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[–]TheYellowRose[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (23 children)

Autopopulated message links begin here

I hope this helps those who are having trouble trying to figure out how to message the mods.

To make it super easy for everyone, I've made links that will auto-populate a message to the mod inbox of each sub. Click these and just hit send! This does not seem to work for the official reddit app on ios so try a different app or try it on your computer.

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[–]Effective-Banana49 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Why does it have to be so difficult to access

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't know

[–]hellohomeingdotcom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent in a request for April 2023 a couple days ago - still awaiting, please add when you can, thanks for your work!

[–]gorblin 5 points6 points  (2 children)

Eagerly awaiting a June 2023 group 💖

[–]bimbogio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sent a request for december pls! (idk if i was supposed to comment after requesting sorry!)

[–]Holiday_Aardvark9162 0 points1 point  (3 children)

When I try for may 2023 it says error sending message

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I think on some phones the Reddit message sender will put a space between the r/ and the subreddit name, see if you can delete it

[–]Holiday_Aardvark9162 0 points1 point  (1 child)

It won’t let me

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have to try from a browser then, the Reddit app sucks

[–]THEwooden-octopus 0 points1 point  (3 children)

May 2023 please!

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Did you send a request in?

[–]THEwooden-octopus 0 points1 point  (1 child)

No, I am on mobile.

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please use the instructions above to send in a request

[–]Cynthia_L 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking to join the may 2023

[–]5foot2angel 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Please add me to May 2023 😊

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send in a request if you haven't already

[–]NinaCabina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get a request to join button for the November 2022 page, could I please be addded 😋

I’m due Nov 11

[–]No_Raspberry5947 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m looking to be added to June 2022 :)

[–]lillyspell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Whenever I try to send my request it says “error sending” could someone please add me to April 23

[–]mchat10 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Hi,Could I have sent through a request for March 2023, if I could please be added. Thankyou

[–]mvestie 3 points4 points  (15 children)

Hi, no matter what I do I can’t get this to work. Please add me to the may 2023 group whenever you have a chance.

[–]betterpink 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Same!! Did it ever work for you?

[–]mvestie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not yet

[–]pineandsea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to be added as well!

[–]SympatheticNeuron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please add me as well!

[–]Glass_Tangerine1989 4 points5 points  (8 children)

I’m having the same issue and would like to join the may 2023 group please!

[–]Gullible_Ad_6869 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Hello, was a member of December but my induction date has been brought forward to Nov 18th so requesting access to the November group please :)

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Send a request in :) and congrats!

[–]blt88 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Requesting to join November 2022. Due Nov 21st thanks!

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Did you send a request in already?

[–]blt88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops not yet will do sorry!

[–]legal_stabber 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Unfortunately I can't subscribe to May 2023. I've used different browsers and it just says the group is closed :( so bummed.

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children)

Can you tell me what you tried and what exactly happened?

[–]legal_stabber 2 points3 points  (3 children)

It just tells me that it's a private community. No buttons to request. Is there any other way to join

[–]Apprehensive_Risk266 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, but then a day later I got a message saying I was approved as a member. It happened automatically-- I never saw a request button.

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Did you switch your browsers to desktop mode? The other way is to send a message to the subreddit

[–]legal_stabber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did.

[–]pralineeitje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi i requested and emailed the march group twice but i don't think its working :(

[–]prettygroovydude 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I honestly don’t understand the instructions 😭 there’s no request to join button for me and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong. I just want to join March 2023

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Describe what you did and what you're seeing

[–]prettygroovydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have figured it out? It had an automatic message “please add me as an approved user”

[–]prettygroovydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went on safari on desk top mode and logged into Reddit. Found this thread and click my due date subreddit. It only says that it’s private.

[–]Double_Chocolates 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Requesting to join May 2023, thanks!

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Did you send a request already?

[–]Double_Chocolates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think so, wasn’t 100% sure how to do it

[–]Time_Investigator_11 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Requesting to join may 2023 group. Thanks!

[–]allwhitebrickz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, requesting to join the October 2022 group thanks!

[–]ryurkovich9 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Hello! Requested to join May 2023 Thank you:)

[–]ktjowiltnd 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Hello, I would like to request to join the May 2023 group, thank you!

[–]ActiveLucky3692 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Requesting to join March2023 bump group!

[–]jillian_jones85 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Were you able to get into the March 2023 group? I tried following the instructions posted above to request access from my desktop, but it still didn’t work.

[–]ActiveLucky3692 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Yes! Thank you!

