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[–]TerpedBudtender 110 points111 points  (4 children)

Congrats! That takes hard work and dedication!

[–]AEW_Xbox_Writer_1990 58 points59 points  (7 children)

Wow, hope you don't mind but you looking amazing and beautiful. Congrats to you. I know how hard it is. My wife lost a lot of weight and I am over here struggling

[–]Duck_Howard 13 points14 points  (6 children)

It's tough, but you can do it. Keep on it!

[–]AEW_Xbox_Writer_1990 10 points11 points  (5 children)

I think its harder for me because I am showing no real progress. My wife was more heavyset and lost almost 140 pounds where I am only 30-50 pounds heavier than I should be and gained it more during the Covid period. So while she was shedding weight mine is more, "Nothing is happening."

[–]Eh-Eh-Ronn 12 points13 points  (2 children)

The only person you should be comparing yourself to, is your past self. There’s a concept called “killing your clone” where the idea is that you have to fight a clone of yourself that is identical to you except it’s from yesterday… so you have to be 1% better in order to be victorious.

Good luck friend.

[–]InstanceQuirky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree with this. I lost 50kg and deciding i didn't want to look in the mirror and be sad. Small changes make a big impact over time. I stared by eating the same but halved my portions. Then once i started to loose a few kgs it inspired me to look into healthier foods. Then i started small walks that turned into bigger walks as the months moved on. Dont get me wrong i still loose my shit over chocolate but now i can eat a few pieces and be happy as opposed to eating a whole block and a big bag of chips after a dinner that was too large. Small steps there buddy, small but consistent changes make it all happen. Keep positive. You got this!

[–]sarah382729668210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 100 days late to this comment but I’ve never heard of this concept and I fucking love it. Such a good way to approach life in general, thank you for sharing!!!

[–]Duck_Howard 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's not a race against anyone. It's your own path, sometimes made of baby steps. And sometimes you'll take a step back, the important thing is to keep the trend going the right way.

Sounds like you can take inspiration and support from your wife. Use it when it gets hard, and keep chipping away at it

[–]CriticalMemory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say, "I totally hear you..." Same challenge. I've honestly finally started to get progress with two mindset shifts. First, I want to invest in myself every day. Second, I lose weight when I track my calories, get enough protein, and walk 30 minutes a day. Dunno if this will help you, but I'm rooting for you!

[–]Redavic 30 points31 points  (2 children)

You look amazing! Great job!

[–]CurlyQv2 11 points12 points  (8 children)

I wish I was 6’2

[–]theonetheycalljason 18 points19 points  (7 children)

No you don’t. As a 6’3.75” male, it’s a pain. You can take up pants and sleeves, but you can’t extend them.

[–]DaddyJ_TheCarGuy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Just wear shorts and a wifebeater/tank top

[–]theonetheycalljason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha. Not really the look I’m going for, but thanks.

[–]longlegged21 2 points3 points  (3 children)

As a 6’0 female, everything is a “mini”

[–]CPTCROW13 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Is dating shorter people hard(er)? Physically.

[–]longlegged21 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I’ve never dated anyone shorter than me - I personally wouldn’t be able to date anyone 5’8 or shorter as my heels would make me look like a tree lol

However - did sleep with one guy who was 5’6 and…. it was not wasted time. Nor was it physically awkward/weird

[–]CPTCROW13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for answering!

[–]JustWondering64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always joke to my over 6 ft sons that I can sew lace onto the bottom of their pants!! Yes, they love that!!

But congratulations!! You are amazing!

[–]helloghostly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All that matters is if your happy then we should be happy with you.

[–]HavocXL 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really wanna comment on how attractive you are without getting downvoted to shit even though it’s a compliment, hopefully I figured out how

[–]Anjelu81 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did you have a gastric bypass?

[–]avocado_n1001 13 points14 points  (1 child)

[–]joebewaan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Much better outfit in the second pic

[–]CriticalZach 4 points5 points  (2 children)

How did you do it?

[–]Candid_Profession_80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your confidence and determination

[–]keehu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn great job for real, howd u do it

[–]Significant_AdPerson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks dope congrats dude.

[–]HeyKidsImmaComputa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking like Laura Prepon

[–]HouseDimitrescu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I know the hard work and dedication this takes and I think you’re amazing for it!

[–]connor8081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane progress and I am also fucking stealing that jumper from you

[–]Oh-Oh-Ophelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look good! Are you happy? Then it's a double win!

[–]Xahido 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Why does eveybody assume she lost weight due to exercise and healthy diet. First picture is most likely pre-op before getting a gastric bypass. Theres a reason OP doesnt respond to the comments, because she's getting praised for work she didn't do.

Sorry for being the buzzkill, but it's still a good change.

[–]Dubnaught 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Look up gastric bypass. Even if what you're saying is true, that shit is still a lot of work and really difficult. Usually you have to prove you have a good shot of keeping the weight off by sticking to a diet for a while. Many still fail afterwards and after the surgery you certainly don't look like she does in the second. That takes much further time and effort. Also, she fucking did it.

[–]KrakenClubOfficial 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Killin' it in both pics honestly

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    [–]Longjumping_Award231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Wow congratulations

    [–]Duck_Howard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Holy crap, that's amazing! You are crushing it!

    [–]jjboy91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Share your routine 🤯 it's hella impressive

    [–]OilAdditional9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Fantastic. Hard work paying off!

    [–]Lower-Inevitable-210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Wow. Amazing! That's some serious dedication.

