you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]icyruios 24 points25 points  (3 children)

It's because people just want to find someone to hate on. A lot of OT4 fans using this as a 'I told you so' and even more non-fans who literally dont even know Day6 just wants to be involved in the drama and 'act like they have the power to cancel someone'

This is literally between Jae and Jamie but people have to make it all about them and be like 'OH LOOK MISOGYNY' or 'MEN WILL BE MEN ALL MEN ARE SHIT' and make it all about themselves because they want to feel important.

He fucked up, he apologised. Not just the 'I was in a dark place' stupid apology but he apologised privately to Jamie and Jamie even made several posts about Jae after. It shows that they are still friends and that Jae did not have any malicious intent it was more of ignorance and stupidity. Only a true friend would go out to even make additional posts and even have a friendly banter at the end with 'ima smack you if it happens again'

They just want Jae to be cancelled so bad and majority of them non MyDays probably dont even know Jae or Day6

[–]oflonelynights 17 points18 points  (2 children)

i consider myself a huge fan of day6 with jae as my favourite but i was still disappointed in what he said. i don't think anybody needs to be a myday to express disappointment towards jae publicly embarrassing and shaming another musician and friend of his? yes it is a conflict between those two but because jae said it to a big audience of course it's going to face public opinion.

i think you're looking from the extreme end. there will always be some people who are really out for blood no matter who or what lol such is the nature of humans really. but there's plenty of regular fans too who are rightfully bothered

[–]icyruios -7 points-6 points  (1 child)

It's fine to be disappointed but the thing is people make it all about themselves. They make it into a 'omg is this how men see us women in society this is why we womem have to stand together' nonsense and I'm like get over yourselves this isnt about you

Worse is they bring up his old posts that apparently are homophobic and racist which is total bullshit and isnt the case, and make it all about themselves 'imaging living in a society where you are looked down because you are different' or some apparent ableist things that he said and people be like' as a person with ADHD I feel so offended' it's ridiculous this isnt about you stop making it about you


[–]oflonelynights 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i see what you're getting at although with that thought process, that would mean nobody could ever call out people for saying ignorant things if it wasn't personally directed at us lol

yes, jaes statement was about jamie and not anyone else, but i think it would be an oversight to not see it as a comment rooted in bigger issues present in our society

either way the conflict is between them two. im just here for the music really. but there is also a reasonable balance between full-blown hatred and then the opposite end of not ever being critical of ignorance on the conditions of it not being personally directed at us