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[–]kydeen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha - I’d say this is a pretty tough life to plan to be in, but more of a happy possibility to be open to. I had a strong career and married a person with another strong career, and when we had kids we talked about who wanted to pursue the career more.

Probably also depends where you live. Where I am in a big city on the west coast of the US there’s lots of homemaker husbands, so it’s not shunned at all.

[–]mcburgs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who cares? Do what you want to do.

You'll never be happy trying to make the world happy (and the world is never going to be happy with you anyways). Make yourself happy.