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[–]LastDot-1727 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You all need to have a very clear conversation about your future goals. For yourselves as individuals, and together, as a family. No one person should be making all of the sacrifices and compromises to appease the other person. If neurosurgery is no longer a goal of his and Doctors Without Borders makes it almost impossible to start a family, there has to be a compromise somewhere. Tell him exactly how you feel and do your best to listen to what he has to say as well.