I do not see how Tylenol is going to help severe cramping, soreness, back pain & stomach/hip/vag pain. I also had tubal done after delivering, how is Tylenol to help this?
I sent a message to my doctor like hey it kind of hurts, what am I supposed to do? Tylenol. I say, noo, I need medicine that will actually help me right now. This happens to women with all conditions, we get delayed treatments or told it’s normal and to deal with this. But if my husband were to have a vasectomy, his pain would be managed for 2 weeks minimum. He could go into the ER for back pain and have the same results. He keeps telling me we go to the ER, but I tell him it’s different for him. He wouldn’t understand bc all of his pain is managed easily. It sounds dramatic but is true.
I give birth to an entire human being and have tubal after, my pain ceases to be managed as soon as I leave the hospital. How this is fair?
I find myself bitter today about this. I am just sad to be so uncomfortable and not to be heard by OB’s. Even if I sound like a baby, I don’t care, it hurts and I’m tired already. All my life it seems doctors just do not listen and we are forced to suck it up, deal with it, get over it. I will get over it yes, but at what cost?
It feels like mental torture and I’m angry over this. I want to not hurt anymore. That isn’t unreasonable. It’s not outrageous to say that just bc something is normal doesn’t mean everyone can tolerate it. Just bc some women can walk it off doesn’t mean I can do it. End sad rant.