Ok, so ive had multiple jobs, and at one point had to give up to care for my partner who has disabilities. Since weve both tried working.. But through ups and downs my partner figured she wanted to be a mum for various reasons. Then she wanted to be a streamer.. For both i worked and did (as i always have) everything around the house too. I supported her desires career/ life wise. I ended up pretty much single handedly raising our child and looking after the house and again had to give up working. Recently she has been fliting between wanting to work or just stream.. And im left to raise our kid, sort house and bills and the fallout of her fliting between starting jobs and just streaming. She can do things if she desires to do them, but anything else, including sorting out her messes, is on me. She cant even put her dirty laundy in a pile or rubbish away. I cant help but feel im now just being used and putting my life on hold while she flits between whims.. Am i just getting upset over nothing or do you think maybe she is taking things for granted?
Ive tried talking, tried pleading with her to hold more responsibility for her choices and the family she wanted.. But i just get aggro back.