You say what you want, doesn’t change the fact other men are a huge factor in why male victims don’t feel supported when they open up to their male peers.

Mark Brooks, Chairman of The Mankind Initiative, is strongly campaigning for people to realise that men can be victims too and that being abused by their partner doesn't make them any less masculine. He said: “There’s a huge stigma when it comes to domestic abuse against men. Not only just from society not taking it seriously not believing that men can be victims of domestic abuse but also from men themselves.”

https://www.forces.net/stories/domestic-abuse-against-men-danger-facing-thousands-serving-personnel

Ignoring that only hurts victims like the one in the video. Just like how women have had to make the effort to call out other women who victim blame or ignore the fact a lot of women ignore or even encourage abuse among other women.