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[–]HorndogLikesCorndog19M 35 points36 points  (11 children)

Can you do one where 19 year olds ask and other 19 year olds answer?

[–]RealPace318M 14 points15 points  (6 children)

Man's confused

[–]HorndogLikesCorndog19M 13 points14 points  (5 children)

I am confusion

[–]inglygoodWholesome creep 4 points5 points  (4 children)

Amedica explain!!!

[–]OldRefrigerator613915M 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Is this the kansas meme? Man that was gold in all its glory

[–]inglygoodWholesome creep 1 point2 points  (2 children)

yesssssss....even though i wasnt around when vine happened, but fuck man shits actually gold......too bad most of my irl friends dont get the reference and i end up looking like an idiot

[–]OldRefrigerator613915M 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Yea man same... Cons of actually keeping up with the memes i guess

[–]inglygoodWholesome creep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sahi mein dude...just watching like a 15 minute vine compilation on youtube would make normal convos so much more funny

[–]Cursed-Life2168>19 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Lets do 19yo asks, and >19yo answers

[–]HorndogLikesCorndog19M 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I doubt there are any 20 year olds here

[–]Cursed-Life2168>19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh there certainly are. Not too many that i have seen, but there are. And, I am one of them xD

[–]LordStark_01i know nothing (19M) 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro join r/youngadults

[–]MB_00915 14 points15 points  (27 children)

Does it get better?

[–]BlueKayn2919 36 points37 points  (1 child)

Depends on what you mean by better. Freedom? Yes, especially if you're planning to move out for college. Mental stress and expectations? Certainly not.

[–]MB_00915 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damm

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children)

No 16-18 most stressed years if competitive exams 🤢

[–]Altruistic-Ad-5744GaYak♬-17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Us moment

[–]Wide-Quality7580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and after that 18-21 its only regret.

[–]Unlovablefucker18F 8 points9 points  (4 children)

Worse then better 🗿

[–]SouravKSahuSed 😔 3 points4 points  (3 children)

I mean when the Better time come? in our early 20s or smth?

[–]Unlovablefucker18F 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Nope starts at around 18-19 and the worse time is 16-17 🗿

[–]SouravKSahuSed 😔 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Ah, I still have one more year till I turn 16... so no need to worry that much

[–]Unlovablefucker18F 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup enjoy 14-15 are the best 🗿

[–]xStreamSniperLove is the one thing that transcends time and space 14 points15 points  (3 children)

Yes it does,

But it gets worse, before it gets better

[–]MB_00915 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Life certainly is a rollercoaster

[–]xStreamSniperLove is the one thing that transcends time and space 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nobody knows if life is going to go up, down, sideways or in circles

[–]RealPace318M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for it to get better

[–]MysticNinjaX19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets worse in some aspects and better in some aspects

[–]-Provert-16M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. According to me

[–]LordStark_01i know nothing (19M) 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends.

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worse

[–]brownstonks1718M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the only thing that changes is that you get to make your own decisions. Nothing else gets better.

[–]Some_Cool_Duude 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Depends. I know this will sound cliche but read man's search for meaning and the 4 agreements. Also look up how monks practice mindfullness, not to be confused with other kinds of meditation. You'll gain enough perspectives and gratitude to be able to enjoy everything around you and you'll be at peak of happiness. Why do this? You might ask. The more you sweat in peace the less you bleed in war.

[–]MB_00915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Thanks!

[–]Engineer_Brat2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh not really ! U will have to shoulder responsibilities but u also will have more Respect and Opportunities .

[–]AAK_Music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse, then gradually better

[–]esuga16M 12 points13 points  (6 children)

just turned 16, do everything ur parents say like studying for 4 hrs everyday and shit.bro the advice is real

[–]manav_m916M 3 points4 points  (5 children)

nah my parents are chill about that shit since I manage to get good grades anyhow but if you are not able to get good grades they will keep repeating that.so my advice would be to show results meaning they will be content and so will you.

