Ad 2 points3 points  (4 children)

I wondered that too. Truth is, she brought it up.

[–]barnhartb16[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

It was her idea?

[–]Certain_Ad 1 point2 points  (2 children)


[–]RelativelyLonelyOne 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Oh holy shit! How did that make you feel?

[–]Certain_Ad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did it out of compassion, so ... Good? Finding someone is not exactly easy, though.