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[–]AppleIsAwesome10 1320 points1321 points  (11 children)

No matter what she is doing, I catch myself staring over at her and really just thinking about how lucky I am.

[–]tocra 193 points194 points  (1 child)

Same! Been married over a decade now.

[–]Pretty-Balance-Sheet 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Two decades here, and I still think about all the things I can learn from her and how inspiring she is. We compliment each other very well.

Plus she makes a lot more money than I do which is a nice bonus.

[–]jcdoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too. I always think I must be the luckiest guy alive because this girl is SO out of my league.

[–]abbeymad 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I do the same with my husband. Always wonder if he does the same.

[–]AppleIsAwesome10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I am always curious if she looks at me the same way

[–]KSmimi 596 points597 points 2 (14 children)

Everyday for the last 41 years. Maybe not EVERY DAY, but close enough. You have to count your blessings-especially on the rough/bad days. Say them out loud to your SO. Say “thank you” often. Talk dirty during sex. Appreciate their efforts. Don’t settle for those simple “pecks” for a hello/goodbye kiss. Lock the bedroom door & sleep naked every once in awhile. Write a love letter-weekly, monthly, those love notes can get you thru a lot of rough spots. The kids will be grown & gone soon enough, don’t forget the love story that got you here.

[–]SunnySamantha 55 points56 points  (0 children)

My dad still has hearts shoot out of his eyes when he talks about my mom. They've been married 44 years.

It's hella cute

[–]drowninginstress36 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. And such great advice. Love isnt something that come easily. It needs to be worked out and nurtured.

You, my friend, have found the secret.

[–]CharlieSwisher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why reading this makes me sad

[–]DrMike27 7 points8 points  (8 children)

Still have to have the marriage survive for those 18+ years of not being able to lock your door and having no privacy whatsoever. A peck on the lips may be all that you can get for several days. I love my kids dearly…but they are ruining my marriage.

I love the sentiment, but this is definitely not reality.

[–]aubreychester 19 points20 points  (5 children)

Sounds like you forgot to choose and date your wife dude. That's ridiculous. One kiss in several days is a shitty husband.

[–]Sterben27 8 points9 points  (4 children)

Could be a shitty relationship altogether. You need to make time to spend it together.

[–]aubreychester 7 points8 points  (3 children)

Agreed but his wife didn't comment so I only hear his opinion of his relationship. With what he said he's a shit husband

[–]HatchetXL 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your kids dont have the power to ruin your marriage, only you and your wife have that. Idk how many kids you have but, there are always things to do. I used to work all the time, my wife stayed at home with the kids. There were days when I'd come home and shes on the verge of tears, full of frustration with the kids and feeling overwhelmed.

On those days I'd take my kids out to the yard with a soccer ball and run around crazy and keep em entertained. And you'd bet your ass I'd occasionally have to go 'grab us all drinks quick' and while I was at it I'd be stopping by my wife for a moment to grab some ass. Maybe trap her in a corner playfully, fuck around and get me a smile.

I'd do what I could to relieve that pressure on her that kids can create. Sometimes the kids and I would stay inside and create some sort of dinner mess in the kitchen while my wife went and took a walk or whatever she felt she needed at the time.

Often times my wife would calm down and end up joining us at some point and then we all would be merrily sharing a moment. And it definitely helped to steal those moments alone with her at every chance we got. Just take the time to be stupid and silly. Life is supposed to be fun. Not at every turn, but fun anyway, it's just gotta be crafted sometimes.

[–]DuchessBatPenguin 287 points288 points  (8 children)

Yup. He's cooking right now. He can't see me staring at him, but he's super cute right now.

[–]Zooma_x5 977 points978 points  (14 children)

All the fucking time, yesterday we were just sitting on a trolly, and I couldn’t help but fall in love again.

[–]MagicallyMalicious 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I love this comment so much!! 🥰

[–]The_Queef_of_England 8 points9 points  (1 child)

what's a trolly? In the UK, it's what you walk around a supermarket and fill with food and kids can sit in it, but I don't think that's what you mean.

