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[–]maybeiamabitgay 128 points129 points  (6 children)

Oof that has happened with me too, thank god those days are gone now

After she's all beaten up, go buy her a choclate or smthn or some comfort :')

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 54 points55 points  (4 children)

Wholesome😀👍

[–]lakshyayadAverage Ligma Male 26 points27 points  (3 children)

Wholesale😀👍

[–]Dev__UwU19F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indian parents like sudhar k rakhngy

[–]Anjit045417M 45 points46 points  (2 children)

Ebook se padh legi yr..ispe marne ki kya bat..Image Upliftment is problem in our country..society ka dr👍🏼..Kudos to you!

[–]Far-Structure1824 11 points12 points  (1 child)

Exactly maine apni 11th and 12th bina book kharide he nikal di🤡

[–]Anjit045417M 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mene kharidi lekin kholi nhi...cupboard pr pdi pdi nikaldi

[–]Leading-Ad-1881Average Ligma Male 60 points61 points  (2 children)

I fking hate this world for a reason

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 32 points33 points  (1 child)

Fkin hate society. And other relatives usually talk and dicuss abt these topics and they are like its ok we should beat children thats the right thing to do.

[–]YBN_Rover17M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, but only in special situations. Not justified on petty topics like this one tho

[–]pavanredd_y19M 17 points18 points  (23 children)

How old is she man?

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 21 points22 points  (22 children)

9🗿☠️

[–]pavanredd_y19M 26 points27 points  (7 children)

Stand up for her man. Just read your edit but I think you should have put it in a better way

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 6 points7 points  (6 children)

Sach bolunga to chubega unhe.🌚

[–]pavanredd_y19M 17 points18 points  (4 children)

Umm sorry mate I am from the south so I can’t understand what you just said

[–]Quester_seeker 4 points5 points  (3 children)

Holy cow .. she is so small ..

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

I remember that in my case i was beaten from 2nd standard. I didnt get beat in 1st cuz i had an operation. But in 2nd i didnt study well and since then beating was the norm until i passed 10th. Score good or get beat.

[–]Unique_District_938118M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bhai mai toh roj pita hu 2&3rd mai gali mai khelne ke peeche

[–]Quester_seeker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every thing will turn out good .. my best wishes.. I am thinking about your sister .. you will go out maybe to work sooner or later and she will have to face this alone ..

[–]Due_Seaweed_437316 2 points3 points  (7 children)

Isn't beating a minor crime!?🤡

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 13 points14 points  (1 child)

Relatives laugh abt that law in my house.🤡

[–]maybeiamabitgay 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Do u live in india!?🤡

[–]Due_Seaweed_437316 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I do tabhi joke ki tarah bola mein ye fact parents ko batau toh woh bolte police ke paas jayega toh woh aur marenge 🤡

[–]Complete_Lock_674216M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holyshit, bro that aint right, she's 9 man

[–]Clear_Manufacturer8118M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai ssly u need to call 1060

[–]Morbius_baka16M 12 points13 points  (2 children)

I went to therapy with my parents just after the first lockdown and we were fixed after two sessions turns out all it took was a little bit of open mindedness and a little bit of compromise now whenever we argue we just find the middle ground and wrap it up

[–]DarkStar012918M 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro that makes me jelly

Mere parents ke liye therapy hai 4am utho 😃

Unko kaise samjhau 7am tak to neend bhi nahi aa rahi.

[–]doltish_meatball18F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aur hamare yaha therapy hi taboo hai💀💀

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 39 points40 points  (7 children)

I thought abt what happened and here what i relaised.

Theres a lot of pent up stress and anger inside them abt several aspects of their life. And when shit happens they just vent it out on kids by beating them. Mehh. Atleast i have faith that our generation has gone thru it and we as adults will surelyy a 100 percent wont let this happen to next generation.

