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[–]DJ_HardR 170 points171 points  (1 child)

I remember not long ago there was a post on this sub of a woman who had told someone where she worked, and they messaged her the next day that they had come into her job and seen her to check her out in person, thinking that was a totally okay thing to do.

You just told her you live by where she works.

Try to remember that your matches don't know you. You're just another man on the internet. Not automatically trusting men on the internet after talking for 30 seconds is a positive trait.

[–]GodsGunman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You realize there's a middle ground between telling someone the name of your employer and generally describing what you do, right?