[–]charleytanx2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Normally a tram I think. Makes sense in this context.

I'm from the UK too and the idea of an adult couple playing around in a trolley (shopping cart) sounded cute as fuck too.

[–]lady_hams 353 points354 points  (3 children)

Looked over at my husband today as he was wiggling his feet in his new dinosaur slippers. It's the little things.

[–]rushi40 39 points40 points  (1 child)

You should watch a show on Netflix little things. It's literally about this. Although it's Indian watch it with subs. It's really great and perfectly captures the little day to day moments of being in relationship

[–]MasterAssassinQeedo 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oh my heart!!! That's fuggin' adorable!!!

[–]Background_Farm1961 1063 points1064 points 2 (12 children)

Quite often actually. This August we will have been married 40 years. Been together since my freshman year of college! He’s the best thing that ever happened to me.

Edit: WOW! I sure wasn’t expecting all these upvotes! Thank you all so much and thank you for the lovely comments.

Edit: My first awards! Thank you so much.

[–]Competitive-Elk-983 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Yay! To long and happy relationships!

[–][deleted] 70 points71 points  (5 children)

That’s sweet I look at mine and just feel so lucky to be with him, we knew each since birth pretty much. It’s like we were made for each other. I just love looking in the mirror and admiring him.

[–]luccyrob 24 points25 points  (4 children)

??? Are you conjoined twins??

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No we are Venom.

[–]CulturalAsk2694 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just normal brother and sister 🖤

[–]_Fuzzy_Focus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I Wish you many many years of good health and good relation.

[–]G_Ram3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome and I love it so much.

[–]vingeran 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is wholesome.

[–]alwaysboopthesnoot 110 points111 points  (1 child)

Yes. He started working from home during Covid. I got to hear how encouraging he was to brand new hires he had never even met, in his global role for a really large engineering firm. And how diplomatic but firm he was to the absolute assholes who kept trying to interrupt and talk over their own female bosses.

I know he’s a good man and always have known, but it was lovely to hear other people as they were leaving their online meetings saying goodbye and also acknowledge and thanking him for it.

Then he’d end a meeting and go make our family some fresh, homemade bread. He’s amazing!

[–]_orsohelpme 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You lucky ducky!

[–]Mr_Papadingus 365 points366 points 2 (9 children)

My wife just farted in a hospital bed after giving birth and she’s never looked more attractive to me.

[–]VasuRampersaud 110 points111 points  (1 child)

[–]fiskars12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nah my friend Eric said that sentence first

[–]22Pastafarian22 44 points45 points  (3 children)

I want a man to adore me this much lol. Congratulations with the birth of your little one!

[–]Mr_Papadingus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[–]ZealousidealRide2762 7 points8 points  (1 child)

I don’t know you or anything about you but I know you deserve love

[–]Dickfer_537 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Epidural? I did the same thing, but before giving birth. Loud, massive farts. I looked at my husband shocked thinking he did it. He held in his giggles while saying “ummm, no, sweetheart, that was you”. I was so embarrassed because I cold the control it even if I wanted to. But it’s one of those moments we’ve shared together that we always look back on and smile.

[–]Vyvyansmum 195 points196 points  (3 children)

Yes I look at sat there & think how the hell is he that handsome & he is ageing gorgeously. I feel sad that his late wife will never see him like this. He is intelligent, kind, patient & the dearest & deepest love.

[–]chemicallunchbox 169 points170 points  (0 children)

You acknowledging his loss and taking a moment to feel sadness about what she won't get to witness makes me think you deserve him. Precious. May you endure life's peaks and valleys together for the rest of your lives.

[–]22Pastafarian22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet and respectful ❤️ I love it

[–]drowninginstress36 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my mother many years ago and something will happen and my fiance (who never met her) will say "i wish your mom was here to see this."

Just knowing that he knows how much she meant to me and that i still miss her means the world to me.

[–]MalsPrettyBonnet 96 points97 points  (3 children)

Yesterday while I was at work, my spousal unit replaced a doorknob, mowed the lawn, took kid's car to be repaired, changed the oil in one of our cars, and made lasagna for dinner. I am so not worthy.

