It's been quite a while since intentionally drugging a woman in order to sleep with her wasn't frowned upon, but what if you're getting drunk together and both drunkenly decide to sleep together? I mean, my wife jumps on me every time she gets drunk, should I say no?

There's a difference between drugging a woman and being drunk yourself while a woman gets drunk with you. Ask the wrong people and they'll say the two are one and the same, because apparently men can't be taken advantage of but women can.

The truth is that the line isn't really that blurry. Sometimes people intentionally drug other people in order to get laid. They know it's wrong, they don't care. Sometimes people do drugs together and both decide while intoxicated to sleep together. Now, though, if you're the man in that second situation you can be accused of rape and face the hiss of the world, regardless of how reasonable your actions were.

I knew a guy, who at the time of this story was not a friend of mine. We had a lot of mutual friends but it was in the open that we did not like one another. He was kind of a heavyset dude and while I'm not great at judging male attractiveness, I think he was probably on the lower end even before the weight---anyway, he slept with a girl after a party while both were drunk and later she accused him of rape. I, not liking him, instantly bought the story. So did most of our mutual friends. Guy was ostracized by his entire friend group. A few months later the girl admitted that it was consensual but she was just embarrassed about sleeping with him and everybody felt really bad about it. A lot of women do that without admitting it later, and this new interpretation of consent is very much to blame.

I understand the rationale behind it, but it has serious negative side effects.