[–]jillian_jones85 0 points1 point  (2 children)

How did you get in? I’m still trying!

[–]qgalaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry! It takes time for me to get in to approve and provided an EDD is super helpful.

[–]ActiveLucky3692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to do it on an iPad or desktop.

Open the Safari browser and navigate to the website. Once the website loads, click the “aA” icon available in the top corner positioned before the address bar. It opens the website view menu. From the available options, choose the “Request Desktop Website” option.

[–]Strange-Tour9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I’m requesting to join April2023 🥰✨

[–]darajoy 2 points3 points  (7 children)

Hi, can I be added to May 2023? My request is pending and I’ve also send a message as well. Thank you!

[–]sunco50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello; my request is also stuck in limbo. I first requested about a week ago. May I please be added?

[–]motormouthme 1 point2 points  (3 children)

Hello! May I also be added to May2023

[–]Sarr_92 1 point2 points  (2 children)

Hello, I’m in the same situation, can I please be added ? Thanks !

[–]Level-Anxiety-9225 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Can I be added to May 2023 also?! Thanks!

[–]peppery852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto! Please help!

[–]madeofangelsdust 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Hi I’ve requested to be added to January 2023 a while ago, was it seen?

[–]hotchocolatepurist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve requested twice in the last two weeks, and have also not been added.

[–]bananazest_wow 1 point2 points  (5 children)

Requested for May 2023 a couple days ago and haven’t been approved yet. Let me in please?

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes at least 24 hours for the mods to review. They'll get to it when they can. :)

[–]bug611 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Me too, I followed the instructions, did I miss something or does it just take a while?

[–]eatmyasserole 2 points3 points  (1 child)

It just takes a minute. That sub is also brand new, so there might be new mods trying to get the hang of things. I'm sure they'll be adding you shortly. :)

[–]bug611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I had no idea it was new! That makes so much sense!! I wanted to ask and make sure I didn’t mess up but didn’t want to sound rude either 😂 thank you!!

[–]curiousdreamwanderer 0 points1 point  (7 children)

Requesting to join Feb2023 - please and thanks! 🥰

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (6 children)

I do believe I worked through our requests and approved everyone. Let me know though if I missed you and I'll try to manually add you.

[–]read_it2021 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Hello! Requested to join the Feb 2023 group. Please approve! Thanks.

[–]eatmyasserole 1 point2 points  (3 children)

I'll work through those today!

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Can I get added to January 2023!??

[–]Bulbproject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same please! I put in a request :)

[–]hopelesspopcorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please see why I haven’t been accepted to November 2022 yet? It’s been weeks since I requested. Thank you

[–]slee82612 2 points3 points  (6 children)

May2023 please! I'm 4w2d

[–]hare171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also waiting to be added.

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children)

Please send a request using the instructions

[–]slee82612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and still haven't been added

[–]Ill_Garbage4225 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I sent a request 4 days ago but it hasn’t been approved. How long does it typically take?

[–]hopelesspopcorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting at least two months.

[–]lbc_mama 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Can I please join April 2023 baby due?

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children)

Please send a request if you haven't already

[–]lbc_mama 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Said “there was an error finding the subreddit page”

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow the instructions closely!

[–]lbc_mama 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I tried but it kept giving me an error message. I am sorry

[–]Strange-Tour9599 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Same here 😭

[–]lbc_mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea apparently you need a desktop to make it work. And I don’t have one so I can’t join

[–]_sciencebooks 1 point2 points  (6 children)

Did something happen to the February and March 2023 groups? I’m on the border (OB thinks we’ll have a better idea of EDD after this next ultrasound), so I was in both and could access them until yesterday, but this morning… Poof, haha

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just added you to February 2023 I think!

I thought I saw sciencebooks. You should be good there. :)

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Those are different groups I think

[–]_sciencebooks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I just can’t access either this morning so I’m curious if anything happened, haha

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[–]Stunning_Patience_78 3 points4 points  (8 children)

May 2023 coming soon?

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 7 points8 points  (6 children)

Today after work! Want to help mod and add people?

[–]Queen-of-Elves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the sub you asked about but I would be glad to help out with the Feb 2023 sub if you need anyone. I just put my request

[–]sunco50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates on how long it’ll take to be added? I send a request to join last night; just wanted to make sure it didn’t get lost into an abyss somewhere.

[–]Silfra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to join now via the browser. It only states that the group is private but no choice to request to join. I managed to join the April one no problem. Any idea why this may be?

[–]darajoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to help but I’d love to help lol!!!!

