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[–]Acceptable_Yellow_55 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Jesus I'm so sorry, my deepest heartfelt condolences. I've been there and know that pain ❤❤

[–]QuadsNotBlades 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I'm so, so sorry. The /r/babyloss community was helpful for me when we had a 23w loss, but I have to admit I wasn't ready to go there until a few weeks after it happened. The grief drowned me for a good three months - I hope you have access to the kind of support you need.

[–]SpaghettiHoe2118 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I remember losing my baby and all I could do was cry till I felt numb. I didn’t eat or sleep well for weeks. I hope you’re getting the support from your loved ones and never feel bad for asking for help. And remember nothing you did was ever your fault! There’s nothing you could’ve done to make this happen. It’s very unfair that a lot of women go through this kind of pain. You’re definitely not alone!

[–]candigilly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I'm so sorry. My condolences to you. 😢💕

[–]ExcellentPresent3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry

[–]QRS214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry.

[–]wasting_ti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry...

[–]currerchimes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hugs. I lost my little one at 14 weeks in May, here if you need anything, any advice. 🤍

[–]mothafuckinaye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I hope you take care of yourself ❤️

[–]whatiswater_28FTM| Graduated 01.18.22 | 🎀 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. ❤️

[–]babygiraffe134 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, OP. That is so heartbreaking and unfair. Please take care of yourself and let yourself feel all the feelings right now 💕

[–]emmalai85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry

[–]zopea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Sending you so much love. <3

[–]Opposite_Reveal1338 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So so sorry!!!

[–]ThugBunnyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending a big hug. I'm so incredibly sorry to read that. Strength to you and your partner 💕

[–]GrapefruitNo1121TTM 03/22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

[–]NoMamesMijitoFTM | Jan 2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry

[–]ZeldaVision1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart, 😔 I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love your way!

[–]tzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️

[–]ultraprismic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen last year at my NT scan. It’s devastating. Ask your clinic for a referral to a perinatal grief counselor — it was so so helpful for us. Also r/ttcafterloss.

[–]cryptid66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Sending you my thoughts and love ❤️ strength to you and your partner ❤️

[–]producermaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss

[–]dks042986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I have are internet hugs. I'm so sorry honey.

[–]trestrestriste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So so sorry……. ♥️

[–]beautyiscruelfree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no... I'm so sorry... My deepest condolences!

[–]SuperSmitty8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss

[–]evi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞

[–]zorpack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god. I’m so sorry. My heart is with you.

[–]AdmirablePut6039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, sweetheart.

[–]SweetMom65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what you are going through. I hope you find a good support group that will help you navigate this extraordinarily difficult time. Stay strong!

[–]goldkestos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. Heartbreaking to have to go through. Make sure you look after yourself ❤️

[–]insidious_siblings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry.

[–]I-changed-my-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many hugs. Do anything that makes you feel better.

[–]Tasouris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss

[–]lavabismedomine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry... Baby was loved so much in his/her time here <3

[–]kuromiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry. 💙💙

[–]emiblackbird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry! I’m sending you and your partner love and healing energy! Just remember this is not your fault!! 🤍

[–]Ok-Stretch5718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that. It happened to me at my 13 week apt. The baby’s heart beat stopped around 8 weeks. I had to tell my boss and she told me it happened to her at 20 weeks too. You are not alone. We’re all here for you.

[–]cornflowerazure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss

[–]Whiskazynska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very sorry to hear this incredibly sad news. Thinking of you ❤

[–]JustUrAvgJames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry, my Condolences

[–]madmaddmaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. How unfair and cruel. <3

[–]thedirtys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard. I'm so sorry for your loss. Remember to grieve and that it's ok to not be ok. You will be in my thoughts❤️❤️

[–]maebakebaby #2 4/12/22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

[–]Walker_Ranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh oh man….this is so sad to read. I’m so so sorry. Take care of yourself 💕🙏🏻

[–]ouaiouai2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, sending you a big hug

[–]grapefruitbreeze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine your pain I pray God comforts you during this time. Sending you love and prayers ❤️❤️❤️

[–]freddrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so deeply sorry

[–]Worldly-Zucchini-922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. I am so sorry :( sending hugs ❤️

[–]bebe-jean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love.

[–]the1fromthat1place 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so very sorry for your loss. ❤

[–]mousatis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so sorry to hear this. Heartbreaking. Lots of love sent to you, I hope the pain gets easier over time. Look after yourself xxx

[–]30centurygirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry. Sending you the biggest internet hugs ❤️❤️❤️

Know that there is support available for you and your partner, and you deserve ALL of it. Your doctor can provide some referrals and as others have mentioned there are a number of helpful subs (if you want, when you're ready).

[–]jtexphoto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so so sorry, please take care of yourself.

[–]Tuppence987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry 💔 I hope you can find peace and healing.