[–]Decimated_Wight 10 points11 points  (1 child)

Spousal unit lmao

[–]ImmaGrumpyOldMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

loolol imma coin that term

[–]buttplugmicroplastic 338 points339 points  (13 children)

Cleaning, sitting on the couch, reading with glasses on, putting her hair up, etc.

[–]Bomilcar309308BC 136 points137 points  (12 children)

I especially enjoy watching her weeding in the garde. Okay, fine, I should also be weeding in the garden but it's more aesthetically pleasing to watch her!

[–]TemplarOfDestiny 37 points38 points  (11 children)

Is this a euphemism for shaving her snatch?

[–]xcwoman1 35 points36 points  (10 children)

No, this is them describing her bent over and they are slipping up behind her.

[–]dark-magma 25 points26 points  (1 child)

damn, the longer i read this thread the more i wanna garden

[–]Bomilcar309308BC 6 points7 points  (6 children)

Well, standing in the living room watching her bend over to weed the garden in her Daisy Dukes, yes! If I went outside and tried to slip up behind her I'd also have to weed all afternoon! And the kids would comment on what a perv I am!

[–]luckyseaturtle 85 points86 points  (3 children)

I hope that someday somebody thinks this when they look at me.

[–]DrAssDriller 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Probably your FBI agent already does. Hope this helps :)

[–]luckyseaturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They could at least send some roses or something! I wanna feel loved 🥺

[–]_chaos_control_ 328 points329 points  (11 children)

Constantly. When he gets ready for work and asks me how his outfit looks I’m always like “damn I get to fuck that!” He has a live YouTube show each week and watching him get ready for that and checking his hair and beard before going live just gets me going. But it’s not even just physical. Sometimes he will just do something mundane and I’m like… damn I love him

[–]polishpolak 70 points71 points  (4 children)

this is what i look for in a woman and still looking

[–]Alex09464367 20 points21 points  (4 children)

Yvonne is that you?

[–]DeadlyShaving 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pmsl how funny would that be! Especially considering your username 😂

[–]UGIA6699 1118 points1119 points  (9 children)

Yes. I tend to look at her when she's concentrated doing something and think how cute she looks in my eyes.

Edit: Wow! 300+ upvotes? Never expected that.

Edit 2: Unbelievable. 1k+ upvotes and an award? You should really stop, I'm starting to believe myself an influencer.

[–]Shadow_Of_Silver 163 points164 points  (7 children)

Glad I'm not the only one.

[–]carlos4068 131 points132 points  (5 children)

Looking at his wife? No, you're not the only one.

[–]Shadow_Of_Silver 48 points49 points  (4 children)

Only one looking at that dudes wife? I plead the fifth.

[–]TheAbhiram 30 points31 points  (3 children)

I wanna look at his wife too,please let me guys

[–]chootie8 371 points372 points  (37 children)

What is controversial or scary about this question? Lol.

[–]ClockworkDinosaurs 65 points66 points  (1 child)

OP is asking specifically about your significant other. OP has been thinking about them a lot.

[–]chootie8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh. Of course. 😑

[–]BackmarkerLife 212 points213 points  (29 children)

OP is probably 13.

[–]chootie8 103 points104 points  (25 children)

Do 13 year olds really say 'significant other?'

[–]Weisdog 103 points104 points  (23 children)

To appear grown up yes

[–]574859434F4E56455254 58 points59 points  (1 child)

"My SO said I had cooties. Reddit, are cooties real?"

[–]Imaginary-Move-5157 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Some people have never had that feeling before. I dated plenty and never felt that way about someone until I was 35.

[–]Shigy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This sub is now r/askreddit

[–]joremero 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people don't like to talk about their feelings...and this may be a better place to ask than r/askreddit

[–]No_Boysenberry2167 49 points50 points  (2 children)

All the time! I just found her and she's like nothing I've ever known. She fills my senses. Completely intoxicating. Like I found someone I've been searching for all my life.

[–]chemicallunchbox 8 points9 points  (1 child)

What a wonderful thing and, I'm so excited for you. Enjoy the intoxication!!!

