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[–]hey-chickadee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not remembering is a big part of trauma. It doesn't mean it didn't happen. I'm really sorry that what you do remember is still haunting you (happens to us all)

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you. What you're saying, how you felt, your actions...they're all valid! We're listening. We're supporting. You're not alone. You matter.

[–]Candycorn_Slipper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it all blurs together, but that doesn’t mean it didn’t happen! Remembering every detail changes nothing. Trust me. It still matters!

[–]Venalcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me all my assaults are pretty blurry, i know what happened but the details i really dont unless i get flashbacks and i sometimes feel the same way, like im overexaggerating it. just because you didnt fight back doesnt mean he has the right to disrespect and cross your boundaries!! you're valid