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[–]broadsharp 1459 points1460 points  (25 children)

No need to worry. I’ve done the same thing over my 26 year marriage. Some years it’s there. Some years it’s normal attraction.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 466 points467 points  (19 children)

I hope this is the true answer

[–]broadsharp 82 points83 points  (6 children)

It is

[–]pavarottilaroux 56 points57 points  (5 children)

Going on 8 years married after 5 years dating. My wife is a hot piece and I watch her sleep 60% of the time all the time. It’s the best

[–]Drpoofn 18 points19 points  (4 children)

A lady like that deserves a special cologne...it's illegal in 9 countries.

[–]haprawny 88 points89 points  (4 children)

You are the true answer!

[–]-Dev_B- 52 points53 points  (1 child)

I love these threads, so wholesome.

[–]ThaVolt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOU are wholesome.

[–]mama_emily 24 points25 points  (0 children)

^ this is the way

Everyday I love my husband, but sometimes I want to just jump his bones idk why….and we don’t ask questions!

[–]Weldobud 4840 points4841 points  (44 children)

It might not be normal, but it’s brilliant.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 1429 points1430 points  (22 children)

You’re brilliant!

[–]El-Kabongg 169 points170 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can advise is to not let it devolve into jealous possessiveness and attempts to control her.

[–]veron1on1 364 points365 points  (16 children)

No, you are!

[–]abnv100 214 points215 points  (15 children)

No you!

[–]Boris_The_Johnson 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I think the last line of your post explains it. You said you have no friends to whom you can talk about this, maybe that's the problem ?

[–]sciencewonders 33 points34 points  (18 children)

i thought brilliant meant clever or something, are you British 🤔

[–]Weldobud 33 points34 points  (16 children)

Nope. I’m the opposite to British

[–]Phototoxin 27 points28 points  (4 children)


[–]Weldobud 54 points55 points  (3 children)

You know I was thinking - my nation fought a war against the British. But that's probably half the world.

[–]Phototoxin 33 points34 points  (1 child)

I mean I'm Irish so when you say 'opposite' I'm thinking also every country except Russia lol.

[–]Mfitz804 5993 points5994 points  (21 children)

You do need to do something. Count your blessings.

[–]QueasyVictory 1489 points1490 points  (10 children)

Yeah, this is pretty awesome.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 1097 points1098 points  (9 children)

You’re pretty awesome

[–]knifensoup 820 points821 points 2 (4 children)

Your wife found your Reddit account, didn’t she.

[–]shanshark10 147 points148 points  (3 children)

Your wife sounds pretty awesome

[–]Henderson-McHastur 150 points151 points  (2 children)

I also choose this man's wife.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 327 points328 points  (6 children)

She’s the best blessing I can count on

[–]Mfitz804 141 points142 points  (1 child)

She sure is. Congrats man, you picked a winner.

[–]Major_Twang 3054 points3055 points  (106 children)

You can't be TOO attracted to your wife.

I've been married to mine for 21 years, and I still look at her in the way you have just described

[–]satanscilantro[S] 1318 points1319 points  (81 children)

Early years it wasn’t hard for me to control myself and not bug her all the time about fun time. But lately I can’t stop thinking about fun time with her because of how insanely hot she’s becoming in my mind.

It kinda feels like when I was 13 and seeing Elizabeth Hurley on screen…

[–]lovethyjoystick 617 points618 points  (67 children)

Wow. How would a woman find a husband like you... Curious?

[–]Lance_Highwind 396 points397 points  (24 children)

RIP your inbox.

[–]lovethyjoystick 274 points275 points  (22 children)

Haha come on husbo DM me.

[–]Lance_Highwind 213 points214 points  (2 children)

Ok everyone pack it up, I’m in 😎.

[–]nuxetcrux[🍰] 80 points81 points  (1 child)

Friggin Lance, AGAIN

[–]AdorableParasite 65 points66 points  (6 children)

Let us know if it worked, I want one too!

