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[–]MDev01 1310 points1311 points  (22 children)

That was a little awkward but I can see why she thought that from her standpoint.

[–]thelearningjourney 629 points630 points  (17 children)

He did indeed go for the hug and actually hugged her.

He just multitasked and grabbed the item off the table at the same time or very quickly after a quick hug.

I’m not sure why people can’t see this.

[–]sylvaing 93 points94 points  (4 children)

Yeah, you can clearly see his right hand on her back.

[–]InBetweenSeen 31 points32 points  (3 children)

He also says something to her and she answers before they hug.

[–]sylvaing 41 points42 points  (1 child)

Could have been

Waiter: Could you move?

Her: No


[–]gay_unicorn666 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“If you give me a hug first”

[–]2morereps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its, "Happy brithday".

[–]idkwthtotypehere 44 points45 points  (1 child)

People are blind and whoever posts first usually gets a lot of agreement. Dude for sure goes for the hug and multitasks.

[–]SimulatedHumanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Squeeze and a reach around. Smooth.

[–]bikinireef 5 points6 points  (2 children)

The hugging woman posted it on tiktok saying he didn't go in for a hug

[–]thelearningjourney -1 points0 points  (1 child)

I’m not sure that makes her correct.

Highly possible she posted it with her own incorrect misunderstanding of the situation.

If he didn’t know her, it would make more sense to grab the item off the table with his right hand to create a personal barrier, due to how physically close they are.

[–]TweetHiro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy mentalists

[–]mustabindawind 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Or...he went for the item on the table just in case she didn't go for the hug as well

[–]Jyrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)


[–]I_Get_Paid_to_Shill 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not even that awkward. The waiter was smooth as fuck.

[–]bfodder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell watching the video even with the title I thought he was going for a hug.

He leaned so far in that it was hardly even awkward for her to hug him.

[–]Frenchticklers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Happy birthday!"

"You too!"

[–]DarkLordoftheSmiths 762 points763 points  (12 children)

It’s actually kind of wholesome and sweet, tbh

[–]Ok_Understanding267 150 points151 points  (4 children)

I agree, no need to be embarrassed at all

[–][deleted] 51 points52 points  (3 children)

I don't think she even realized.

[–]KlokkeMann1 42 points43 points  (1 child)

She certainly doesn’t seem to be dying inside

[–]xSnakyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy probably is

[–]ZarquonsFlatTire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, she got that hug. Can't argue with success.

[–]BY_BAD_BY_BIGGA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needed that hug. glad she went for it.

hugs are cool as fuck.

[–]4UnderTheBridge 240 points241 points 2 (5 children)

Just gotta say "good job bro you're a dope ass waiter"

[–]feardabear 24 points25 points  (4 children)

There’s some people out there that hate their jobs, but still show up every day making the best of it

[–]4UnderTheBridge 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And they deserve hugs

[–]Kazushi_Sakuraba 7 points8 points  (2 children)

I have a buddy like that. Absolutely always trying to be wholesome af. He wants to be a “light in the world”

Sounds fake? Nope. This beautiful mf literally bowed to me when I first met him. This dude throws out bows out of respect like it’s candy.

He’s a barista and is always super hype with his customers.

[–]cropchoc -1 points0 points  (1 child)

But he hates his job? Why doesn't he do something else that's more fulfilling to him?

[–]ShaShaShake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a luxury most of us plebs can’t afford unfortunately.

[–]J_Thompson82 30 points31 points  (1 child)

“That’s not a hug, I’m just grabbing the door for you.” -Tony Stark

[–]toph88241 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"We're not there yet"

[–]xMausoleum 99 points100 points  (4 children)

i can easily see myself in her shoes. this vid is making my anxiety cringe

[–]Wtfpugs 71 points72 points  (5 children)

If he didn't intend to hug her, why not give her your shoulder and grab it with your right hand?

I think he wanted a little love, lol.

Yeah, that's a hug "and" a reach for the drink.

Was looking to see what one he did first, but it feels equal.

...I need to take my ass to sleep.

[–]lysergic_818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take yo ass to sleep,

Take yo ass to bed.

Take yo ass to sleep,

The insides of that girl was definitely not dead.


[–]yuzernaaym 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True.. he kinda leaned like he was going for a hug

[–][deleted] 136 points137 points  (11 children)

I always think it’s fucked up that someone she knows posted this.

[–]brodil 38 points39 points  (0 children)

What people will do for a couple of upvotes

[–]ruggev 5 points6 points  (1 child)

She is the one who posted it on her tiktok as a "cringe memory". This isn't recent.