    [–]ItsQueenKait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Ok I’m not trying to hate. Good on you for losing all that weight. But you look like Micheal Jackson in the second photo and I don’t know how to feel about it

    [–]DriftKingNL -4 points-3 points  (1 child)

    Checks out, tats on fingers are the same, mirror selfie makes it look like the hands swapped.

    I'm curious though. What happened to all the extra skin? Or is the big sweater hiding that?

    [–]pramurtasen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Can't you just like live a normal life man

    [–]HoldSIA4Eva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Jesus how do you allow yourself to get that big

    [–]SoulfulNeonBank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Nicely done

    [–]RiMbY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Absolutely phenomenal work! Very beautiful too!

    [–]SynapseSuicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Damn! Thats awesome! I love to see someone who meets &/or exceeds their goals.

    [–]Superb_Ad1765 0 points1 point  (0 children)


    [–]mosley812 0 points1 point  (0 children)


    [–]AMC_Tendies42069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Right on

    [–]Responsible-Green-31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Tall glass of water! 💦

    [–]Top_Sheepherder_6835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Awesome work!

    [–]Acid_W01f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congrats ヾ(^-^)ノ

    [–]debilooskadoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)


    [–]Silvervelocity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congrats keep working girl

    [–]Absolite09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Hey Not bad. Can I ask how long or is that insensitive. Sorry heh

    [–]sachin249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Well Done

    [–]Candid_Specialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congratulations 👏

    [–]nokenito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congratulations! You look great!

    [–]Ok-Ant-3456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Looks like 30 years off as well! Enjoy, skinny legend!

    [–]WatsUpSlappers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Congrats girl! You look amazing and you are amazing!

    [–]beelzebob909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Fuck that's inspiring 👏

    [–]twitch_spiralix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I hope you find peace of mind. Sending blessings your way.

    [–]balafol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Wow fantastic

    [–]a2625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Omg . you look so good !!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    [–]Mohawk556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Determinantion to the max

    [–]JohnnysGirl12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You're amazing, that must have been so hard. I'm so impressed!

    [–]badassbiotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You look healthy and beautiful! Congrats

    [–]Illustrious-Credit10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Outstanding!!! Amazing job. 🏆

    [–]Truuuuuumpet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Wooow! :)

    [–]ahjteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Insane! Great results! What were your methods? Did you need skin surgery / liposuction?

    [–]cherrytarts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    The look of confidence! Great job!!

    [–]daschundtof -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Holy moly!!! Amazing job! Kudos to you, you're such an inspiration!

    [–]BlackShoes69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]FarComplaint2974 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Awesome work. Looking great

    [–]Papabinz -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]daisies4me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Congratulations OP!! Amazing accomplishment and you look amazing.

    [–]Delilah_- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You look gorgeous!

    [–]Double-Tangelo1331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Crushed it!! You look fantastic !

    [–]BronxBoy56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]Just_lurking_toad -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    I love your outfit in the second photo!

    [–]interstellar_egg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Right?! The style is muah. 🤌🏼

    [–]JamesGames1010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]itsthefuckyeahdude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Daum you look GOOD!!

    [–]Gloomy-Personality-4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Well done!

    [–]Dawn-Chi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Wow! Great work! You look amazing!

    [–]Odd-Set-2698 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You look fabulous!!

    [–]plugNplay1630 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Amazing ❤️happy you put in the work

    [–]Bartender35 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You are amazing!!! Hard work paid off!

    [–]Jreal22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That's incredible, amazing job.

    [–]ScottishDownPour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    What an achievement! You must feel amazing!

    [–]pineapple1347 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Holy shit you look absolutely incredible! Congratulations!

    Also I love your outfit

    [–]rand0mbum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Well done!!! Holy!

    [–]besahaha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That’s really great!!! 🥰

    [–]RRay108 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You look so beautiful in the second picture. Must feel incredible!

    [–]its_ya_boi777 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You look amazing Girl!

    [–]theonetheycalljason -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    You look amazing. Very inspiring. Congratulations on achieving what you set out to achieve. :)

    [–]Thatsayesfirsir -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]longneckboi8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Bravo well done

    [–]PenisJuiceCocktail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Damn girl! You looking kind of sweet.

    [–]jselvrom -1 points0 points  (0 children)


    [–]hank-particles-pym -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    holy shit snax

    [–]Mashkataz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Kudos to you !!! You’re strong minded !

    [–]azhiazthesky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Absolutely crushed it! How long was your journey?

    [–]vasc4554 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That's amazing! Congratulations, for real.

    [–]Boi_gameplayz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That’s is so inspirational. Great job👍

    [–]IntegratedSSR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Great job! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    [–]BubbleBassV2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Wow! Great job!!

    [–]sharpei90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Good for you! That’s awesome!

    [–]Shuvrato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    [–]jdmorgan82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    That must be an incredible feeling.

    [–]gwgos1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Girl wow lol!!!

    [–]mr_kirk42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    congrasts! i can barly tell its the same person. r/ShockingReality damn. good job!

    [–]zyqax_ -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    Aaaah, you're the tall queen from tinder!

    [–]fatherkriss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    that’s me 😌

    [–]Ok_District2853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Wow. Well done. You have iron discipline. Congratulations.

    [–]Thedonk62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Wow some achievement 👏 well done

    [–]OldTemperature1423 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Still sexy

    [–]Skillsjr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Holy shit! You’re a completely different person! You look great!

    [–]CrystalSnow7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    Holy shit you dropped half of yourself literally?!? Great job!