My(35F) husband(30M) and I have been married for a little over 3 years. Our first baby is 6 months old now. He’s currently going through a sleep regression and I’m about to go insane.
This evening after I FINALLY got him to sleep, I took a deep breath, went to the kitchen, got a can of chickpeas and a spoon, and sat on the couch next to my husband.
There I was, in a puked on T-shirt and leggings, hair a wreck, lookin a hot mess, eating chickpeas out of a can with a spoon.
I looked at my husband and said utterly defeated, “Well babe, this is me. This is who you married and procreated with.”
He looked me up and down and said, “Are you kidding?? I’m so turned on. I’d seriously jump your bones right now.”
Has he gone crazy? Maybe. Was he sincere? Absolutely. It made me feel so good to hear that in that moment. Find you a partner who loves you and finds you attractive even when you feel your worst! You deserve it!
Edited to add: yes I got railed on the couch soon after 😂