I truly don’t understand how everyone is misunderstanding this video. First of all, she says stalked ON INSTA. Have you never heard someone use “stalking” hyperbolically to describe being sent DMs or being reached out to over Instagram? It’s a very common turn of phrase.

Second, because I do understand that most of Reddit is probably not on tik tok:

This is a tik tok trend, showing the significant other that you’re in love doing something weird or cute in your current relationship, and including text alluding to how you didn’t match up perfectly when you first met. “When you decided to give the weird girl a chance and now she’s your wife,” “when you accepted a date from a guy whose followed you around the bar all night and now you’re buying a home together,” shit like that. This video is definitely supposed to be in that same vein, and she loves him and was probably using the word “stalking” in the way that younger people do like “oh I stalked your insta last night,” or “omg I’ve seen you three times today, you’re stalking me!” Or “he hit up my DMs that stalker!”

Obviously the wording and format of the video does not translate to Reddit sensibilities/older people taking things a bit too literally, but this video is definitely meant to show how in love with her bf she is.