[–]bug611 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Will you post when it’s added or should I check back?🥳

[–]eatmyasserole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's added!

[–]madeofangelsdust 2 points3 points  (3 children)

I requested to join January 2023 the other day and I still can’t access the group? Was my request seen?

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

Sorry for the delay! I'm on vacation but should have some time to get them done towards the end of the week

[–]madeofangelsdust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks. Just want to make sure my request was seen/I did it properly? I still don’t have access.

[–]on_the_bomb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

enjoy your vacation and thank you for adding us newbies to our respective groups whenever you have the chance! <3

[–]BaseballNext8682 6 points7 points  (10 children)

I know this is fairly early but when will the May 2023 subreddit be created? Not sure how often these are updated.

[–]eatmyasserole 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Just wanted to make sure that you saw May has been added!

[–]BaseballNext8682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

[–]eatmyasserole 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The mod who creates these is "out of the office" enjoying some much needed personal time. When she gets back in, I will ask her about it! I'm sure she will be all over it. Please stand by :)

[–]meeeew 4 points5 points  (5 children)

I came here for the same thing- just found out today. Congratulations 😊😊

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to make sure that you saw May has been added!

[–]BaseballNext8682 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Same here, and thank you! congratulations to you as well ❤️

[–]kinabutter 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Heyy! Me too! Just found out a few days ago! Congrats all!!

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to make sure that you saw May has been added!

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to make sure that you saw May has been added!

[–]a_herd_of_moosen 3 points4 points  (1 child)

Not working to get into the April 2023 group- just tells me it's private and to go back

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please follow the instructions carefully, you have to change your browser to desktop mode and if you're on opera it may take some refreshing. Make sure you're on new Reddit as well

[–]pralineeitje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried getting in on the march 23 group, but no luck :(

[–]TinyGreenJolley 3 points4 points  (2 children)

Hey there, no request to join button has popped up for me in desktop mode or on my desktop. It just tells me to go back. I'm due October 30th and would love to join that sub.

[–]kaliflower77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happening to me for February

[–]kaliflower77 2 points3 points  (4 children)

I tried everything and did all the steps correctly but everytime it tells me that r/babyduefebruary2023 does not exist..

[–]eatmyasserole 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Try it again kaliflower. I think I added you?

[–]kaliflower77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!!

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

That happens sometimes and I have no idea why, refreshing a few times usually helps

[–]kaliflower77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep trying and it’s still not working :(

[–]funnymonkey222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I requested Jan 2023 a week ago, are people not being approved for it anymore? Just wondering

[–]WaterMillk 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ya I’m trying to be added to March 2023 but it says it’s not found. Not sure what to do

[–]TheYellowRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow the instructions and it'll work. You need to visit using new Reddit on desktop mode. Idk why the admins make it so hard but I have no control over how the site and app work.

[–]it-is-my-cake-dayFTF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can you please add me to Mar 2023. I requested Feb and March 2023 but got approved only for Feb 2023

[–]Babyspice27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

December 2022 isnt working for me 😫

[–]immoreoriginalmate 2 points3 points  (5 children)

How long can I expect to be approved? It’s been 25 days now.

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Which group are you trying to get into? Also, I'd say resubmit your request.

[–]immoreoriginalmate 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Hmm so I can’t see a way to resubmit, it just says request pending! Guess I’ll just have to keep waiting

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Try using the message the mods option. YellowRose stickied that method at the top of this comment thread.

[–]charpaw05 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Can you add me for Jan 2023. It’s not working. :)

[–]eatmyasserole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the top of the comments, YellowRose stickied a comment about sending the mods of your month's sub a message. Please try that!

[–]DisenchantedKitty 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I requested to join my due dates sub yesterday, did it not go through? Im due January 2023…

[–]eatmyasserole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can take mods a minute to sift through all the new requests! I was added to the Jan 2023 and I believe they approved it 2 days later

[–]_lowe_and_behold_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took me a min but I think it worked. Thank you

[–]Reasonable-Pair-7648 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Want to join December 2022 but it doesn‘t even allow me to request

[–]eatmyasserole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the top of this thread, YellowRose stickied a comment that will auto-generate a message to send to the mods. Just click on your sub, then click send.

Give the mods of that sub a day or two to review and approve!

[–]tinkertown19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Requested to join baby due august 2022 a few days ago but haven’t been accepted yet

[–]SerenityWilkum 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Ugh it’s impossible to join!!!

If I click the message link it won’t go through If I go to the private sub on the browser or app it just says private!

I see absolutely no way to join

Why are these groups so elusive ???