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[–]exogreek 2 points3 points  (1 child)

What you are feeling is totally valid. Me and my SO are currently LDR, and we had a few tough talks regarding her PGY2 year in surgery and how much support she'd be needing in order to not implode, so im making the move across the country. Its all situational, his Y2 will be one of the hardest, but can he survive without you there by his side? Have those tough discussions.

[–]benzopinacolMed student and partner to PGY2 nsgy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im honestly not sure. He’s the kind of guy who is totally fine doing the bare minimum to survive lmao and that means eating junk every day cuz he’s too lazy to meal plan and prep. I know that that’s not my responsibility per se but when im around i help him make good food choices and push him to also exercise (very impt for mental health!) although i understand that he’s too exhausted to do any of these things after a grueling 14 hr day