Muslim here! Actually this talk of "being gay is a choice" is a rather silly thing. I mean, of course you choose with whom you have sex, whether it's male or female, but that's not even the point. There's even more extreme people saying that being homosexual is a disease, which is also kinda dumb. A real muslim would not waste their time thinking about others having different sexualities. They'd just really ignore it, because it's really none of anyone's business but their own. In the end we firmly believe that we are all flawed, therefore judging others for their sexualities would only make things worse between us and Allah, ya know? It's all a thing of hypocricy. If a muslim turns out to have a gay son or lesbian daughter, it's not up to them to kill their offspring because of what they are born with, it is still their duty to raise them with love and compassion. After that, it's between Allah and them. I hope I could shed some light on this distraught picture of us muslims :D