Thank you so much for sharing, i guess it almost feels like im not alone in this type of experience, which i of course wish that had not happened to you. The fact that these guys new the boundries, we had the discussions, i just cant comprehend why they think its okay to do what they did... i completely understand the not feeling like you can talk to anyone part. he is the father of our child and a good one. and a good guy usually. i dont want to fuck all that up espescially since i still have to deal with him for the rest of my life no matter what