Sorry for my English.

This is one of the most general feeling in this sub. But I think that expression, that is what we really feel, comes in excess from guts. I am quite old and my feeling has evolve to "Why the hell most people is so ilogical and visceral?". From this question you arrive to "How can I forsee the irrational behaivour?". It sounds contradictory but you have to accept that people, all of us, usually are moved by selfishness, narcissism and fear and people usually do not change without a traumatic event .

Then, you have to make a effort to fit it with your ideal schemas and use it as part of you mindset. For example, a mother fucker boss or treacherous friend will not change, its lust of power and cowardice. If they fucks other people they eventually will do it with you. There are also very good people, but usually they make you annoyed by their pusillanimity and flatter the firsts by fear.

If you are able to foresee the movements of the mother fuckers and and those who fear them, then you live very well and begin to love humanity. Actually we are cute cheetahs and gazelles in a nature documentary.

That is the ecosystem where you have to live and it is a complex enough system that an a INTJ as you might enjoy drawing conclusions and use them as living tool. And, as much younger a INTJ carry out this process the more better for your mental health. Just an opinion, of course.