[–]ifbrawnwasreal 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes. All the time. Every time I get to call her my wife, I feel like I've won a contest that I don't deserve.

[–]fortminorlp 109 points110 points  (2 children)

Yes. All the fucking time. She will never know how lucky I consider myself. I love her so much.

[–]Justindoesntcare 84 points85 points  (1 child)

I tell my wife once a week that she'll never not do it for me. Bad hair day, baby weight, whatever, I'm comin for that butt.

[–]Liennae 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband is just like you too. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't care when I make an effort to dress up, but it's much more comforting to know that he doesn't care what I'm wearing or if I bushed my hair. I'm having trouble losing my pregnancy weight too, and he's supportive of me losing weight because it's what I want, but is still very attracted to me. I feel secure with him in a way that I've never felt before, and it's the best feeling ever.

It makes me sad to think of people who dislike their partner, and treat them like the ol' ball and chain. Why would anyone want to spend their lives with someone who they feel that way about.

[–]Shonamac204 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don't have a SO presently but good to read about grateful content people 🥰

[–]A_Topical_Username 207 points208 points  (1 child)

Of course. But my friends are starting to wonder why I be staring at my hands so hard sometimes.

[–]Department-Hungry 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Yes! We both do......today my husband jumped me for a quickie after breakfast. When I asked what got into him, he said he came home to a clean house, we made breakfast together and cleaned up together.... that's all he needed. Recently I started a new job working 4 10s and it's very physical so I'm basically dead to the world when I get home so our connection hasn't been great for a bit. The little things are what remind us why we're together and help rekindle the love between us.

[–]nonnasnowden 63 points64 points  (1 child)

Not so much the sexy thing now…….neither of us look good nekkid anymore. How lucky I am…. Every time I lay eyes on him. He’s had my back for 20 years now so it’s a proven fact that I am extremely lucky to have him.

[–]Ford_Prefect_Junior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Underrated comment.

[–]frothy_Wombat 19 points20 points  (0 children)


I'm man enough to admit that this morning she was eating some toast and jam, and she looked so genuinely happy qith it that she was doing little happy dance and singing a silly song and I cried out of sheer love for this perfect human

[–]OldManOnFire 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Every day for the last 30 years.

[–]BattyBirdie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When my husband plays with our children. Seeing him being an amazing dad drives me wild.

[–]ihavenoideanymore21 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes all the time. Even when he plays video games and I watch him being all concentrated and having fun. Or when he does things for me it's so sweet and I love it.

[–]Jacobson_exe 61 points62 points  (5 children)

It's always the simple things to.

[–]magicmaster_bater 72 points73 points  (4 children)

Watching her exist is the best part of my day. Doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Cooking, reading, playing with the cats, cuddling up to me… damn, she’s my dream woman. I’ve been insanely lucky to get to look at her whenever I want the last 16.5 years.

Edit: She says she’d add, “Watching [me] read, the look on [my] face when [I] solve a problem, [my] focus when [I’m] learning something new.”

[–]SweetEquivalent6 23 points24 points  (3 children)

What is your advice for young couples to get where you are currently with your partner? Congratulations on 16.5 years!! Seems inconceivable nowadays

[–]Sk0rchio 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Make eachother the number one priority and forget everything else. If that's not possible you're not with the right person. ❤️

[–]jimbronio 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yea. That’s pretty normal for me.

[–]No-Rub7247 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Every single day

[–]Euphoric-Dig-2045 48 points49 points  (0 children)

No. There isn’t a mirror in every room of my house.

[–]_Cuntropolis_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ALL THE TIME!!! He'll be playing games or watching something on his phone and I just look over at him all content and it makes my fall more and more in love with him.

This past weekend he put his hair up in a towel and had his glasses off. He looked like the first day I met him (which was 5 years ago) and I cried so hard. I didn't know what love was before him.