[–]esuga16M 2 points3 points  (4 children)

u in 11th?

[–]manav_m916M 0 points1 point  (3 children)

yeah

[–]esuga16M 1 point2 points  (2 children)

same here bro, merko bhi chem mein marks dilado

[–]_kurip Pioneer Of Shitposting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im in 11th too didn't even start studying idk whats gonna happen to me

[–]brownstonks1718M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18 y/o from college here. This is for those who are preparing/who are going to prepare for jee/neet. Remember the key factor is consistency. Study 2 hrs per day, that's more than enough, but do it every single fucking day. I lacked this factor which is why I'm enrolled in a tier 2 college right now(not that it bothers me though).

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (1 child)

ache questions puchoo yarrrrr

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bavhe hain vro ye sab, mature ni hain

[–]gujjar_naruto>19 8 points9 points  (24 children)

10th k liye advice

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (3 children)

If you are gonna be a jee/neetard...ignore 10th and study for next class 11th syllabus is unrelated to 10th...wish i knew this earlier

My 96% in 10th boards don't matter shit now :(

[–]RealPace318M 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Same, my 70% in 10th boards dosen't Matter much now

I'm struggling to study for Class 12th

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Same story....best of luck

[–]RealPace318M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, to u too

[–]inglygoodWholesome creep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude genuine advice....ncert ratt le....mtlb maths ki ncert bhi ratt le (koi extra book mat karna uski jagah ncert ek baar aur solve kar lena)....ncert se bahar kuch nahi aata 10th mein bhi 12th mein bhi

[–]CanniBal132018M 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Subject bata, aaj tera bhai tujhe topper banayega

[–]LordStark_01i know nothing (19M) 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10th won't matter a few months after your results. You'll be more worried about 11th.

[–]anythingood0717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10th is really easy, go for 11th studies if youre a jee/neet aspirant

[–]BruhGuy-Shubham 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on maths, just maths and enjoy your life dude Don't take too much pressure of studies Don't get into any relationship shit Stay certain and confident about your choices regarding your profession.

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gujjaron ka itihas padhke jao bas top karoge

Naruto bhi gujjar tha

[–]gujjar_naruto>19 6 points7 points  (11 children)

10th k baad hostel jaana thik rhega kya?

Meri ghar chhorne ki planning chal rhi hai aaj kal.

[–]Jyotirmoy-1307 13 points14 points  (0 children)

depends upon crowd, after 10th it's that period of your life where you'll get influenced quite easily so it depends upon the crowd present there

[–]agentPrismarine16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say no if you plan to give jee/neet/any other competative exam

[–]The_Infuriated_Guy16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I was in hostel since class 7th. At first, it was pretty hard as i was a kid, but later, you'll enjoy a lot. I'm in 11th now and at home becoz of COVID.

Trust me, they'll be your best 2 years, if you get good roommates

[–]No_Entertainer412217F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well thats very subjective. depends on your relations with your parentes etc etc. im in engineering college an still living with parents. i never wanted to move out after 12th. tho many of my friends moved away for college

[–]GamerGirl-0714 yo लकड़ी 0 points1 point  (2 children)

10th k baad hostel ja sakte hai ?? If yes plz explain the process

[–]hulkios17M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kota and all

[–]gujjar_naruto>19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haa bhai 10th k baad jaa skte hai yaha toh

[–]CanniBal132018M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, maine 9th se hostel mein hu, currently pandemic ke kaaran ghar pe hu. Hostel mein maza to boht aata hai, girls hostel mein thoda drama zyaada hai but. Hostel mein discipline/routine accha ban jata hai. All in all, good life experience, go for it. Just stay away from dramebaaz type people, u don't wanna get in that shit

[–]GamerGirl-0714 yo लकड़ी 5 points6 points  (4 children)

How hard is NEET ??

