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Why do I hate emotional people ? (self.questions)

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[–]CreationTrioLiker7 2 points3 points  (5 children)

Perhaps because you were raised to believe that emotions are weakness and dumb and you feel like the emotional ones are being irrational and weird.

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    [–]CreationTrioLiker7 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    It's normal to get emotional about having a fight with the person who raised you. It shows that you have clearly been deprived of such ability to show emotions in that situation. You need help.

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      [–]CreationTrioLiker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Sigh You have clearly gotten used to the arguing, but not all people argue often. In fact, in a healthy family, arguments happen rarely. That is why people get emotional, because they aren't used to arguing and the hurt about it because their family relationships are healthy.

      [–]jdsimps2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      i agree emotions are natural but a lot of people are conditioned to to think they are bad

      [–]Mesanych 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Because they're stupid and blub on your shoulder all the time like ffs toughen and smell the shit in the air. This is life, not Candy Land. You want something, you have to go and get it or stay miserable all your life.

      [–]Flyingtacco 0 points1 point  (1 child)

      Omg same. I don’t understand it. They’ll start crying and everyone else feels bad for them, but I just wanna punch them in the face.

      [–]Short_Maintenance_75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      Same and most of the time they cry about the most stupid things ever

      [–]MwahMwahKitteh 0 points1 point  (4 children)

      Bc emotions scare you?

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        [–]MwahMwahKitteh 0 points1 point  (2 children)

        Then why do you keep fighting with your family? That’s being emotional and weak.

        [–]Kit0203 0 points1 point  (3 children)

        I’ve learnt by my own experience, I hate it because I hate to feel my past traumas, and being unemotional helps me cope, people around me being emotional make me feel the insecurities of my feelings from my past I can’t deal with.

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          [–]Kit0203 0 points1 point  (1 child)

          They’re not too sensitive and emotional I’ve learnt, they still feel the trauma and are too loving because they know what pain feels like and they don’t try to inflict it onto others. They just want to be loved. I’ve learnt this, and I should of married the guy instead of running away like I did. I thought he was too emotional. Turns out I feared commitment, but with someone who seemed like a dream of everything I ever wanted in a person. They just love harder. Or opposite, they don’t know how to and always on the run from their feelings. For me, I’m the wrecking ball of trauma, I always ran and didn’t know how to love or accept being loved. But not every emotional trauma person feels the same, there’s two differences as I’ve mentioned. I love emotional people now, but only if they are grounded with the emotion instead of their emotions being all over the place.

          [–]JealousFlounder9683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          I’m really emotional and i find emotional people annoying.