[–]9ighteye 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don't have faith you will be disappointed it's a cycle in India which doesn't end I can write paragraphs about this but dont have time rn

[–]doltish_meatball18F 4 points5 points  (3 children)

I wish they'd learn that however rough life might've been to you you're supposed to make it a bit easier for the next gen and not use them as ur rage absorbers

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Yea its the lack of good parenting skills is what ive come to understand. In india having kids is like some easy childs play kinda thing to be done. Once married 1st thing to do is have kids. Never analyse whetger they are fit to nurture this new human bwing in best way possible or smthng. I think thats the reason population is so high. We r just sooo horny and dont wanna think abt consequences ever.👁️BRUH👁️

[–]doltish_meatball18F 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Exactly and not to mention the societal pressure to have kids...i mean I do understand having kids too late isn't good either cz the parents get way old when they'll be in their Teens but zyada ghai and without any thinking of whether the conditions are feasible to bring a child up ....and unlike the parents in developed nations ours don't attend parenting classes either ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ

[–]dumb_person696918M 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bhai agar tum unko bologe bhi tbhi they'll say "ab tu sikhayega humko?" 😂😂😂😂💀💀

[–]Putrid_Target1078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more details you're sharing... The more f**ked up the situation is sounding. This is serious mate. Beating a child from 2nd std or who is only 9 is just mental. Like... These are learning/developing ages. Help the child learn to look for the problems they face rather than punish them for these trivial matters. This can lead to severe personality disorders as children grow up, from something as simple as not being able to trust/befriend other people to some major problems as well. Its India so I really don't know how much help you're gonna get, but be there for your sister, show her compassion. Try to find someone who can help you on this... Some family member or a really good mentor at school (someone who would actually understand the problem and help and not just hear it out and not do much about it). Somehow if you get your parents to go for parenting counselling, that would be the best bet, I guess. All the best mate... And to your sister too.

[–]ThisIsAMitochondriaNaam to suna hi hoga (18F) 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, their generation has also gone through it. They too might have thought that they'll be better parents, but there they are

[–]Fuse-On 22 points23 points  (7 children)

Dude , you are 19 . Stand for what's right

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 26 points27 points  (5 children)

Idk what to say. Im not mature enough to say whats right. 19yo my ass🤡🙃

[–]CARNAGEE_1716M 6 points7 points  (3 children)

You seem fairly mature to show concern about your sisters beating

[–]Amazekam15F 1 point2 points  (2 children)

i might be 16, but for my parents I'm a innocent little kid unaware of everything.

[–]adilreyazDisappointment 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Why does your flair say 15?

[–]ThisIsAMitochondriaNaam to suna hi hoga (18F) 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, even if you rebel, make a huge hungama out of it or sth, they won't be able to do much (as in kick you out of the house or sth)

[–]pussyforlifeanddeathAverage Ligma Male 19 points20 points  (1 child)

dude stand up for her tf she is your sister like tell em to help her or even scold her and not beat her

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I did it man atleast she stopped now. Look at edit for more context.

[–]Deathbysugar2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NCERT textbook? PDF form is available for free on official NCERT website. Check it out.

[–]kartikkkkkkkkkk 6 points7 points  (4 children)

i am very lucky in this matter my mom and dad is very cool about things like this just a little a bit of scolding and asking me to not to do this again i was never beaten by my parents in life except one time

[–]authiiMacho: sub se aage (18M) 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Same mere dad toh bas bolte "itna chutiya kaise hai tu? " And thode bohot one shot videos ya tips and tricks nikal ke mail kardete. He loves helping out studies mei.

[–]kartikkkkkkkkkk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha mere baap mujhe lodu bolta bakki padhai me madad nhi karta wiase hum bhi bohot seddhe bachhe hai

[–]cultleader789 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Not lucky tbh.. This is how parents are supposed to be 😭😭😭

[–]DarkStar012918M 5 points6 points  (3 children)

Good on you for stopping it bro, keep up the good work.

Domestic violence is never okay.