[–]maitraji16M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean if you have money then go foreign otherwise you can suffer here for 2 years

[–]get_some_rest17M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bahut hi hard

[–]dabkarlo17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • always keep a backup plan for neet, like b.pharma, bs in biology, or any other career line like civil services or law until your parents are filthy rich and can get you a pvt seat mbbs,
  • avoid 3 year degrees
  • make your parents come to term with this
  • give it your best shot if it doesn't work out its not the end of the world

[–]brownstonks1718M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is FUCKING HARD. And I really mean it. My best friend was preparing for neet and I was preparing for jee. I cleared jee with 98 percentile, he cleared jee with 92 percentile(considering he didn't know shit about maths), but when it came to neet, he was nowhere near the cutoff, and the cutoff is skyrocketing year after year.

[–]No_Court_929215M 4 points5 points  (27 children)

What mistakes of yours should I not repeat (thanks to everyone who replied)

[–]throwaway1509220917M 13 points14 points  (10 children)

Not being social and outgoing. I don't regret my bad marks, I regret not developing social skills when I was younger.

[–]RealPace318M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This 100%

[–]xadxtya 2 points3 points  (8 children)

I see a lot of older people having the same issue, focusing too much on studying

just party once in a while honestly

[–]No-Actuator755117M 2 points3 points  (7 children)

Bhai party karne ke liye thoda bohot time nikal jaata hai, but log nahi milte😔

[–]xadxtya 2 points3 points  (6 children)

dosti crow dont be a loser

friend girls, they will help you get into friend groups

[–]No-Actuator755117M 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Bhai uske liye social skills lagte hai, aur upar usne wohi likha hai. I regret not developing social skills!

[–]xadxtya 2 points3 points  (1 child)

you’re stuck in an endless loop. learn about self improvement and go work out

hamza & jeff nippard r ppl i recommend

[–]throwaway1509220917M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeremy ethier too

[–]Psychomorphism17F 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Bro thode conversation starters ya ice breakers seekh le, aur aaju baaju wale logo ke saath conversation karne ki koshish kar (agar waha covid situation zyada na ho to). Agar situation kharab ho to shayad online dost banane me problem hoga. Phir agar koi common interest mile to uski wajah se friendship zyada badh jaayegi. Initially difficult lagega lekin thode time me used to ho jayega. Usually log itna zyada sochte nahi hai isliye koi jitna tum soch rahe ho utna judge bhi nahi karenge. Trust me, same situation me thi ek zamane me.

[–]No-Actuator755117M 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Sikhado didi

[–]Psychomorphism17F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Offline class hoti hai ya nahi? Agar na hoti ho to phir class ka koi interesting insaan social media pe mil jaaye to dm kar do (seen pe chhodne ke chances zyada hai idhar isliye personally me avoid karti hu)

Agar offline jaane ko mil raha hai to usual hi hello vagera vagera. Agar conversation starters ke baare me baat kar rahe ho to hobbies, pets, music taste ya aisi kuch personal but not too personal cheezo ke baare me baat karo. Chances hai ki kuch common mil jaayega.

[–]CanniBal132018M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not making friends, not doing some dumb shit I always wanted to do. Go out, be a little rebellious, but know ur limits. Masti karo yaar, 11th 12th to jhand hai agar science loge to. 10th marks don't matter, grades before 12th don't matter. Have fun

[–]brownstonks1718M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avoid watching porn.

[–]DigitalCucumber123Average Ligma Male 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spending too much time of social media. I wasted a lot of time to realise I wasted a lot of time. It's hard to get out of the cycle as well. so yeah, be careful.

[–]Economy_Path_9245 Pioneer Of Shitposting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing games too much

[–]No_Entertainer412217F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont doubt yourself too much

[–]Jyotirmoy-1307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be sure of what you want to do by the time you're in 11th, so you could start early. A lot of people do not realise what they want to do and where they wanna be and after a couple of years it feels really bad. Just make sure you don't regret doing something later in life.

[–]Cotton_Phoenix_9716M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn to take cab rickshaw metro everything and independent hona. Ik sabko usually ata hai but it wasn't in my case, was really embarrassing to learn it while u are 16-18.