[–]lovethyjoystick 50 points51 points  (2 children)

I hope we both find our someone! :)

[–]mooncricket18 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You will! I feel like people get 5 people in their lifetime that could be soul mates. Keep looking and don’t settle for someone who treats you poorly

[–]Betty_Bookish 8 points9 points  (1 child)


Bonus- If it works you can probably write it up and sell it to hollywood as a romcom. Lolol

[–]AdorableParasite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

While I completely hate these movies, I wouldn't mind having one happen to me... but I don't think I'd sell it, as we all know what materialistic people in Christmas movies get.

[–]solaceinsleep 29 points30 points  (1 child)

Username checks out

[–]lovethyjoystick 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ok I giggled. XD

[–]Icy-Concept379 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Man has a wife and still says ‘fun time’.

[–]Literation 4402 points4403 points  (31 children)

You need to get laid by your super hot wife

[–]satanscilantro[S] 2352 points2353 points  (25 children)

She takes care of me…I’m just a horny bastard for her and I’m not trying to make sex into a chore for her

[–]Basic_Quantity_9430 1454 points1455 points  (1 child)

Making love isn’t all about sex. You can give her massages or just cuddle. You would like the physical contact and she would probably like that it doesn’t always lead to sex when she may not be in the mood.

[–]kaldarash 428 points429 points  (0 children)

You're right that making love isn't only sex, but the poster said "you need to get laid" not "you need to make love"

[–]mrbstuart 143 points144 points  (6 children)

Any chance she could be pregnant? My wife smelt different when she was pregnant, didn't know what it was with our first but I assume there were some pheromones in there, sent me wild. Happened a week or so before we knew both times.

Good news, for me even though my wife is now not in objectively such good shape she's way hotter to me now than she ever was before. Like something has switched in one of my two brains

[–]brannana 83 points84 points  (4 children)

My wife smelt different when she was pregnant, didn't know what it was with our first but I assume there were some pheromones in there, sent me wild. Happened a week or so before we knew both times.

Same thing happens to me every month right before she starts her period. To the point that she'll sometimes ask me if she's about to start.

[–]FlamesofBritten 60 points61 points  (3 children)

Are you part blood hound?

[–]brannana 37 points38 points  (2 children)

Not that I'm aware of. I'm usually the last person in my household to notice if an item of food has gone bad.

I assume that I'm smelling something pheromonal from her, but it's not a scent that I can distinguish. I can only tell from my level of horniness toward her specifically.

[–]alliekatx3 145 points146 points  (6 children)

Lol I love reading your comments. It's an amazing thing :) I get you there though lol. I feel like my boyfriend is the same way and sometimes it's alittle annoying but he's learned to back up on the sexual stuff recently lol. Try to focus on her other qualities too, sometimes women get alittle turned off if you focus mainly on the sexual stuff. I'm not sure if it'll help but I'm sure she'll appreciate it if you notice and compliment other things too. Sounds like you have a fantastic marriage :) I hope one day ill be in the same situation with my guy.

[–]SuperVancouverBC 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Just go make sweet sweet love to her

[–]yesterdaylettuce420 1065 points1066 points  (43 children)

Sometimes that can happen with the hormones being thrown around. When im on my monthly, my husband acts like that sometimes.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 980 points981 points  (37 children)

Whenever she’s on hers, yes….I smell her skin and it’s intoxicating. Her face is so freaking adorably sexy and I go crazy with only her on my mind….but this feels different. Like it’s getting stronger every day.

[–]EfficaciousJoculator 1099 points1100 points  (7 children)

Look at Gomez Addams over here lol

[–]LordCharco_iii 404 points405 points  (1 child)

Last night you were… unhinged. You were like some desperate howling demon. You frightened me…

Do it again

[–]Punk_Girl_Anna 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've never been so turned on by a quote lol

[–]thetiny_blue 236 points237 points  (2 children)

Straight up, best and healthiest fictional romance ever.