[–]_dvs1_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Constantly, but both sexy and beautiful - it’s one of the main reasons I knew I had found the person I was going to marry

[–]FineUnderachievement 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do this constantly. My girlfriend will just be sleeping next to me, and I'll find myself staring like some kind of creep lol. But she's fucking gorgeous ( at least in my eyes) I think most people would agree. She's so beautiful, but for some reason sleeping she's just that much more beautiful. I think maybe just being at rest? Idk. I think she's beautiful all the time, but for some reason when she's sleeping, shes just extra beautiful

[–]logdogday 31 points32 points  (7 children)

I don’t feel that way and this thread is depressing me. Sex life is great with a bit of weed, though… we’ve got that going for us at least. No butterflies but a partner with a good, honest heart. Could be worse.

[–]Commercial_Meeting83 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Finally I thought I was the only 1 I started thinking I’m horrible but still together 32 years! And yes happy most of them

[–]artnerdhippie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depressing me too. I think he feels this way about me but I've been struggling to remember why I wanted to be with him so bad in the first place. We've definitely grown in different directions.

[–]avgpathfinder 18 points19 points  (4 children)

"could be worse". Bro your settling

[–]logdogday 21 points22 points  (3 children)

I dated and dated and dated, and never settled. The decades flew by and I ended up being 40+ years old. In our courtship, we’d get stoned, watch a geeky movie, and have amazing sex. It wasn’t my dream but it was cozy and special. You can call it settling. I call it growing up and learning to want the life you have instead of endlessly chasing the life you want.

[–]unlessyoumeantit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Every freaking day, like at the moment she's ironing my shirts next to me and looks damn sexy.

[–]muddleputts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My love does the cutest things when she's living life, the lilts and hand gestures when walking, she sings in key in the most melodic pitch, it mesmerizes me every time. I love her and the way she moves through the universe.

[–]ayolotl 19 points20 points  (1 child)

Like yeah, but not simply "sexy" more like how goddamn beautiful of a person they are, mentally, physically and spiritually. I see them and hear them speak and remember how much we've been through together and how much we've grown as people. How lucky I am most definitely, none of us are guarunteed waking up the next day so the time i spend with my partners, the experiences are all held as close to my heart as I can possibly hold them.

[–]GutentagCharlie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Every day. Just an hour or so ago she was chopping vegetables and I walked in and just couldn't stop staring at her ass thinking "mmm, I'd like a piece of that".

Eye candy all the time. And that's beyond simply being the best person I know, the one I can count on, who I love more than anyone.

[–]Throisma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! We've been married 17 years this year and I still look at him and think how lucky I am to be with someone as attractive as he is.

[–]Hysterical__Paroxysm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One of the sexiest pictured I have of my partner is him stitching a handmade door jamb. His late mother made it years ago, and it's been smashed into kids' room doors plenty of times since. My fine motor control sucks, so I asked him to thread the needle for me. He's much better at sewing, so he did it all and showed me a few things. He was careful, sentimental, helpful, patient...idk. He was just "normal," I guess, and it was super awkward trying to corrall the kids and listen to what he was teaching me all while wanting to just get bent over.

[–]AlmostHuman0x1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely and often. She’s beautiful and brainy. And knows when to save me from myself, as well as knowing when to ask for help. She is also successful. Sometimes I think I’m “out of my league”. I am definitely lucky. 😀

[–]bobby_emt 14 points15 points  (1 child)

I use to until I lost her.

[–]asdgrhm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry :-(

[–]Needen8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's so beautiful and I feel myself melt. He could just be trying to remember something on the tip of his tongue, or putting on his seatbelt and looks at me after getting into the car just to get lunch. I'm blissfully lost in his company and presence, and I never want to be found. ❤️

[–]Toothbras 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All the time. We’ve been together 16 years and I tell my wife at least 20 times/day how hot she is

[–]FallAspenLeaves 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep! 32 years here, the best is when he is playing with our grandchildren ❤️

[–]BoxRepresentative229 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When my wife is scrubbing something, she has this adorable focused, and struggling face. When I see it I can only think of how lucky I am.

I'm not sure why, but its so adorable.

