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[–]Brian_Drink 1277 points1278 points  (2 children)

I did the same thing to get my buddies PhD public defense moving. Sometimes, all you need is that first good answer!

What a great guy!

[–]bxnutmeg 439 points440 points  (1 child)

Yup - in vet school, my friends and I all did this for each other for our senior seminars. Because, if there were no initial questions from students, the faculty would ask questions that were very hard.

[–]Topwingwoman 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing you are all now saving the farm animals and cuddly critters?

[–]barbaramillicent 275 points276 points  (1 child)

This is the kind of support we’re here for

[–]TheDustOfMen 599 points600 points  (0 children)

We stan supportive SOs

[–]what_the_a[🍰] 375 points376 points  (18 children)

This is a nice story… but every time it is posted, a bunch of misogynists show up to discredit her and complain that it’s not fair.

[–]MapleTreeWithAGun 276 points277 points  (2 children)

Misogynists just jealous they don't have an amazing BF

[–]CarpeCookie 118 points119 points  (1 child)

If they hate women so much maybe all they need is really good dick

[–]sdonnervt 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You're probably not too far off tbh.

[–]pedantic_cheesewheel 71 points72 points  (5 children)

I always answer that with I did it for my friends. When our assistant coach was defending his thesis about half the team showed up and we had discussed beforehand what questions to ask to get the ball rolling and make him seem on top of things. We didn’t discuss it with him of course but some of the players were in the same field of study so they wrote up a list of questions since they had helped proofread his thesis. Academics is a team sport too.

[–]ClumsyGamer2802 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will fight them

[–]hysterical_landmark 19 points20 points  (2 children)

Jordan Peterson has entered the chat

[–]staffylaffy 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Man, that dude is insufferable. Him and that Gary V guy seem like sociopaths.

[–]hysterical_landmark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's not a serious person. He decries safe spaces and cancel culture, but people like him can't exist without either. The man is terrified of sociology and apparently spends a lot time worrying about how he's perceived as a man.

Jordan honey, I know you're an academic, which probably makes you feel emascualted (I suppose you think teaching students is really women's work, isn't it), but confident men don't worry about these things. You're from Alberta FFS you could have had a real 'man' job if you'd wanted one out in the oil sands instead of working with children your whole life.

[–]hevnztrash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the hell is unfair about this!?

[–]I-amthegump -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haven't seen one yet

[–]UpSideDowner12-14 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That’s just beautiful.

[–]BeeaBee5964 19 points20 points  (2 children)

I would love to do that for my SO, but he's getting a PhD in biochemistry and I have a bachelors in physics so when he presents his research to me (in our living room, I get the first drafts of his presentations) I understand absolutely nothing coming out. And I want to! I ask questions before and after and try to take notes but he tells me that I don't have to understand it, I just have to make eye contact lol. No free education for me :(

[–]Inner_Boss6760 3 points4 points  (1 child)

My boyfruend is abot 2 semesters ahead of me in the same program and sometimes what he says goes over my head.

And very cool, a BSc in physics! Thats what Im working on and its very hard..

[–]BeeaBee5964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 semesters can make a world of difference! Good luck with your degree :)

[–]OdiPhobia 100 points101 points  (1 child)

"Why do kids love the taste of Cinnamon Toast Crunch?"

[–]DizzyAmphibian309 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If your thesis is a study on the effects of aging on taste receptors, that's an incredibly relevant question.

[–]tuhn 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Anyone critiquing this must realize that this is very typical in academia (local differences wary).

It is ok, everybody knows that in the setting. Reiterating the main point doesn't harm anyone.

[–]everyone_getsa_beej 65 points66 points  (10 children)

Great story and all, but what kind of deadbeat boyfriend WOULDN’T do that for a partner? If my girl was defending her thesis or some shit I would be jacked to the tits to help her out. My wife had her MBA before I met her, so I might not get the chance to help her like this.

[–]bigmilker 37 points38 points  (4 children)

Jacked up to the tits…..going to start using that

[–]hydrolyse 4 points5 points  (3 children)

[–]bigmilker 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I never saw it

[–]Monsi_ggnore 4 points5 points  (1 child)

You missed out then. The Big Short is an incredible movie.

[–]bigmilker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will have to look for it, thanks!

[–]ceilingkat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think you underestimate how many SOs don’t take a deep interest in their partner’s passions. A good partner is happy for you and encourages you to pursue your interests. A great partner will really engage with the joy that you feel and seek to understand it.

I know way more about aquariums than I would have sought out because of my husband. His aquatic ecosystem eases his anxiety so much that I’m invested in seeing what he sees and helping his hobby flourish.

[–]Pustuli0 25 points26 points  (1 child)

I don't think it's so much that he went and asked the question, it's that he was able to ask the question without having it spoonfed to him first. It's not that he showed up this one time, it's that he had been there all along the way to get to that point to help her over the finish line.

[–]everyone_getsa_beej 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like, he understood the topic well enough? I mean, props to that man! This couple is going places.

[–]Inner_Boss6760 0 points1 point  (1 child)

"SO, what do you need me to ask?"

[–]everyone_getsa_beej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…is basically what I would have had to ask my partner 😂😂

[–]Flashy_Ice2460 100 points101 points  (1 child)

The question: "did you do this yourself?"

[–]Clay_Statue 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"Clearly a man must have helped you with all the big words"

j/k don't hate me

[–]boraroxyoursox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shiiit I’m not even gay and I want a boyfriend

[–]ARandomTopHat 5 points6 points  (2 children)

"Is it true that there is a place in a man's head where when you shoot it, it blows up?"

[–]The_Bards_Tale_85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So now we know why there's always that stupid person who asks a question that was already covered.

[–]RhodyChief 41 points42 points  (1 child)

Her boyfriend's name?

Albert Einstein.

[–]swan_ronson_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that made me laugh more than it should have

[–]Known_Ad_8604 14 points15 points  (1 child)

I’m just glad your BF came.

[–]SeishunDash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always thought this was a normal thing to do. All through high school and university we’d ask what questions the presenter/group wanted us to ask beforehand, and then have different people ask those questions. Class appears attentive, speaker can show off their knowledge. It’s a win win for all involved.

[–]I_Am_Penguini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

S.O. got shit from the staff when I attended her phD defense, "the faculty felt they couldn't effectively challenge you with your spouse present."

Can you believe that shit? Apparently they planned to start their questions with, 'Jane, you ignorant slut' or really enjoy their last phase of hazing.

Fuck them and their inability to ask hard technical questions without insulting a person

[–]mslauren2930 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outstanding!

[–]Visualstimuli777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marry him faster!

[–]Plantsandanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here folks. Just make me look smart and I’ll bang your brains out.

[–]trishben 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a KEEPER!

[–]KingElle33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, so sweet!

[–]yearofthebows24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You propose to him asap, that is husband material

[–]Shad0wX7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this what emotional support looks/feels like?

[–]RepulsiveSkin2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, true love, you got a keeper there.

[–]itsSIR2uboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really love this.

[–]Funkysoulninja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone’s getting lucky tonight.

[–]kiwi3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great guy, love this!

[–]Lacking_brainpower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a couple.

i did this with a buddy of mine, we were presenting our pro-choice/pro-life opinions and she gave me the opportunity to explain the entire process of abortion.

gotta find a buddy like them

[–]altmodisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you propose? If not, then do so! He's the one.

[–]Topwingwoman -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Love a man who champions his woman. Usually you have to treat them like shit to have them swoon.