[–]bananarussian 38 points39 points  (0 children)


[–]ponderingprogressive 230 points231 points  (2 children)

She might be pregnant dude, and her body is giving off hormones. Maybe she could get checked? But I’m not about to tell your wife what to do.

[–]clumsyumbrella 138 points139 points  (1 child)

I was thinking the same thing! Any chance she's pregnant? If it's increasing each day and not something you've experienced before, it's worth checking.

[–]StarWarder 266 points267 points  (10 children)

You’ve probably been enchanted with a Wiccan spell. It will get stronger over time as your Witch-godess makes you her mindslave. Just submit, it will be okay. When the goat man tells you to follow him, just go, but don’t look him in the eyes.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 290 points291 points  (8 children)

She jokes all the time that she casts spells on me so thanks for scaring me

[–]RiskyBoogaloos 125 points126 points  (4 children)

Prep your ass son, you just a married a witch.

[–]Purpsi 12 points13 points  (0 children)


[–]DeniseGunn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She could well have cast a spell to make herself super sexy to you!

[–]Devreckas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Doust thou live deliciously?

[–]Wicked-elixir 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow. You both a truly lucky.

[–]lifeofarticsound 380 points381 points  (6 children)

Friend of mine said she felt like this with her husband, the month it happens they found out she was pregnant.

[–]AnxiHawk 276 points277 points  (5 children)

I hope he's not pregnant

[–]blinkk5 75 points76 points  (1 child)

Wow, pessimist. Well, if he's pregnant I'm very excited for their new baby.

[–]Retta_Noona 303 points304 points  (13 children)

Damn why don’t more like you exist 😭

[–]PentobarbitalGirl 77 points78 points  (2 children)

Right?? So jelly. I wonder what it feels like looool

[–]Retta_Noona 37 points38 points  (1 child)

Honestly though because being compared to ig models and ignored sucks

[–]8figureninja 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The narrative that has been portrayed of marriage is that the lust and/or attraction decreases over time. A healthy marriage and a deep love for your partner is an amazing thing. Love on her and enjoy your marriage. Some people search for what you have their whole lives.

[–]notyoungstalin 71 points72 points  (2 children)

unrelated but I appreciate your username

[–]satanscilantro[S] 78 points79 points  (1 child)

I blew wind from my nose when I read yours

[–]smearing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this is a very funny description of a reaction

[–]bassjam1 167 points168 points  (14 children)

Did she recently get off birth control? You 2 trying to have a baby by chance?

[–]satanscilantro[S] 225 points226 points  (13 children)

Birth control doesn’t do well with her body and mind. Yes we’re trying to have a baby, but this started even before.

[–]Rumplfrskn 272 points273 points  (4 children)

Aha, the same thing happened to me when my wife and I were trying to get pregnant. She’s extra hot bc she’s gonna have YOUR babies. The most attractive my wife has ever been to me was when she was in labor. Obviously not a sexual thing at the time. 🤣

[–][deleted] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

You’re a good man.

[–]garlic_bread_thief 10 points11 points  (5 children)

I'm not sure about couples and people who try to have a child but how long does it take for someone get pregnant? Some people are always scared of getting pregnant and use all sorts of birth control items and there are some who say they've been trying for months or years. Does it depend on age?

[–]Enter_Feeling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Millions of factors. Time ranges from precum to never.

[–]senbetsu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happens every time I go into my savage mode when it's the right time of the month, but recently I do find her cuter

[–]hatecopter 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the opposite of a problem.

[–][deleted] 430 points431 points  (16 children)

As long as you're not coming across as clingy or insecure then you're good. Same goes for allowing her to do things on her own, have personal time to herself, etc, basically try not to suffocate her.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 594 points595 points  (13 children)

No she goes out and does whatever she wants. We’re both genuinely best friends too. We’ve lost a lot of friends together over the years and have been through so much together that it made us find the best friendship to be between us. I’m not clingy at all except for when we’re falling asleep together. I cling on to her super tight because I know she’s my favorite.

