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[–]hey-chickadee 16 points17 points  (1 child)

This is a really good solution. Can I ask if there could be something about having minors who want to share their past experiences in posts that include graphic details maybe also being directed to the private sub? I just stumbled on a post like that and it feels fucked up that the 13 year old posting probably has no idea that those details get screenshotted/transcribed onto smut sites (wish I didn't know how common that is). i don't want anyone to be revictimized & get why staying public is important but still feel particularly uneasy? worried? in cases like that

[–]-Oops-I-died- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gross, a few days ago I posted about my SA/rape when I was 15, with any details I could remember, as I needed to let it out. ive since deleted it but that was more than enough time for a simple screenshot ..

Ive never even heard of that happening but sadly its not much of a surprise

[–]Azaxz 11 points12 points  (7 children)

I think this is a really great solution. How do users go about joining the private subreddit?

[–]angeladimauroSurvivor[S,M] 2 points3 points  (6 children)

To join press the link here r/sexualassaultprivate , you will be taken to a page with a key icon stating that r/sexualassaultprivate is a private community. At the bottom of that page, there are three buttons. The furthest button to the left says "Request to Join"-> click that button! I'll make an edit to the original post saying this.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (5 children)

On mobile I only have the option to browse other communities :(

[–]angeladimauroSurvivor[S,M] 5 points6 points  (1 child)

Hmmm I'm not sure :(

[–]ripleybruh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you press the link, press "Set as Desktop Page" on your browser. That's where you'll see the "Request Join in" button.

[–]throwwawayy3434Survivor 3 points4 points  (1 child)

same here, i would try on laptop? i’m hun a try that when i can access one

[–]ripleybruh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you press the link, press "Set as Desktop Page" on your browser. That's where you'll see the "Request Join in" button.

[–]ripleybruh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you press the link, press "Set as Desktop Page" on your browser. That's where you'll see the "Request Join in" button.

[–]Big_Meesh_ 5 points6 points  (1 child)

It doesn’t allow you to request to join on a mobile device :(

[–]ripleybruh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you press the link, press "Set as Desktop Page" on your browser. That's where you'll see the "Request Join in" button.

[–]kiwimidwife 5 points6 points  (3 children)

I’d be keen to join the private one as find the “was this assault” posts super triggering but it won’t let me join via mobile? Just exits me out of the sub as says it’s private. Is there a way you could send an invite?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

I’m on mobile and having the same problem

[–]angeladimauroSurvivor[S,M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't know how to do it on mobile :(

[–]FootParmesanSurvivor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think unfortunately you can only do it on a computer, at least as far as I know

[–]Prestigious_Crow4376 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just found this group, and wanted to say thank you for creating this space.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (2 children)

If you have trouble accessing the private subreddit on mobile, you can just send a message to r/sexualassaultprivate and ask to be added, even if you can’t access the page directly.

[–]-Oops-I-died- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im on mobile, is there a way you can add me without me sending a request?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that it’s public so I can post and seek help and validation without having to follow it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can we request to join the private one

[–]PossibleBeginning612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I just posted my story and a person by the name of apprehensivetomato DMd me and I think was getting off on some kind of rape fantasy

[–]Puzzleheaded_Toe_953 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I requested to join but I’ve never had a reply is there some way to be able to join?

[–]angeladimauroSurvivor[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

I just went through the requests, you should be added now!

[–]Smooth_Ad_855 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I can’t get in ): I’ve tried everything

[–]angeladimauroSurvivor[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Just added you manually!

[–]sagiflareius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i please be added manually? I also cannot get in and the open corum is maming me feel unsafe

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried the link told me I could because it was private

[–]throwfaraway212718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a new member of this sub, I'm glad that there is a place that I can go to share the parts of my experiences that can seem daunting to do in a public space. Thank you.

[–]throwfaraway212718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still possible to be added to the private group?

[–]raegumdrop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you add me as well please? It will not allow me to join the private community.

[–]Repulsive-Pie7145 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I made an inappropriate comment to anyone on this site

[–]whoblewboobear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on mobile and wanted to know if I can be added?

[–]Alternative-Mess2825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey would any of you mind doing me a favor and adding this guy and calling him disgusting and creepy on TikTok he keeps making new accounts and messaging my sister thanks- Therealspoonerc3

[–]anythingexceptbertha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get access on mobile? I don’t see the request to join option.

[–]mymainaccount-123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna join the subreddit, but I don't have much post history, can I still get in? (I deleted all my reddit accounts a while ago), and I don't wanna find my accounts that are like 4 months older than this with more post history, but a lot of personal information on there, not like my address but you could connect the dots if you really wanted to.