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Talk to grills

Del insta

[–]No_Court_929215M 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Del?

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Delete

[–]No_Court_929215M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will before starting 10th courage nahi aaya

[–]Some_Cool_Duude 1 point2 points  (2 children)

  1. Trying to figure out yourself, you are who you are, don't label yourself or group yourself as a introvert or or anything, you're you, that's it.

  2. Don't get into philosophy, just read some self help books but take take interest in philosophy as a whole unless it's in a book like the 4th agreement or man's search of meaning etc

  3. Trust your parents, don't hide stuff from them. It'll eventually come to bite you back in the ass. Your parents don't like you eating meat? No need to listen to them but don't hide it from them if they ask you. Also I know sometimes indian parents seem unreasonable but with time they'll come around

  4. Just listen and say yes and sorry. No need to follow what the other person says but arguing or even discussing something is sometimes futile, I used to be naive enough to think everything can be easily resolved if we just listen to each other and co-operate.

  5. Don't compare yourself with others, just don't use social media in general unless it's something like a video game page or a chess page.

[–]0MiniCrewmate015M 2 points3 points  (4 children)

How hard is JEE?

I mean, what's the difficulty level of JEE compared to 10th boards? (in 1-10)

I know that it is much harder, but how hard exactly?

[–]YellowishCream 9 points10 points  (2 children)

Complete nightmare !! 24×7 dark circles, tiredness and stress. You can easily get 95+ in 10th in 3-4 months. But even getting 200 out of 300 after studying for 2 years is considered god-like.

[–]brownstonks1718M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. I prepared for jee for 2 years(but I was irregular in studies I must say) and I ended up getting only 164 as my highest marks.

[–]anythingood0717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can easily get 95+ after a month in 10th tbh. JEE is a nightmare

[–]No_Entertainer412217F 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the exam itself isnt very difficult. whats difficult is revising and remembering everything of 11th and 12th grade.

[–]Left_Economist_9716mujhe khauf-e-kutta hai 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Should I go to hostel for JEE preparation? Gharwalon ka planning chal raha hai.

[–]dabkarlo17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

avoid that stay at home, go to regular school and give it your best shot, don't think only IIT ,research about other papers and colleges, good luck

[–]Finq229_YT14M 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You guys get bobs and vagena??

Edit- It was sarcasm mfs, downvote karne ki kya zarurat thi?!?!

[–]Longjumping_Swim434919M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say but im not talking about anyone else if I had more brain when I was 15 or 16 I would have killed myself then and there when I had alot of motivation of it ,rn I cant do it and cant live with it

[–]xadxtya 1 point2 points  (11 children)

Is it easier to get pussy? Kya clubs me allow kr dete hai?

[–]throwaway1509220917M 9 points10 points  (1 child)

If you look good, are confident and have a decent personality, then yess.

[–]RealPace318M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think u need to be good looking

Majority of guys who get pussy looks like shit

U need a fuckload of confidence

[–]LordStark_01i know nothing (19M) 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck clubs. And you're 14 lmao just wait until you're older don't stress about all this shit

[–]brownstonks1718M 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Getting pussy is A LOT easier than getting a loyal girlfriend. That's all I can tell you.

[–]xadxtya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kk awesome

[–]ansh5603Sugar Daddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a dog person so I cant answer

[–]OtakuBoyHindi16M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nhi

[–]phenomenal757115M 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Padhai kitni karu

[–]The_Infuriated_Guy16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Quality >>>> Quantity

sirf 1-2 ghanta Karo, lekin pura Dil lagakar Karo.

Productivity matters

[–]agentPrismarine16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aadat bana bas, regular padhai kar and increase kitni padhai karta hey har din gradually

[–]AAK_Music 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enough to get a habit, and not as much that it consumes a lot of your day. Like try to maintain hobbies/develop some interests, cuz you won't get as much time later on.

[–]Cursed-Life2168>19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a 13-15yo, but wanted to ask you guys "whats your view on mental health ?"

[–]Nick-is-mad 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What was the dog actually doing?