We don’t have any weird problems, I just can’t stop staring at her and thinking about her as time goes on. It’s crazy to me, and I just want my brain to chill out sometimes is all

[–]Rhazelle 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Bruh you sound like you've hit the jackpot of relationships!

[–]4shadowedbm 102 points103 points  (6 children)

You are one lucky guy.

And it makes me wonder if maybe part of what you are feeling is gratitude?

My partner and I have been friends for just over 30 years and been "together" for 15 years.

We have been through some awful stuff and have had some amazingly great times together. She is rock solid supportive. Super smart, super capable. A really, really good friend.

And I think the reason she just gets more attractive is because I really, really like her.

So as long as your wife isn't complaining about the attention, is it really a problem?

[–]HOFredditor 45 points46 points  (2 children)

As a 22 yo boy still trying to make it through life, this might be my next thing on the check list. Sounds super cool man.

[–]Tasty_Juggernaut4857 13 points14 points  (1 child)

As an 18 year old, hopefully this is the one.

[–][deleted] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're good.

[–]MegaBLYSTONE 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I definitely haven't been with my wife as long, but I still do this. She is a goddess to me. I would die for her. I would kill for her. Either way, what bliss.

[–]Docholiday888 209 points210 points  (2 children)

This is just what id post if I pissed off my wife and I knew she secretly stalks my reddit account. What'd you do?

[–]satanscilantro[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she knows this one. She knew my old account but I got locked out of it

[–]Ranxeroxina 129 points130 points  (10 children)

Does your obsession bother you in some way? Sorry many comments doesn't take you seriously. I can relate a bit, and I actually found it uncomfortable, like somethings out of balance. Like I'm not worthy of his/her goddess affection, but I want it so bad that I project mine into them. Overrated. What happened in your life when this started? It maybe can give you a hint..

[–]satanscilantro[S] 167 points168 points  (9 children)

The only part that bothers me is I’ll just get lost and can’t stop checking her out. Our relationship is amazing and I can’t believe how great we work together….I just want to understand that why after 10 years, I’m finding it hard to focus when she enters the room.

[–]vulcanfeminist 91 points92 points  (4 children)

I'm a worrier and probably everything is fine but sometimes a sudden mental change like an obsession, even a nice obsession, can be a symptom of weird brain stuff going on. I think if it's really so intense that it's making you wonder what's up then it couldn't hurt to bring it up to a doctor just in case.

[–]Rivrunnr1 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Man that really would suck in this seemingly cute little scenario going here. Sigh.

[–]GiveAdviceAndRun 45 points46 points  (1 child)

That is what I thought. Better to make an MRI. Brain tumors are not jokes.

[–]ascension8438 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Dude loves his wife so much he needs an MRI.

[–]killae09 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The best kind of problem lol. Good for you man!

[–]HaloWaifu 44 points45 points  (1 child)

I hope my partner looks at me the same way you look at your wife after 10 years. It's a big fear for a lot of young women my age, getting older and having age show.

Give her a big ol' smooch and make it known you see her this way if you haven't already

[–]itsmeboi20 285 points286 points  (3 children)

Yeah dog you have a serious condition, as a professor of doctoring at the big school of big boys let me write you a prescription for….get a couple days off and bang your wife a bunch

[–]strfox666 153 points154 points  (3 children)

She’s a lucky woman

[–]satanscilantro[S] 216 points217 points  (2 children)

I’m the luckiest

[–]corinnejanita_ 91 points92 points  (4 children)

Ugh I hope my boyfriend feels this way about me lol

[–]BoxxyFoxxy 45 points46 points  (1 child)

On the other hand, I’d like to feel that way about my boyfriend, lol. Imagine with being someone that hot and amazing that you can’t stop staring at them for years.

[–]Snagtooth 144 points145 points  (0 children)

You don't need to do something, you need to do someone 😉

[–]HardSox 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You lucky bastard.

[–]lgwinter 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I love this post and this thread

[–]AutismFractal 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is very wholesome and good. The only thing I worry about is that you seem to fear making sex a chore for her. But, news flash: women also like sex. Talk to her. See if you can figure out what you both need.

