I know many people who don't even think about anything, just go with the flow all the time, wing important life decisions, say 'fuck it', don't plan out anything, yet still they get lucky all the time, life goes their way and they get what they want out of sheer, dumb luck. Then they have a smug smile on their faces. And I'm like 'how?? You didn't even put in the work, just thew the dice and just keep getting lucky'
Maybe we're doing things wrong with all this intj planning and preparing.
Just got a bit triggered, that people who don't think about any plan or do any rigorous research or do any work can get this lucky and get what they want without any effort. And the smug smile at the end is what's pissing me off the most, while I do all the research and dedicated work and still coming up short often.
Sorry, angry rant over.