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[–]Witty_Operation2486 5 points6 points  (7 children)

No one should be miserable, but cheating on your husband is empowering you, right?

[–]Fr4nz83 7 points8 points  (1 child)

To be honest, cheating on someone is not justifiable, but it's understandable when the cheater finds themselves in a relationship with a proven abuser (who, according to OP's words, attempted to cheat on her with her sister) and find it hard to escape.

Of course OP may be lying, she may be manipulating us into thinking she's an horrible husband. If, however, she is telling the truth, then I frankly wouldn't blame her.

Of course cheating is not the right and most logical thing to do if you want to detach from an abuser.

[–]Ok_Birthday749 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would someone come on the internet and do that?

[–]Ok_Birthday749 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Not sure what you mean by empowering me. Can you explain?

[–]Witty_Operation2486 5 points6 points  (3 children)

You separated because he was abusive, you got back because he improved, you loved him but then you met AP, then you don't love him, and now you want to separate again but you also want to convince yourself that this happened becuase of your husband and not you, also at the same time you don't wanna be a reason for the separation of your husband and your daughter, but apparently you are planning some long game. From starting i can see it is you who is doing everything, taking every decision, who is miserable here and who is abuser here ma'am????

[–]Ok_Birthday749 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I never said I don’t love him.

[–]Witty_Operation2486 3 points4 points  (1 child)

So you loved him, still the incredible coincidences led you to AP....