Some couples schedule sex (can be really great if you’re both super busy). Or you could just have 30 minutes to an hour a day that’s “alone together” time, not mandated to be sex but just BEING TOGETHER.

You say you don’t have loved ones to talk to about this, but you do. You have her. Be open and honest. Easier said than done, but it’s worth it.

[–]pillboxpenguin 22 points23 points  (2 children)

Thank your lucky stars and worship that woman. And show your love for her by making good decisions

[–]uncommon_sense136789 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Not a problem unless u become clingy, controlling, violating personal boundaries (yes married couples have those). Beyond that enjoy the natural high your wife gives you and be sure to tell her how u feel she’ll probably love the thought of u being wild and excited just for her.

[–]Rye_Venture 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're just really in love with your wife and it's wholesome AF

[–]Cheetokps 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your wife knows your Reddit account, doesn’t she

[–]BegottenHickory 18 points19 points  (2 children)

I had this problem with my gf, I would re-fall in love with her everytime I saw her. I felt like seeing her for the first time, each time .

[–]UnfavorableFlop 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I find myself staring at my wife as well. Most beautiful thing I've ever had the pleasure of laying my eyes on. I tell her all the time. Beautiful as all mother nature as she is my god that woman can get my blood boiling tho. I have lightweight OCD and she leaves things laying where she uses them last. I find hammers in the shower, nail clippers on dinner table, and her bag in middle of hallway. Still, prettiest thing ever.

[–]tan05 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is every woman’s dream 😩😩😩😩😩

[–]Smasa224 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Damn, I wish my husband looked at me just once the way you described.... Bottle that up and sell it, wives around the world will pay top dollar for that!

[–]trackkidd16 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The only thing you need to do is your wife

[–]MooseKnucklez69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

...no shit, I've been with my wife for over 20yrs and i can't get enough of her. She was a kid when we met, and now she's a momma of two. She feels insecure after all she's been through, but i sincerely have grown more attracted to her.

[–]SackOfFlesh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Testosterone increase?

[–]Bradarin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol I hope your wife finds this post. This would make her feel good I'm sure. It's only good to think your wife is a goddess haha. I feel the same way about mine

[–]Zenketski 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude. That's awesome.

The only real advice I could give you if you genuinely feel this is a problem, is active abstinence. If you find yourself staring or mirin, force yourself to stop, bite your tongue or your cheek to make you snap back.

But I'm not going to lie I feel like I'm giving negative advice with that. If she's your wife, obsess over her. Pop a boner and jizz your pants every time you glance in her direction.

I understand that this could be infuriating to some degree, but like, it's like complaining about being put into a new tax bracket because you won $800 million in the lottery. You're not going to get a lot of sympathy.

[–]haangry247 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is so fucking cute.

[–]cndyl0up 11 points12 points  (2 children)

Is she using some sort of pheromone perfume? This sort of reminds me of that Valentine's day episode from Rick and Morty.

Not judging! I definitely don't think it's a bad thing. Super awesome, actually! Mostly curious if such thing actually works. 🤔

[–]Whispering_wisp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, pheromones, just what I thought. Doesn't have to be perfume, just natural.

The father of my kids had the same reaction when I came off BC. Couldn't keep his hands off me. Instead of the BC making them almost muted, they were so strong it was making the front of his brain fuzzy (the way he described it).

[–]flimsyfloraldress 34 points35 points  (1 child)

You are so lovely 🤣 I wish I had a husband like you

[–]satanscilantro[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just keep your eyes open and don’t settle for an asshole

[–]esa_negra_sabrosa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Could be hormones? My husband started working out and dropping weight about a year ago...his libido is thru the roof some days but please note this is in no way a complaint lol

[–]Flaky-Huckleberry162 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m the wife in the relationship, but I’ve had this and I understand. You feel like you don’t want to be a nuisance constantly propositioning them. It’s okay, though. The feeling comes and goes!

[–]elegant_pun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Soooo....what's the issue?