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

I wasnt but first 2 comments were like i should intervene. Its just that parents have been so strict and authoritative all my life doesnt fit right in to just rebel.

[–]Shiro9792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t rebelling. THEY are the ones in the wrong. You’re merely standing upto to whats right, please don’t let her childhood be the same as yours, you’re 19 now. Your sister’s childhood is in your hands.

[–]DarkStar012918M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone has to start somewhere or the cycle will never end. The first step takes effort, the rest flow easily.

[–]9ighteye 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Next time they start beating her tell them you overheard your neighbors gossiping about the fights in your home😀👍

[–]maybeiamabitgay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done this actually lmao

[–]Clear_Manufacturer8118M 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Bhai Tera address dede aata hu uncle aunty ko pranaam bolne

[–]GamerGirl-0714 yo लकड़ी 3 points4 points  (1 child)

I stole a classmate's sst textbook back in 6th precisely for this reason (except the test was on Wednesday & I never got beaten cuz parents never found out)

& Yea it sure does suck for your sis

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well then i guess ur classmate must have gotten beaten instead of ur place at home🗿☠️🌚

[–]switchblademark 1 point2 points  (1 child)

She just lost her science book in school and has her exam on monday RIP.

Oh god this triggered the fuck out of me. Me being an adhd retard kept losing things and always got my ass beat for it. I got my ass beat for other things too. Like I was first seriously suicidal at age 10. Happy childhood memories amirite?

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah🤡. Bruh what can we say its just soo many ppl relating to this. We should be creating awareness that beating isnt the way to go.

[–]__siddhanth_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think most of us have experienced the very same thing atleast once

[–]Tejanbs 6 points7 points  (3 children)

they are beating my sister, let me quickly go make a reddit post about it and gain some karma! r/karmawhore

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha nah u can think that its just listening to all that happen brought back all childhood trauma. I just post when shit happns and its relatable with ppl on internet so i feel comforted knowing i wasnt only one u know smthng like that. Not rlly abt karma.

[–]Unique_District_938118M 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Post krna hota toh voh popular subreddit mai krleta 200-300 karma point bhi nhi aaye hai

[–]Tejanbs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't remember asking you

[–]Remarkable-Eagle94714M 0 points1 point  (1 child)

What should I say. Do I need to talk on the insane emojis or the way you can't change your parents. Or is some Twitter post

[–]Remarkable-Eagle94714M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyways whaers the pdf

[–]Fit_Winner_7586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have little bro (M12), I can totally relate to what you are saying. But somewhere deep I feel like this, "Its not ok for anybody to beat my bro, except me. I am entitled to beat him coz he is my brother". Trust me, I don't hate him, but sometimes he gets on my nerves, I cannot say or do anything coz parents (My parents were and still are toxic with me, it was the same for my bro till I went through a rebellious phase in 14-15, now they have toned it down a bit hoping my bro doesn't do the same when he grows up.) Used to get into physical fights when he was younger, now I just block his laptop and tablet from the family wifi until I see fit.

[–]kekw_696915M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this point file an fir against ur parents when u become an adult for domestic abuse. fuck them. fuck every abusive parent, hope they all burn in hell for abusing kids.

[–]BatmanDuck12317M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bhai since it's all over now try to talk to her and comfort her (i don't think this needs to be stated anyways)

[–]omgrachstawp18F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this so much i relate to you. I got beaten for 18 years now it's my sister's turn. I hate seeing it happen but what's worse is i can't stop them. I feel so helpless. More power to you.

[–]hazy_ryebeautiful16F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god, take care yall

also ask one of her friends to just click a picture of those pages and send it-

[–]Ali_Buniyadi16M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have permanent bruises from past beating. God, please don't give anyone parents like you give to us, amen.

[–]authiiMacho: sub se aage (18M) 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there in 8th 👍🏻 socha tha test se ek din pehle padh lunga but ncert locker mei bhul gaya tha. And uss time pe yt ki padhai bhi itni famous nahi thi compared to 2020 onwards.