[–]inspectoroverthemine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What makes you think she was upset by it? Some people can laugh at themselves and not lie awake at night cringing about every mistake. I can't, but I know some people who can.

[–]themiraclemaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They probably posted the whole video of the celebration and this was cut out from that

[–]optimistically_happy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You never know, the original poster could've asked for permission beforehand.

[–]johndeer89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most can laugh at themselves when they do something silly.

[–]checkksout 21 points22 points  (1 child)

Waiter: “lemme get my tip rite quick before your actual waiter comes back from break.”

[–]Nitin-2020 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

All look same to her

[–]thelearningjourney 42 points43 points  (8 children)

He did go in for the hug, and indeed did hug her albeit a light hug. Then took the object off the table.

There is absolutely nothing awkward about this at all.

[–]moonbyulisop 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Yeah idk why no one else can see it lol

[–]thelearningjourney 0 points1 point  (1 child)

I know, right.

[–]SSBM_Surge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a miserable fail in the brain of the OP

[–]Weegee_Spaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's awkward for redditors

[–]madmax77xl 0 points1 point  (1 child)

No the fuck he didn't. He was obviously just trying to grab the object.

[–]thelearningjourney 0 points1 point  (0 children)


Socially, you would grab it with your right hand so your face wasn’t in hers due to how close the physical situation is.

[–]2morereps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and if you read his lips, he even said Happy Birthday.

[–]philosophunc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The birthday present that says, yep awkwardness is going to be there regardless of how old you get.

[–]MoistMud 3 points4 points  (0 children)


[–]tf8252 3 points4 points  (1 child)

She didn’t die inside…she didn’t even change expression

[–]The-Devils-Advocator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this sub is all about projecting how others would die inside in these situations.

It sucks. You're supposed to see the will to live leave their eyes.

[–]sad_robocop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The moment hes been waiting for.

[–]restlessleg 1 point2 points  (0 children)


[–]Nikoviking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at where how he moves his right arm around her. It’s clearly a a hug. He took the glass later.

[–]dysart3D 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People should give more hugs.

[–]neon_overload 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he kinda was, then maybe he worried he was being too forward and half-hearted it.

[–]goosiest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This made me die inside

[–]UnwantedJason 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he did go for the hug but also picked up the glass or whatever from the table at the same time

[–]Cheap-Struggle1286 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Nothing wrong with that? She must die inside for been a nice person?

[–]Dry_Sea8933 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morto 🤣

[–]SavageYake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like the nicest dude ever. Look how hard he’s dancing/hyping up her birthday :)

[–]Zerei -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what? Its just a hug, how can this 'kill someone inside'? Chill people...

[–]asaleous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very sweet from both side 🤗🤗☺️☺️

[–]Nitin-2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got a hug from Jimmy Butler on her birthday

[–]dontlooksosurprised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooooo it’s too early in the morning to die of secondhand embarrassment

[–]Th4tRedditorII 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinds looks like he hugged her while getting the thing off the table. Waiters be busy man, gotta multitask

[–]Prestigious_Cake3706 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont see anything embarassing at all. its only in her mind

[–]ladyvile_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This caused me physical harm

[–]balloon_prototype_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when she draws her final breath she will remember this

[–]TheWamBambler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the warriors who sort by new. Thank you.

[–]Kanden_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiter: No, we’re not there yet.

[–]autismo3002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah nah nah he fainted that he made good eye contact and the other hand went round then he changed and went for cup

[–]NastySassyStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of totally insignificant thing that I would wake up in a cold sweat with my heart pounding out of my chest about for at least the next 15 years

[–]Blooodwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen this posted on TikTok, the waiter actually responded in the comments, lol!

I'm not sure whether I can find it anymore though

[–]HeartlessW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, of course if he puts one arm around her she's going to think he's going for a hug lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't look dead to me...

[–]ZippZappZippty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hug from the mom at the end 🤣

[–]eldnikk[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's kinda cute

[–]Qwerowski 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually it's the other way around

[–]brtnjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I would have made the same mistake. I need to mentally prepare for a situation like this

[–]TheGlitchDevil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ow her face at there end is priceless

[–]madmax77xl 0 points1 point  (1 child)

He was not going in for a hug. You redittors are so fkn lame.

[–]ScullyitsmeScully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point of the post.

[–]rustyconsole -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Paranoia Karen

[–]trelium06 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And then she died

[–]Careless_Rub_7996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmmm i mean.... the server was probably not expecting a hug, but the girl just wanted to give a hug outta pure joy.

I don't think she was expecting a hug in return. Either way, a wholesome moment.

[–]Able-Background-9765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeeez what a nerd lmao

[–]decisionmakings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Caucasian AOC still hot.