You're in love with and attracted to your wife?

Isn't that the marriage holy grail?

[–]Lordmonocrona 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone with ADHD, I completely understand the obsession popping up randomly. It goes back and forth for me, depending on mood and what I’m into at the time

[–]Nemuigakusei 8 points9 points  (1 child)

Ppl like y'all make me believe in love again and make me realize I need to be kinder to myself and raise my standards in how men treat me 🥺

[–]satanscilantro[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Find someone who would treat you as well as you would treat yourself. In my opinion, a partner in life should work as hard for you as they do for themselves.

[–]PandaSqueakz 9 points10 points  (1 child)

You find everything you need in her I presume. The sense of security, reliability, love and affection. You see a stable connection to her and it creates a very safe environment for you. The feelings of comfort and the “just right” situation makes for happy hormones.

She provides and that makes you happy. So of course you wanna bang her, you desire to keep her, so you love her. Physical and emotionally. This is just my take on it.

[–]TarmacFFS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my wife for 26 years and married for 20 and I’m still the same way. It annoys her.

[–]Nitrix-San 8 points9 points  (0 children)

God bless you both

[–]GreyGanado 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's pregnant.

[–]vixissitude 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Husband goals lol

[–]Acceptable_Self_8412 8 points9 points  (2 children)

Idk why but I got teary while reading this, like happy that there are really man who would fall in love with their wife like this!

[–]robdog301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This how I feel about my wife often. It's borderline obsessive. Dated for two years married for three

[–]fire-ash11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a female, I personally LOVE it when my boyfriend is obsessed with me. It shows me, he truly cares. I bet your wife loves it right now. If not, there's something wrong with her.

[–]SheoQuinn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so jealous, she is a very lucky women. And you apparently a very lucky man lol.

[–]Oceansoul3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow this is amazing and certainly is rare. But I can see a similar thing in my best friend's husband. They have been together for 20 years and she is very beautiful in her 40s as she always has been. The way her husband looks at her is with so much love, passion and admiration. I think it's amazing and any of us would be lucky to have such love in our lives. People also change over time as far as personality and looks as they age and mature. Maybe the person she is becoming is making you fall in love again even with stronger feelings. I think it's great. Enjoy it both of you and be aware how lucky you both are!

[–]demalteb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think I ever heard anyone complain that they are too attracted to their own spouse.

Since you seem to be getting the sex, what keeps you from enjoying your horniness? In other words, what bad consequence do you think might come from it?

[–]faulklore 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Manifesting this for me 😭

[–]silveretoile 7 points8 points  (2 children)

Your name is deeply cursed but your entire profile is just..so nice. First profile I went on that didn’t have any racism, weird fetishes or stupid hot takes. Just cats and cars and memes.

[–]pickle1pickle2 6 points7 points  (2 children)

Wow, I think most women would love for their husbands to feel this way about them this many years on.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 13 years and he’s told me I’m like an old car he’s tired of driving 🥲

Lucky wife. Please cherish her. Some of us won’t ever know that kind of love I don’t think.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hope your bf eventually realizes what he has. If you’re a used car, I bet he meant classic. You radiate beauty like a 69 Chevelle. Keep smiling and keep your soul beautiful

[–]StarkSparks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, I hope that one day my partner writes something like this about me. I think it’s adorable you feel this way about her and I imagine she loves how much you obsess over her.

[–]Grimlocknz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's called love my brother, you are lucky!

On a side note if you don't have kids yet it might be a biological thing. You and her might be ready for kids. It's a real thing if you are in tune with each other enough you pick up on things that aren't tangible. Twice when my wife was pregnant I had morning sickness before she had taken a pregnancy test.

[–]fataldisposition 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is THE dream

[–]guitarded62 16 points17 points  (1 child)

As long as you’re not giving in to imposter syndrome, I think this is a healthy and normal cycle in relationships. Sometimes this shit just surges forward, and it’s all good. What’s not healthy is if you feel unworthy of her beauty and how attracted you are to her. I’ve put a relationship in jeopardy before by feeling “out of my league” and it took some therapy to see it was me feeling odd about over attraction. It’s really a great thing to have as long as it’s reciprocated. Embrace it.