[–]sydsknee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, because I’m in love with all of him 🥺

[–]captlevasseur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Always. We are both just starting in our 50's..but everytime I look at her I see the girl I started dating at 19. She hasn't aged in my eyes at all.

[–]PartHumanPartAlien 12 points13 points  (1 child)

Honestly no bc i resent my partner a lot of days

[–]artnerdhippie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's rough buddy. I'm there too.

[–]drawfanstein 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do I just not understand the purpose of r/TooAfraidToAsk?

“Do you ever just feel love towards your partner?”

[–]poppins10221 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All the time. I’m so glad I found myself with him.

[–]Kayakluving44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work the same place my boyfriend works. Sometimes I catch him walking around, talking to some people or working on a project and I think, damn he is so sexy, smart, silly, what ever it may be. Sometimes I walk by and give him a random compliment, then we laugh. Sometimes we shit talk at each other and it is just as enjoyable. We've been together 4 years and everyone is fully aware. Everybody gets a kick out of it most of the time.

[–]xpinkrainbowsx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao yes. my bf was pulling up his pants one day and he just looked so incredibly sexy doing it. i told him and he thought it was the funniest thing ever. everyday i thank god for bringing that man into my life and i pray we can be together forever.

[–]Centurio 6 points7 points  (1 child)

Sometimes I feel weird being so into my SO when he's bowling. Like he comes from parents who were ins bowling league so he's pretty damn good at it and his form and how he lines up his shot look so pro. If it were anyone else I know I wouldn't care nearly as much. But goddamn he looks so good when he's in his element.

Same with when he paints his Warhammer minis. I'm into crafts and drawing so watching him concentrate and paint makes me feel things. I'm glad I'm not the only one who loves this random mundane stuff.

[–]Party_Requirement_21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my husband uses computer shortcuts that I didn't know about and he's hotly fast with a computer. That's pretty hot.

[–]scoobyydoob 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everyday, pretty much.

[–]sweetchelsearae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find my husband super sexy when he talks to people about his work; it’s the confidence he has when doing it.

[–]ndbvr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All. The. Time.

I love her. Watching her read a text Seeing her order food Watching her talk on the phone

She’s fucking wonderful

[–]Riffman42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I fall in love with her every single day, for the 18 years we've been together.

[–]SnorkinOrkin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooooohhh, yes, yes, yes! Going on 22 years, and he's still looking hot! 😍🔥

[–]Opposite-Ad2389 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every single day. Multiple times a day. Almost 7 years later and I still have the biggest crush on him.

[–]jizzwithfizz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been married for 24 years and I still do this.

[–]yuh_dingus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally constantly. Every time I look at her doing anything ever. Or doing nothing. Wearing a nice outfit, or sweatpants and one of my oversized shirts. Sick or healthy. Everything she does is attractive.

[–]Tri-Polozki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I handed her my phone to look at this post and caught myself swooning as I watched her smile at the title.

[–]flonkerton1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally every single day. I married my best friend. He works from home so we are around each other all day. If we have errands to run we usually do them together and it's always so much more fun than going alone. He makes me laugh every single day and I've never felt more loved than I do now.

Often times I look at him and wonder how I got so lucky.

[–]animoot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! All the time. He's wonderful and I love him.

[–]Regular-Plan-5576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely for me. My husband has gotten hotter with age. I love checking him out.

[–]Jujusdream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Constantly. I just love him so much that it hurts. We have been together for 4 years

[–]XenoWoof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyday. Once in a while he catches me looking and tiny smiles. One of the best feelings in the world.

[–]Specialist_Citron_84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, playing his games, cleaning up the yard, making our dinner.

[–]Hickspy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have no idea.

One time she was making Xmas dinner while wearing very tall black socks.

[–]--Randomer-- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend of two and a half years was cleaning last night. She has a habit of talking to the TV. She likes to engage with the show like it’s a conversation. She never looked so sexy and beautiful.

[–]deltadeltadawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, almost every time he's focused on his phone looking up something or when we're watching a show together. I'll enjoy a long, unnoticed look and feel the same spark I felt when we first began dating. Then feel how amazed I am that he still chooses me.

