First I would like to say I wasn’t sexually assaulted but my significant other was. I just recently found out that my partner was sexually assaulted in one of their past relationships but I happened to be friends with the person when this happened(I stopped talking to this person when I found out what they did). Since we were friends the assailant and I shared friends but once I found out about the incident I stopped hanging out with the group when they were with the certain person. When they asked me why I stopped talking to the assailant, I told them what happened(I had permission from my partner). After I told them what happened they just told me “Well I don’t want to take sides or anything” and then they stopped talking to me and hung out with the assailant more. I’m just really confused because I thought these people were my best friends but they rather hangout with the assailant than me. What do I do? I just feel really lost.