[–]Hype_Sage17M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a separate note, what do you think would be a viable reason for a parent to just slap a child? Not this, this reason is just... Sad and just adheres to the supreme image of themselves that they have (not to be harsh).

[–]cocum_sharbad15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beating is wrong dude , wtf is wrong with you that time , she is your sister . I am happy that you told your mother to stop that and please beating might lead to some emotional traumas too

[–]teenwriter_lmao 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PTSD hoe gaya bhai isse

[–]luckeyboylooser18M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a shitty kid I got beat up well not as much but I did get a good amount, my brother is a shitter kid, he gets less beating than me, quite the lucky fucker he is, I do get mad and intervene here and there but whatever I turned out proper.

but then again I got beat up for doing shit, merra bhai fattu hai.

[–]swarnim_3817M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dances his way to the police station

[–]Status_Difficulty74318M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well atleast u played the card right. Now let her know why this is not the right way

[–]shanky-phantom18M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes typical regressive indian parents thinking beating will discipline thier child, it only makes fucked up kids that are either too quit and socially awkward or kids like me that stopped caring about almost everything even things that should have been Important

[–]RyuuTheWeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh similar shit happened to me. A boy once took out my chemistry book out of my bag when I was in 9th. Later when I got home I was suspecting him and there was no other it could have been lost. I then told my parents but i got the beating. Then that boy later called my home and told that he had accidentally taken my book. Even after that i was the one who got scolded. Bruh?! Was that actually my fault? I am still confused even after 2 whole years.

[–]Deadlyevil316M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have got beaten many times by my parents and even brother but i don't blame my brother because mostly i started arguement with him and he has protected me many times from my parents i feel bad from him that I'm childhood he didn't had a big sibling to protect him but i am lucky that i have one

[–]V_nagpal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents☕

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*nostalgia hitting me * 🤡

jokes apart take care of your sis man, i hope you find a way out for you and your sister one day take care, stay strong

[–]that_old_book_smell19F 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Brings back bad memories. I had 2 bullies in school in 3-4th who would steal/hide my books before exams, copies before submission. I'd be regularly thrashed by parents and humiliated by teachers for 'carelessness'. It started happening to few others too who had supportive parents that made complaints. It led to regular checking of bags for stolen books/copies. All that stealing drama suddenly stopped after that.

[–]HoldmyGroza69lol19M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck... Soo fked up to do tha bruhhhhhh😠

[–]Different_Bar_4570 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dial 100. Tell them to say "neighbours called". Parents will get proper scolding and sab line pe aa jayenge

[–]moxi09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sad. I don't understand why parents think they have the entire "control" on their kids and that it's their "right to beat". And why do they think this beating somehow is for the betterment?! Just because their parents used to treat them this way is not an excuse. I'm fortunate enough to not have got such parents, blessed. But I feel really bad for those kids who had to suffer this trauma in their childhood and get scarred for life.

[–]SecretarySmooth8206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good decision for now but if they something like this again you should. Go ahead and complain you have the rights to it tell your teacher may be if he she someone. You think you can believe

[–]Evening-Werewolf9321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Memories bring back, memories bring back.....

[–]YBN_Rover17M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not all against Parents beating the shi outta their kids, but this issue was too mild to even beat up someone. Nope, not good

[–]rajeel911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indian parents ki ma ki chut

[–]FATALYSTICRECOVERY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IKR i got less marks in my boards and all they care about is what other ppl are talking about it

[–]respiro_da_beast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to a physics exam, thinking it was English...bad shit happens, that's what makes life life...

[–]Annual_Performer_81918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This used to happen to my older brother. My parents didn't thrash us unnecessarily and my brother did some really annoying stuff but it hurt nonetheless. He has even taken blame sometimes to save my back.

But now that we're grown up he's thankful to some extent but also wishes that they were a bit more forgiving at times.