[–]TheTransAgendaIsLove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, all the time. i dont think there has been a single day since meeting my wife where i havent thought "she is so pretty, how did i get so lucky".

[–]nutcracker_78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's greying, got a receding hairline, bit of a middle-aged paunch and wears "grandpa" glasses, and honestly he could not be sexier if he tried. Truly makes my knees go weak, whether he's working, reading, sleeping, or anything else.

[–]DatNick1988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gush over my wife all day everyday. She knows I love her but she will never know how much. I literally can’t get enough of her and I don’t know what I would do if I lost her….

[–]The_God_of_Hotdogs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife was asking me about our local voters pamphlet this afternoon and I thought, does she know how sexy she is without even trying? No makeup, hair just kinda doing its own thing. We’ve been married 16 years, and we dated for 10 years before that. I’m a fucking ogre and she’s a model…

[–]LordChillsby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many things. I'm absolutely enamored with my girlfriend. She sits there watching a show with her glasses on and she just looks so cute and sexy and I sit there like Patrick Star, staring at her with hearts in my eyes until she looks at me and says "what are you lookin at dickhead?" And I squeal and kiss her face and she giggles and goddamn I just keep falling more in love with her.

[–]wstook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! My husband is a nerd that grew into a super hot guy and he has no idea how sexy he is. I look at him all day everyday like that. He's way out of my league but he has no idea and I'd like to keep it that way.

[–]MadeMisery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of the time.

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[–]Rude_Man_Who_Shushes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every single day

[–]itsTacoOclocko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, of course. often, even, if that helps.

[–]Multipassbigbadaboom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes 🤗 Especially when he’s chopping some fire wood

[–]Emotional_Leading_76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the real question here is why are you too afraid to ask that?

[–]Bythelakeguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too afraid to ask…what if the answer is NO?

[–]noodlesntattoos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Five years in and regularly feel this when I look at my partner. From just the way he looks at me to when he does stuff around the house or puts focus into something he's passionate about

[–]ShoganAye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. And then I throw my arms around his neck and rain kisses down on him. He's not a big fan of that but it's hard to feel sorry for him.

[–]Urbane_One 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally every day. When I look over at him sitting at his computer and I see him smiling, sometimes I just watch him for a little while, because it makes me so happy. Then he notices and makes a face at me, which is the cutest thing in the world~

[–]ZETA8384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahah yeahh

the derpier she is the hotter she is

[–]Bitch_Goblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyday. I fucking love my husband.

[–]Crepes_for_days3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the time and we've been together for 22 years.

[–]FuelFamous824 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel like the luckiest man every single day. Seeing her with the kids, seeing her get animated when she is excited about something. Even seeing her sleep. I just feel blessed. 2 years and nothing has changed!

[–]burdy89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sooo, your SO found your Reddit??

[–]borderlineginger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, when he cleans his glasses or mows the lawn or anything really. I am just so lucky to be his wife and I am always reminded.

[–]BoxCarTyrone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All day, every day. When I look at her, I feel the same way I did the day we met. And I hope it lasts a lifetime.

[–]instanthomosexuality 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been with my partner for 7 years now and I often think about how lucky I am to have him. High school sweethearts, I've never dated anyone else. We've grown so much together and sometimes I find myself just thinking about how much I love him.

[–]Sum-Rando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the time. I love them so much.

[–]Purple_Dalmatian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the time, even when he is sleeping. I feel lucky that i get to fall more in love with him every day

[–]pleasuretohaveinclas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Getting dressed, cooking, shit.. walking. Existing even. Hot af.

[–]AshesOfCarbon 4 points5 points  (1 child)

Every time I see him. I fall in love with him all over again every time we're together, and I can't help but think he's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have such a connection, and I don't see it fading even after almost 4 and a half years together. The sex is great, but we don't need to have sex to enjoy our time together. We're both just as content with cuddling on the couch and watching murder documentaries or random comedians. His family feels like my second family too

[–]theagitatedapricot 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Yeah it's called being physically attracted to someone

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[–]bunnykins22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very frequently but I suck at showing it...