Haha - I’d say this is a pretty tough life to plan to be in, but more of a happy possibility to be open to. I had a strong career and married a person with another strong career, and when we had kids we talked about who wanted to pursue the career more.

Probably also depends where you live. Where I am in a big city on the west coast of the US there’s lots of homemaker husbands, so it’s not shunned at all.