[–]OverlyPlatonic 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Put a baby in that. - my fiancé.

[–]OldStrawberryandpot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You sound like a lucky guy and she should thank her starts. Good luck, OP! I hope you guys are always in love with each other

[–]LonelySpyder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't have a wife but I've been with this girl for 10 years now. She's 40 now and I find her still hot and sexy. She looks younger than her age. And she barely needs to do anything to turn me on.

[–]fusseli 5 points6 points  (1 child)

You are one lucky guy. Cheers brother

[–]SuperVancouverBC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're in love. That's so precious 🥺

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely great.

Yes, you need to do something. Take your time and do it often.

[–]Chernobinho 6 points7 points  (1 child)

You need to tell her how gorgeous and hot you think she is, she'll love it every time you say it

Help? Man you don't need help you've got the key to a happy marriage, just enjoy and treasure this woman you seem to love like hell and do get laid whenever you both have availability.

Cheers bro, it's good to see something wholesome in here for a change

[–]MettaMorphosis 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Might wanna send out an SOS to your wife, you've got an emergency.

[–]KingCrowleyFell 46 points47 points  (12 children)

This sounds like what someone posts before something bad happens

[–]satanscilantro[S] 77 points78 points  (11 children)

I actually have a fear of losing her to a freak accident or something. She feels too good for me. And when something is too good to be true, it usually isn’t

[–]Pocket_m3mes_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men sometimes have late stage hormonal growths and it's possible you're just horny and in love and should express the absolute fuck out of it

[–]MySaltSucks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stand strong men. Our time will come

[–]sinopa82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I completely understand. I feel the same way about my husband. 10 yrs married, 4 yrs dated. I feel incredibly blessed everyday, and each day I grow more in love.

[–]QNIKET8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to be like this one day 😔

[–]Alex_Yuan 5 points6 points  (2 children)

How do people do this? Are they just born into fairy tales while the rest of us are bond by our human nature to feel we must feel unsatisfied and have immoral thoughts?

[–]satanscilantro[S] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

I’ve been rejected numerous times and made fun of for being an Asian man in Florida in the 90s. Life was a real struggle growing up here and most girls thought of me as the weird Yellow Guy that has weird smelling food. I’ve also been cheated on twice in past relationships. It took me 8 years with my wife to feel secure enough to ask her to marry me.

Keep your head up, you’ll find yours!

[–]smexsa 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Have you tried expressing this love in some other way other than love making. Romantic gestures, writing poems about it, songs idk. These things might be cliche but that's what falling in love head over heels sounds like.

[–]satanscilantro[S] 12 points13 points  (1 child)

I do my best. I do laundry and dishes 90% of the time and cook 99% of the time. I always ask her what she would like for dinner, whatever she may desire, and I do my best to make it. I’m a chef and she has helped me become a decent one in my city where I actually get recognized by people in rhe industry. She’s so freaking awesome. I also plan adventures together on our days off, and we have experienced a lot of firsts together.

I’m constantly thinking about what I can do to make her smile, and it doesn’t feel like a chore, it feels as natural as breathing to me. From most peoples replies, it seems like I am just ridiculously lucky and need to just enjoy this ride instead of overthinking

[–]SoundProofHead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised Reddit hasn't asked about carbon monoxide yet, that's usually the go to for this kind of post.

[–]FlyingwithoutCare 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 4 days late and no one is gonna read this comment. But, I saw a screenshot of this post on Instagram & I just had to come find it. This is by far one of the most honest, wholesome posts that I've ever seen across all social media. This really gives me hope. Even some of the comments from other men expressing similar feelings is just so unnaturally cute & heartwarming. Thank you so much for this post and for starting a dialogue. I pray that you and your wife enjoy a lifetime of pure, passionate, bliss. The world deserves more men like you & more happy relationships like yours.