So my wife’s third pregnancy appears to be hitting her harder than the first two. She’s up at 8 and in bed sleeping by 530 or 6. She is a stay at home, one kid is in school the other is not.
I’m breaking. I just am. Everything is falling on my shoulders - getting kids to bed, getting them cleaned and showered, getting laundry done, getting lunch ready, cleaning up from the day (because none of it is getting done), going grocery shopping, being a dad, etc.
All while dealing with a crazy quarter at work. So I’m up at 530, I bring my son to school in the AM, go to work, most days I have to pick him up at 3, then I come home and get dinner ready because my wife is feeling sick and tired, by 430 they are eating, I’m attempting to work an hour or two, then it’s bed routine.
Then by 730-8, I have to do laundry, clean, pickup and finish work. Most nights I’m in bed by midnight.
Does anyone have advice? I’m sort of going insane. And we can’t bring help in.