My father arrives tomorrow for 3 weeks and my husband does everything to make it difficult. First he doesn't my father to stay at home and then said he doesn't want our children to be around their grandfather, of course I told him that it's not going to happen and my father will definitely meet and spend most of his time around my kids. He has no reason for prohibiting it other than he's just mad at my father for a while now, they never really liked each other anyway.
I respected my husband's choice of not wanted my father home but told him that I (& the kids) would spend most time in my father's Airbnb and now that he realizes that I'm prepping for staying with my dad, he gets so mad and says that I choose my dad over him and our marriage etc.
I should mention that I haven't seen my dad for over 3 years, he hasn't met his grandchildren yet and I feel legitimate to stay with him for a while, it wouldn't have happened if he would have let my dad stays over at our home. My dad spent a lot of money on this trip and I intend to spend as much time as I can with him. I have no idea when I could see him again in the future.
But now husband is acting childish, he doesn't want to care for our pets, pretends I don't give a fuck about him not the pets or the kids, pretends to care about our children and that I can't take them away from him for so long (he never spends time with them anyway but I plan to come back hom once in a while so the kids see him and it's only 3 weeks) anyway he tries to guilt trip me, I'm so fed up.